Singles & Dating - 20 December 2006

He has lied to me since the first day he moved in with me. I saw his e-mail which he left open on my computer from a girl that he was also seeing. I forgave him but he still after 2 yrs gets caught in lies, not coming home, not answering cell phone, hides cell when home or turns it off and never will you find it other than his pants pocket. I have caught him with another cell phone that I never knew he owned, He is obsessed with hiding all info on computer. Why does he always accuse me of cheating? Yeah at times It may look that way because I'm so angry, but come on now he has to know why? I've caught him telling his friend that I constantly accuse him of cheating and that I'm insecure, but he fails to mention none of the crap that he has done to make me feel this way? He even lies to his own friends. Can this relationship ever be real?

2006-12-20 22:04:58 · 20 answers · asked by imajen66 1

what a girl need from her boy friend?

2006-12-20 22:03:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

by sharing his thoughts and feelings with me.

Thanks to all who help me with this question.

2006-12-20 22:02:08 · 5 answers · asked by happy inside 6

Im shattered...after going out for a year me and my girlfriend have broken up (mutual thing) but the problem is its silly cos we both still really have strong feelings for each other. The timing just not right for us because her parents are going through a nasty divorce and shes an emotional wreck at the moment. We both agreed that we would be better off and happier to leave the relationship now before things got really bad between us and so she wouldnt put me through all her pain. I wanted to be there for her through this but she decided it was best for me not too. But she is the girl i want to end up with and i just hope that one day we can get back together and give it another shot. Yet im worried that as time goes by we will most likely move on and find other people. We broke up on really good terms and have agreed to stay close friends...i just really hope that by doing that it leaves the door open for us to be together again. Is this likely or am i just giving myself false hope?

2006-12-20 22:01:41 · 5 answers · asked by ausbloke1987 1

How do girls feel when there boyfriends call other girls cute, hot and that they love them. Do they get jealous or how does that make them feel.

2006-12-20 21:56:34 · 14 answers · asked by realsync1 1

I can't help feeling so depressed and lonely, espeically with the xmas and new yrs eve coming..
Eveyrone seems to with their gf and bf unlike me who's always alone (i'm 20 yr old guy btw)
I actaully know this girl, she's only my friend atm but i'm reluctant to ask her out, since we out friends within a group within our univerisity...like i I've met her for the first time now, I would...but now i'm not so keen to ruin the positive friendship that's keeping our group together..

Dilemma dilemma.

Afraid of being single forever...already 20~ ; S

2006-12-20 21:54:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dated this guy for 2 years. In those 2 years he cheated on me twice. That I know of. I have recently ended things with him because of the mistrust and affairs. One of my friends has started to see him, but he is still sms'ing me and phoing me all the time tell me how he's sorry, he loves me and whants to be with me...In the mean time he's telling her, she's so wonderful and he wants to be with her and she's so fantastic and she is exactly what he needs. I am really not a jealous person and I am glad if he is getting out there and dating but why does he have to date my friend. I know what he is like and he is lying to her and he is going to cheat on her like he did to me? Please help!! How can I convince her he is wrong for her?? I have told her all about him and what he is doing but she seems to think that he is differnet with her and she can make it work cause he is acutally such a great guy!! Help!!

2006-12-20 21:53:20 · 9 answers · asked by cicarr 1

She must be attractive.

2006-12-20 21:53:16 · 4 answers · asked by aminu2763 3

2006-12-20 21:52:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think u require more of that for a relationship to work for me...

I think sex is just the desert & whil friendship companionship & all the good things of being together are the main course..

What do you all out there think

2006-12-20 21:51:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-20 21:50:26 · 25 answers · asked by pOLlY 1

by the term 'property' I include also property of our human body, intellgence and ability.
in today's world it is given to us freedom to use our own bodies, minds, money and influence in the way we like.
The girls think: "My body is my own property and I can give it to person I like". of course, it is their right. But, the same as with money, if such property is not invested properly following the advice of older and wiser person and teacher, such property may be lost.
And therefore we end with females beaten, with females cheaten, with females with broken hearts and with females unhappy in relation or marriage. and why? Because although they have property of their body, their mind at young age was too shallow to invest such property wisely.
I do not feel responsible for any girl that has chosen somebody else. it is their own responsibility.

2006-12-20 21:50:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i feel really down recently, i feel like i always have so much spare time on my hands doin nothing, i have an amazin bf but his life is so so so busy, he has so many mates and football and so much to do. he gets offers to go places all the time, whereas when he goes out i struggle for things to do as i dont have alot of friends. and even when i do go out im not enjoying myself at the moment. i was pregnant last month and lost it, and now i just feel empty. my bf is movin into his new house in 2 days with his friend, and in a way im really jealous as i live at home and i hate bein there as i dont get on with my dad and i dont talk or see my mum as she lives away. i just wish i had more friends and more things to do. i am in a job i hate, but hopefully that will change once i get my qualification, ive not started the course yet but when i do that will make me more busy. i jus wish i cud move in with my bf but hes not asked, i wish i cud b more happy but i feel so low right now

2006-12-20 21:50:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-20 21:48:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-20 21:48:25 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 23 year old gal (good looking, sweet, caring) but i have a speech problem, sometimes i stammer while i talk. I was just curiuos to know what do guy's think about dating a gal with this problem...
is it something that would make a guy back off or am i making a big deal out of nothing?
thanks for your opinions :-)

2006-12-20 21:48:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-20 21:46:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont exactly want to say 'its over' any other sugegstions?
He just doesn't have the right time for me lately and I want to end it but I don't know what to say to him...
Its ONLINE and thats the tricky part cos we cant see each other often and he didnt message me in 3 weeks and I did once but he had to go soon and I know he's busy but I can't take it I need someone who has the time for me

so to cut things short, what can I sat to him without saying its over directly!


Additional Details

Do I pretend I've found someone else? Do I say the truth? ther are so many times when I just feel like saying its not fair how you have time to change your display message and to log onto myspace but you cant say hi to me! but people said that would be too hurtful and direct so I really need help Im confused
or just to ignore him but Ive tried that a billion times but I end up wanting to message him and I dont have the guts to block him completely!

2006-12-20 21:43:43 · 7 answers · asked by ██████████ 3

2006-12-20 21:41:34 · 26 answers · asked by montathra 4

Has any of you, guys, ever been trapped in a lady ? in the sense that, you fall madly in love with someone you didn't know completely and once you comed to know that this person is a kind of weird person, it's too late, you are already in love and can't get back, and you find yourself under the total influence of this person willing to do whatever that person asks to you to do ? ever been in that situation ..? how did u get out of it ?

2006-12-20 21:41:09 · 2 answers · asked by bobby s 1

how can you tell?

2006-12-20 21:33:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

we broke up for a month now. Im always the one who is engaging communication between us. she says we broke up and but its not over. when we are together we act like a couple. even though we dont see each other often. she knows i want her back. she tells me she still loves me. she about to take entry exams for grad school and feels a lot of pressure because its difficult to get in.she broke up with me because of the routines in our relationship. she didnt feel special. I have tried to show her how much she means to me and try to be romantic to her by singing to her , writing a poem and stuff. She doesnt ever call me or try to hang out with me when i feel she can. I dont know if i she wants me back or not...what do you think.

2006-12-20 21:33:11 · 3 answers · asked by J Z 1

2006-12-20 21:26:28 · 19 answers · asked by Tropicalboy 3

2006-12-20 21:25:39 · 10 answers · asked by starone 3

yesterday, my crush flashed me a big smile...his eyes were kind of shinning..and I was stunned...he already knew my name...as in...he's soooo cute...omg! what if he likes me too???

2006-12-20 21:18:15 · 13 answers · asked by xoxo_denise 1

I wanna send flowers to someone I admire and she's living in the UK. I have a credit card but every site I checked would send details of the person who is sending the flowers. Does anybody know of a site where I can remain anonymous and still send the flowers.

2006-12-20 21:17:18 · 4 answers · asked by taint 1

2006-12-20 21:16:49 · 8 answers · asked by essen 1

what or who are you thinking about at this very moment in time???

2006-12-20 21:13:58 · 38 answers · asked by burn baybee burn 2

To someone who left me on the isle six years ago. ever since that day i am just seeing him now.

2006-12-20 21:13:39 · 15 answers · asked by Nina 2

Each time i try to have a discussion with my BF he shuts my mouth and never want me to talk about anything. he likes being calm doesnt want to iron things out mostly matters about us.

2006-12-20 21:11:17 · 10 answers · asked by Mercy J 2