okay, well i really liked this guy last year, and i mean REALLY. i couldn't bear to ask him out myself so my friend did it. she made a big mistake by asking him out in public and the guy said all these horrible things about me. this year, he likes me and a part of me says "give him another chance and go out with him", and another part of me says "no, think about what he did to you!!!!" i know that part of me is wrong, but sometimes it feels right! then when i see him with one of my best friends talking and stuff, i feel this tiny spark of jealousy...what should i do?
2006-12-22 05:29:04 · 9 answers · asked by natalie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow...he asked me out over AIM...heres the convo
c (lets call him cam): hey
n:hey...
c:what are you doing
n: homework and stuff
c:cool cool
n: yeah...
c: hey would it be alright if i uh, had your number?
n: i don't think so
c:oh...i just wanted to get to know you better
n: well thanks but no thanks
c: oh...can i ask you something
n: sure
c: how come we never talk
n: do you seriously have to ask?
c: well...
n: we never talk because i don't want to get to know you any better than i already do
c: is there something wrong with me? how come you don't like me?
n: i don't have to take this. bye
then i signed off. see what i mean? i shouldn't have been so mean and now i feel really bad...but then this other part kicks in, like an alter ego. i've given the alter ego a name, my name in italian, natalia. i might seem weird but natalia is this different person. if anyone watches heroes then you'll know what i mean. she'll kick in whenever i'm having a convo with someone.
2006-12-22 07:07:41 · update #1
oops i forgot the ask out part
c: wait, don't leave
n: what
c: would you, by any chance want to go out with me
n: no
2006-12-22 07:14:05 · update #2
honey, life is about all the screw ups and the second chances. i say give him another chance, you don't kow what was running through the guys mind at the time of the insult, i mean your friend was a little crazy in the head to ask him out in front of everyone....maybe he was nervous and didn't know what to say and started throwing out insults, the male mind is so different from the females WHO KNOWS what the boy was thinking. call him up and tell him that YOU'D like a second chance, and that you want to start things over. just like a movie.
2006-12-22 13:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never dream of going out with a guy like that! Saying horrible things about you when you were too shy in the first place to ask him out yourself? In public? Forget about him, he's not worth it.
Unless, of course, he asks YOU out and is willing to get down on his knees - publicly - and apologize! LOL
2006-12-22 05:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by aggie babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ask your best friend what she thinks you should do. If you don't like what she has to say do exactly the opposite.
2006-12-22 05:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say give him a chance. Everyone makes mistakes, and people change as well as their outlooks on others.
2006-12-22 05:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by SideStrike 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance. People change. But don't let him forget that he owes you an apoligy.
2006-12-22 05:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by smalltownman501 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously, you still like him..
and just thinking that he hurt you before you guys
were even dating probably made you think
of what he would possibly do in the future.
I think you should talk to him
2006-12-22 05:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him!! What he did to you. I would go find another guy who is really nice and would NEVER DO WHAT THIS GUY DID TO YOU!! Keep looking! :]
2006-12-22 05:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him and see how is goes....you never know he might be your soul mate...
2006-12-22 05:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by London Pearl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you date someone who insulted you and much more,in public?he's a loser! find someone worth your time
2006-12-22 05:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋