...e???? I'm 20 years old in college. I've never been on a date or done anything with a girl for that matter ;), but i'm definitly straight.
2006-12-20 18:19:32 · 21 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like everybody but me likes to drink and party
2006-12-20 18:29:23 · update #1
YAY omg you're so rare! You are just like me lol I'm 20 and I never party, never drink, never had sex, none of that. So let me tell you, you are a cut above the average person and if you're like me you walk your own path and don't blindly follow the crowds. Choosing not to drink and party is our choice and people should respect it. I think a guy like you will have trouble finding the right girl cause let's face it, people like us are few and far between, but I'm sure somewhere out there you'll find someone special :) Good luck and keep being good and straight!! There's too few of us lol And YES I am a nerd and I love it XD
2006-12-20 18:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, or atleast not for the most part. I understand the conservative types, and I'm not much of a party freak either. I've never drank in my life and if I ever do, it would be for experimental purposes. I don't ever want to get addicted to drinking, besides that it kills brain cells
You don't have to be the party type to fit in anyway, just pave your own road and find friends that follow your same beliefs. Thats all that matters, your opinion really..
But one way or another, we all need to loosen up and just relax and have fun every now and then! Going to parties definetly makes you more sociable and outgoing though, so good luck with that! (:
2006-12-21 02:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya mate. We're in the same boat, although I'm older.
Of course it doesn't make you undesirable. If you hang out with some top friends, then they know the way you feel and will make sure you are comfortable in your social life (or lack of :)
So definitely don't be put off by the idea that because you don't drink and are single that you are not likeable. What a crock!
Be yourself, and put yourself out there once in a while. Things will work out.
All the best.
2006-12-21 02:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being quiet and not going out partying.I'm 22 and I don't do that.I though go out with friends for drinks but dude you sure have to start dating girls.Just once get the guts to ask a girl to go for a drink then you'll see the second time will be much easier.Go out in groups and meet someone that way.You're a true gentleman if you never tried taking advantage of a girl and let me tell you something girls don't like guys taking advantage of them.Give it a try.Nothing wrong with you not partying.
2006-12-21 02:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by cotto96 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I don't find that a bad thing. I'm in the same situation, I don't party or drink and haven't been on a date (for a relationship). Just wait for the right person. They come around, but she may be right in front of you, you just have to open your eyes to see her.
2006-12-21 02:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by Carolyn R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a gamer? if yes, that's typical of gamers. I know a few guys that doesn't do much, don't like to party, don't get girls, but play games all day.
because you don't like to party, drink, socialize, it doesn't necessarily make you undersirable, but you don't meet people if you don't go out and do those kind of things. And when you do meet a girl or a person, you might be seen as a boring person and that other person might not want to hang out or whatever. But if you're talkative and have a cool attitude, then you shouldn't be undersirable.
2006-12-21 02:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by HMONG 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it will only make you un desirable to girls who are only interested in going out to crowded social places, but that doesnt matter cos you wouldnt want to be with them anyway if you have different ideas of a good time. it will make you MORE desirable to girls who feel the same way as you so its actually a good thing - it will hel you attract the right person
2006-12-21 02:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are doing what I wish more young people were doing--Getting a great education and taking it seriously--You have lots of time to date and get frisky --just now get the education ,the career,the location, the home and the car of your dreams then find that special someone to share in your empire!!!! Its called getting your ducks in a row--And trust me you will be highly desirable when you know who you are and where you are going in life---Trust me
2006-12-21 02:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're not undesirable, but how do you expect to meet nice, interesting, attractive girls if you are in your dorm alone!!?? Even if you meet a girl and decide you like her, they're not going to know yo uenough to like you and see you for who you really are. Don't think about hiitting a home run before getting to first base (wink wink). and before you worry about kissing a girl first just work on being nice and making yourself approcable and put yourselves in situations , sch as parties, that will lead to meeting girls.
there's more to parting then drinking (it's good you don't drink). you can kareokee, swim (tips on how to get TOPLESS WOMEN http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=An9zTeGTUB91TXdSaHDj6wjsy6IX?qid=20061219234210AANJPyK ) , and most of all dance for fun (doesn't have to be intimate)
2006-12-21 02:24:58 · answer #9 · answered by thank you come again 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was older, you would be my dream guy. I have to be with someone but I hate crowds, will never do anything with a guy unless I am married to him, and I'm only 13 so I DEFINATLY don't drink. Those are all VERY desirable traits. I would date you!
2006-12-21 02:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by XxXTaRaXxX 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋