Singles & Dating - 20 December 2006

there is a man in nigeria who is 30 years old I am 48 he says he is madly in love with me. we have been talking for almost 8 months now. He talked about coming to see me and he attempted to twice, but could not make it. Am I being a fool. He has not asked me for anything we just chat and talk about our feelings, I hear Nigeria is a country full of scammers but they all cant be that way. what would you do in my situation.I have fallen in love with him also and I want to believe him and trust him and I am nieve sometimes I choose to see the good in people, but I hear so many bad things about Nigeria. Is he into illegal things that I dont know about. He said he works at some company that is there doing a job for USA and he is from Florida. Please someone give me some advice. He really sounds sincere but I am now questioning myself. whenever I dont hear from him for a day or two I start thinking things like he is not sincere. is that my insecurity or he may have more womam online chatting!

2006-12-20 18:36:44 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1

I am just wondering because there is this really hot Russian guy in my class :)

Example: Do they like shy or outgoing girls ?

Please give me all the information you have :)
Thanks for your help :)

2006-12-20 18:36:25 · 3 answers · asked by Tessa L 1

its been like 2 1/2 mth's after i broke up with my girl,
( the reason was that she wanted to get more in church and i couldnt be there with her to support her,and we couldnt spend as much time together, cause she was always in church, so we both decided to brake-it off) but the thing is that i still have feeling for her but i havnt called her ever since the Break-up? should i call her to see how she's doin?

2006-12-20 18:36:23 · 3 answers · asked by Myke G.28 1

2006-12-20 18:34:36 · 10 answers · asked by coolguy 2

i'm having a big very big problem.i separeted from my abusive boyfriend around february this year.When i decide to do so he pleaded not to leave and threatens to commit sucide.Currently i am going out with my new boyfriend.I loved him very much.now he is trying kill him.he set up some gangster to push him from his bike when he was riding his bike.there are several other attempt. Help me how do i save my love from my ex boy friend

2006-12-20 18:34:07 · 8 answers · asked by shivanie m 2

... he tells me the good ones take longer to get? I told him to take it slow with me and he said its ok cause the good ones take longer to get.

2006-12-20 18:32:40 · 9 answers · asked by coochie1 2

the guy even played a guessing game and if i answered wrong, he will kiss me..in the end he is inviting me to go to a motel..But I am not that totally aggressive. And after that he would occasionally text me to go to his place, and I know what will happen..Did I gace a really bad impression? I don't think he will take me seriously..

2006-12-20 18:30:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i posted a personals ad on a website and this really cute girl replied to it and now we are talking through e-mail and i am supossed to call and talk to her on the phone she lives in my home town about an hour away from where i now live what is the next step after calling and talking to her and how do i go about going through with it i haven't had a serious relationship in almost 5 years please help me

2006-12-20 18:27:56 · 20 answers · asked by Daniel W 1

this kinda stuff isnt really my thing but im gonna do it on new years. i kinda got this one thing but its really corny :
im proposing to you on new years because i want to spend this year and all the years to come with you .


oh god i know it sucks so plz help me out here !!

2006-12-20 18:24:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I gave this girl this letter well here's what it said When we first talk and after the conversation was over I started to like you. So everytime when you talk to me I get butterflies and feel tigly inside. Also when we make eye contact I get nervous. That's why you see me not making too much eye contact with you. I enjoy your company. I still have a crush on you.When you told me you might get another job I was sad. You're such a sweet,kind, and caring person. Your very pretty.You have such a beautiful smile and it makes me smile too. You have pretty blue eyes. I can't stop thinking about you. Your always on my mind. If you don't like me the way I like you. I'll understand and we can just be friends.
I gave it to her yesterday and I saw her today and she didn't say anything about it. I didn't asked her about it. I was kinda down today and really didn't feel like talking. Anyways I didn't tease her back or flirt with her back because she has a boyfriend. I played it cool and kinda ignore her I just wasn't in the mood to talk. And she knew that. Anyways she thought I lost interest in her so she said "You don't like me anymore" and walk away fast and look back at me and smile at me. She knows I still like her, but she has a boyfriend. Today I heard her say on the phone she said to him "I love you." In front of me. So what do you think my chances are with this girl?

2006-12-20 18:23:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lost my virginity when i was 17 yrs old. Had my son at 20 yrs old. I am now 22 yrs old. I have only been with 6 guys. Would I be considered inexperianced? I know alot of girls around my age have been with at least 10 guys, some even as many as 20 or more. Is it a turn off for a girl to be a little less experanced than alot of other people, or do guys appreciate that in a girl?

2006-12-20 18:22:20 · 15 answers · asked by strippenho_69 1

...e???? I'm 20 years old in college. I've never been on a date or done anything with a girl for that matter ;), but i'm definitly straight.

2006-12-20 18:19:32 · 21 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6

how do u no if a guy likes u ? but doesnt talk to u? he'z quiet but talks to his family & friends. & doesnt talk to u much (hardly) . & when he does its not much. not much at all . & u cant talk to his friends cuz u dont no them & ur kinda shy. lol.

2006-12-20 18:15:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

The guy that I like and who is kind of interested in me says he likes a girl who likes to party. However, anytime I have a drink in my hand he seems less attracted to me than when I'm sober and being my sweet and innocent self. So what does he want? The life of the party that I can be or the sweet church mouse that I am?

2006-12-20 18:15:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

choco taco has the following dilemma:
"girl 1 seems like the girl of my dreams, but it'll prob take a long time to get her
girl 2 gives great head and i can prob bag her in a week
they are both in my physio class, i got 1 day to decide "
check out his other questions at:
http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=AgHpaXFhg3X_4AIba_OLGsIezKIX?show=6d9e27aef0c24bde3b6801acdbd3a75baa

2006-12-20 18:13:03 · 4 answers · asked by whatuknowaboutthatisback 2

I have been trying to figure out what is means if a girl gets 3 star tattoos in a row on their hips?

2006-12-20 18:11:16 · 9 answers · asked by Joe 2

embarrassing poleroids of me naked along with her too but she put her ring around my erection and it got stuck, i eventually got it unstuck with baby oil,she still has the ring,i bought it for her its a quarter carrit i dont want it back because of this embarressing memory,how do i get the photos back forsfull or gentle?

2006-12-20 18:09:08 · 5 answers · asked by small b 1

2006-12-20 18:08:47 · 5 answers · asked by persianooo 1

but i secretely fantasise them. how to come out of my shell.

2006-12-20 18:06:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-20 18:05:42 · 6 answers · asked by ellehcor 1

A guy whom I dated briefly years ago found me online on match personal ad 2 months ago.
We lived long distance and I happen to be moving home.
He knew that I wouldnt be moving home until around New Year's.
He acted all excited & happy for a while.
Problem is is that he keeps updating his ad on match (I only know because he fits my search criteria when I look for matches) (adding pics of his possessions to seem more attractive I guess) and recently asked me if Id be interested in being 'friends with benefits' when I move home. (wow insulting no one has ever brought up that with me)
I guess I should give up on him and see that he just considers me booty call and not a potential girlfriend.
Im depressed because at first he acted like he wanted to date when I moved home.
Also depressed because there are hardly any single men 29-35 where Im moving back to......
Should I bother contacting him when I move home next week ? He keeps saying he cant wait to see me, but I think its bull.

2006-12-20 18:05:39 · 6 answers · asked by Leea 1

I told him I did. He said he was jusy wondering. Is this true? Does he like me back? He also said he wanted to get to know better. Guys what do you think?

2006-12-20 18:03:24 · 5 answers · asked by MT 2

Ok, so there is this really super sexy Russian guy in my class and when I say sexy I mean like OMG sexy, his accent is so hot, but anyway I really wanted to ask him out but I do not know if that would be to forward, so I just wanted to know how Russian people view dating.


Questions
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1.Do guys normally ask girls out in Russia ?
2.How should I ask him out ?
3.Aren't Russian accents sooooooo sexy (Grrrrrr) ?


Other Information
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1.I have briefly talked to him in class a couple of times
2.He knows my name,because he always says hi to me
3.He stares at me alot, so I don't know if that means anything
4.He seems kind of shy
5.We are both 19


Thanks so much for answering my questions, sorry it is so long :)

2006-12-20 17:59:58 · 11 answers · asked by Tessa L 1

2006-12-20 17:57:06 · 10 answers · asked by driksankar 2

this kinda stuff isnt really my thing but im gonna do it on new years. i kinda got this one thing but its really corny :
im proposing to you on new years because i want to spend this year and all the years to come with you .


oh god i know it sucks so plz help me out here !!

2006-12-20 17:54:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

shes cute and well shes got this little black mustache that bugs the hell out of me like so thin u can only see it if your on the side of her its pretty gross what should i do

2006-12-20 17:53:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a girl who likes a guy. Is it wrong if i call and tell that guy that I like him first? I'm just real curious.

2006-12-20 17:52:52 · 12 answers · asked by candi=yummi 1

Me personally, maybe I can't say, because I'm a virgin and stuff.. but from lke people in general and the media and what not, it just seems like people are so into likeing people for their bodies. Using them for their bodies, adoring them for their bodies. When actuallity doesn't it get old? I mean why do people love "hot" looking people so much? Do you think it's just a habit with main stream because media like tv and stuff tells us we're supposed too? I honestly think its wrong to think of someone just for thier body? I don't understand how looks and what's "hot or not" have become so important in being a happy person? What are these people trying to accomplish? When you say someone was sooooo hot or cute who really cares? There are A LOT of hot people out there, but when you come down to it when someone first takes interest in you because they think you are cute or hot, do they just want to you use you? Shouldn't the best real relationship be built on compatibility rather than sex?

2006-12-20 17:52:10 · 8 answers · asked by genuine♥ 3

When we're doing sixty-nine, to want to put my nose on my GF's a**hole and smell it?

Thanks!

2006-12-20 17:51:31 · 12 answers · asked by fawooom 1

"girl 1 seems like the girl of my dreams, but it'll prob take a long time to get her
girl 2 gives great head and i can prob bag her in a week
they are both in my physio class, i got 1 day to decide "

this was his question he wanted me to ask, also check out his question page
http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=AgHpaXFhg3X_4AIba_OLGsIezKIX?show=6d9e27aef0c24bde3b6801acdbd3a75baa
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well i think girl 1 maybe cuz he's talked to her more, but she's older and he wants a girl that can shake it like a saltshaker is what he told me

2006-12-20 17:51:21 · 3 answers · asked by whatuknowaboutthatisback 2