but i secretely fantasise them. how to come out of my shell.
2006-12-20 18:06:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
might be because, you are not sure, whether you can handle the situation with a guy. Its call super man urge..
wanna be perfect always.
Relax, and dont try to be perfect. Be happy of what you are, and what you do.
Enjoy
2006-12-21 19:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by Ramses-the son of light 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most probably u did ur schooling in a girls convent school..those nuns are capable of turning girls into mouses,believe me..just remember that nothin is wrong with u,it is very natural and normal to fantasise about guys..
think of guys as people first,then as guys..they are no different from ur brothers,ur not afraid of them,rite?think,some of them are afraid of girls,too!
2006-12-20 18:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by judytheobscure 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi neha...read ur prob....see yaar 1 thing ur afraid of guys is due to the fact that u might have seen how bad guys can be...probably ur frns might be in a relationship which ended since the guys cheated them...so u probably r in a shell where u think mostly guys r like that only...which is not true...as far m concerned its not a question of gender...trust doesnt depend on gender....after all a lotus blooms in d dirt only...so keep ur hopes alive...n try to be normal..be frns with a guy n try 2 knw him...if he is genuine u will find ur heart confirming it 2u....i hope this helps..
2006-12-20 21:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by rajdebrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being shy. That is the first step to stop being scared from guys. Remember guys are humans too just like you, me and everybody else here.
Go out more and feel free to talk to anyone you see. Good Luck
2006-12-20 18:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some reasons why you're scared... your father may be a bullier, or he may have a bad temper. your brother/s (if you have any) may also be bulliers or have bad tempers too. you've seen/heard scenes/stories of guys abusing/intimidating girls. you don't know how to react to guys or what to say to them. you're afraid that if you give your love to a guy you will lose it (a break-up). there are many other reasons and i think you have the reason somewhere in you... if you don't know, sit down somewhere quiet and ask yourself questions and reply them truthfully--find yourself...
then just BE yourself,be confident, and be patient and guys will come to you :)
2006-12-20 18:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming you're a girl, if yes, there might be something that created this feeling...try to hang around guys from your family or their close friends and little by little you can start meeting new guys...remember guys don't bite.
2006-12-20 18:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by Louy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk 2 dem
Befreind dem
But dont dream
2006-12-20 18:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by ur friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make friends with the guy you fantasize about & let things unfold naturally.
Don't hold any bars & be confident of yourself. Be care ful too at the same time.
2006-12-20 19:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend that ur not scared and just have a casual conversation .... after a few experiences u'll see that u have become confident speaking to guys without any pretension...
2006-12-20 18:45:37 · answer #9 · answered by carl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys are bad or dangerous or flirters.
yu need to come out and look.
sometimes it might make yu shed a few tears.
but the experience is well worth it.
best of luck.
(email me if yu wanna. go to my profiel. i am a nice guyLOL)
2006-12-20 18:10:03 · answer #10 · answered by queryboy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋