The guy that I like and who is kind of interested in me says he likes a girl who likes to party. However, anytime I have a drink in my hand he seems less attracted to me than when I'm sober and being my sweet and innocent self. So what does he want? The life of the party that I can be or the sweet church mouse that I am?
2006-12-20 18:15:55 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be the sweet little church mouse that you are!! Let him find a party slut while you go off to find a sweet little church mouse.
2006-12-20 18:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by Lexi Lexington 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, My first boyfriend was like that. I thought I loved him and I could not do any better. Thank god I didn't let myself get caught up in the hype of teenage love. He was just like this at first...then after a while he wanted to have sex, I said NO and he told me if I didn't have sex with him he would find it from someone else. Its funny but every time he said that to me I really could of cared less. That is really how I know I didn't love him and how I know he didn't love me. So I never gave in and I never had sex with him. I am a very sweet and innocent type and I love that about myself and I'm so happy I didn't let him turn me into a party girl. I then started dating the man that today I call my husband. He loves the fact that I'm sweet and innocent. He loves the fact that I don't party all the time (its ok to let down your hair once in a while), and he loves the fact that he is the only guy to have had sex with me. And you know what, he is a GREAT guy. He's HOT, SWEET, SMART, FUNNY, LOVING, CARING....he is really everything that any girl wants in a man. We have a great marriage and I'm really happy that I chose the road of sweet and innocents. Other wise I would be alone right now. Please don't let a guy take away the innocents of yourself. No matter what he says!!!
2006-12-21 03:05:14 · answer #2 · answered by dohm84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! A wise man once said "Ye can Party everday if they rock and roll all night!" Now I do understand a concern that achol could become an issue so I would very HIGHLY suggest cutting down or even having none at all (Subsitute Diet coke for Achol) Hey its very much possible to be a PARTY ANIMAL without achol probs just Limit yourself make goals on the fridge if nessarry
2006-12-21 02:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey don't tat to person guys are confused and they tend to confuse those around them.
That said when you party are you having a casual drink or getting plaster u seem to be going from one extreme to the other. Now i could. be wrong but i think it would be better if you found a comfortable place between the two.
Maybe you could save the getting drunk and free spirited u for when the two of you are alone, and drink casually without getting to wound up in public- that is if you can be that without all that booze in your system!
2006-12-21 02:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the life of the party doesn't have a lot to do with booze-if you are fun, laugh, make conversation, tear up the dance floor then that would be the life of the party-not someone trying hard to "fit in" by carrying a drink around...
2006-12-21 02:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by bikinibabewannabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me you are to interested in what others want you to be than what you yourself wants to be--You need to do what makes you comfortable--if drinking is something you don't like and you have more fun without it then don't drink!!! Liking to party doesn't mean drinking --it just means being fun and outgoing when you are out with your friends--Just do what you like to have fun--
2006-12-21 02:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDING THE ALARM! SOUNDING THE ALARM!
Do NOT--I repeat, DO NOT--change yourself for a dumb guy, especially one who like partying girls! Ask yourself, do you want a partying guy? One who constantly drinks and can't carry on a coherent conversation??? You're way too good for that! Just be yourself. Maybe you will grow on him. But please, don't turn into a drunk slut for the sake of his attention.
2006-12-21 02:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is probably fcuking with your mind-saying he likes girls who party, but just seeing how willing you are towads him or if you do really pardy hardy-and that can be a true test of who you are, and then it might a turn off-it sounds like it does turn him off, and like he is testing you-don't be so naive-what guy likes a trashy girl?
2006-12-21 02:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah, classic advice is if you gotta change that drastically for him, he's probably not right for you.
secondly, it is a well known fact guys shouldn't party with their girlfriends or girls they're interested in. Almost a law.
2006-12-21 02:19:31 · answer #9 · answered by adklsjfklsdj 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sweet..
If he is interested in you he would be interested in YOU.
If he wants to change you then you need to peace out on this guy.
2006-12-21 02:20:40 · answer #10 · answered by bangyonglo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋