the guy even played a guessing game and if i answered wrong, he will kiss me..in the end he is inviting me to go to a motel..But I am not that totally aggressive. And after that he would occasionally text me to go to his place, and I know what will happen..Did I gace a really bad impression? I don't think he will take me seriously..
2006-12-20 18:30:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's normal behavior, it may just not be right for you since you're uncomfortable with it. Don't engage in any behavior which makes you uncomfortable if you don't have to. Just do it responsibly if you're going to do it.
2006-12-20 18:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't expect a long-term relationship out of it, that is for sure. In the long run, if you began your relationship by playing a kissing game in a bar, he is going to think you are easy and will kiss (or more) any guy in any bar for any reason. If you go to his hotel or meet up at his place, he is going to expect you to have sex with him and may even guilt you into it or force himself on you because you were a tease for playing a kissing game in a bar. If he rapes you, it would be harder to prove because he will have a barful of witnesses, including your friends, who saw you kissing him in the bar.
2006-12-21 02:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first impression that you gave him was that you were easy. If he keeps calling you then it is only based on the assumption that if you would make out with a stranger you are willing to go all the way. Any woman that would portray herself in that light especially with a stranger, is not someone you take home to Mom.
2006-12-21 03:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he doesn't take you seriously, although you could be hinting on that you do want to go to his place. But since you are so inexperienced in this area, I suggest you explore it at least a little more before you skip past 3rd base and he hits the home run... if you catch my drift.
2006-12-21 02:34:10 · answer #4 · answered by JackDaniels024 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. You just enjoy kissing and met someone who is a good kisser. Nothing wrong with that. Good idea though that you didn't go to his motel. Best to get to know someone. Not judging, it's just safer.
2006-12-21 02:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by danaluana 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i dont think he considered gong any farther than a one night stand. how many times have you asked a married couple how they met and they told you that they met at a bar, got drunk and ****** in a motel room that night? im not saying its wrong but how seriously did you want him to take you?
2006-12-21 02:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
if you're having fun, then cool. if not, back off and don't deal with him. sex is as much yours as his, and if you want a relationship it's a lot more than sex, but if you just want to have fun, be careful and take precautions... and have a blast!
2006-12-21 02:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by Cleo V 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just don't tell your wife.
2006-12-21 02:32:38 · answer #8 · answered by Astro Gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you go girl. we need more kissin gals like you for the taking.
2006-12-21 02:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
ok you're stupid..seriously of course it's wrong!
2006-12-21 02:33:03 · answer #10 · answered by cavigirl17 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋