I just broke up with my boyfriend of a year, who wasn't exactly God's gift to women. I did give my heart to him, but I could never seem to have his. Two days after I broke up with him, with him knowing how I still felt about him, he went to a work party. I found out by him that he went alone, and didn't dance with anybody. I find out by 5 other people who were there also that he took another woman with him, and danced with several others. Then, a week later, he went to the work Christmas party. He said he took a friend with him whom her fiance' stayed in the lobby and gambled, and didn't dance, and he went home by 9:30. I hear from several other people that he danced with her the whole evening, and he got caught by his friend whom he went in on a motel room with for the night in the "act" with her. Who should I believe?
2006-12-22 05:42:31 · 19 answers · asked by southern belle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What does it matter, you two are broken up...he can go out with and dance with whomever he chooses.
I'd leave the drama/games behind and move on with my life...what he does is his biz and I'd make it clear to everyone that I don't care to hear about it. That way you won't have to worry about conflicting stories.
2006-12-22 05:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who are these other people,are they friends or could they be trying to split you up,but if you felt like he never loved you,then you deserve more anyway,there are a couple of incidents,i would tend to believe the other people,by the sound of it-it was far from perfect.He might not want you to know in case at a later date you get back together,Move on forget about it and find someone who deserves you,its the best time of year to do it,take care and good luck
2006-12-22 05:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you did break up with him before all this happened, so really, he can do what he wants to do....he's unattached If you still had feelings for him, then you shouldn't have broke up with him. He may lie to you, thinking maybe he'll get back with you. But to be honest with you, he's single now, and what he does is really of no concern to you. You can go and have a good time also. Sorry for being so blunt....I wish you the best of luck......I hope you situation improves soon......Merry Christmas.
2006-12-22 05:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter you two are broke up. It is none of your business who he is with or what they are doing.... Just ignore these people and forget this man find someone else........
It is showen that he no longer wants you or has feelings for you doing what he has done.... Just move on let him be with whoever he wants.... You said so yourself he wasn;t much so stop worring about what he does and start you a new life with someone you can love and be loved back by Good Luck
2006-12-22 05:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe the other people. If a lot of people are contridicting what he's doing, then why not believe them? They aren't out to get him or out of get you, why would they lie when he has all the reason to lie?
2006-12-22 05:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt believe your ex because it sounds like he wants you to think he's innocent and 'good'. maybe even wants another chance with you. other people...5? have all seen it, and say the same thing. hope this is making sense...and the answer you're looking for.
2006-12-22 05:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say believe the other people unless they are jealous women who are just trying to cause drama cuz that often happens
2006-12-22 05:46:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if every ones saying the same thing then you should believe them.
2006-12-22 05:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truley love him then believe him........realationships are about trust and maybe the people who told you that are just wanting you guys to stay broken up.....
2006-12-22 05:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I read is i heard i heard i heard i heard i heard i heard i heard i heard, i think you need to ASK the persons involved instead of fretting about things and presuming somethings
2006-12-22 05:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by arelente2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋