I lost my virginity when i was 17 yrs old. Had my son at 20 yrs old. I am now 22 yrs old. I have only been with 6 guys. Would I be considered inexperianced? I know alot of girls around my age have been with at least 10 guys, some even as many as 20 or more. Is it a turn off for a girl to be a little less experanced than alot of other people, or do guys appreciate that in a girl?
2006-12-20 18:22:20 · 15 answers · asked by strippenho_69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For the record, I was in a relationship with every one of the guys I have been with. And used protection with all but my sons' father(my ex husband).
2006-12-20 18:31:39 · update #1
ONLY SIX! Those girls you are talking about are sluts. Six is kinda pushing it too. Inexperienced? Guys appreciate girls who are inexperienced. Not to say that you should lie about it or anything (six isn't THAT bad, but it isn't anything to be proud of), but definitely save yourself for someone special in the future. Good night!
2006-12-20 18:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you want to sleep around, learn to be protected. you should be protected from conciving and from STD's. As a guy there are pros and cons to both. For example, an inexperienced girl leads me to feel in power and in control (a turn on for all guys). An experienced girl often sastisfies us more in the long run. Do not fret, 6 guys is enough to know what you're doing. When you meet guys don't think "Oh #8 after this guy i'll try getting 3 more this week" NO NO NO. You'l lget more guys by taking them one at a time and enjoying themoment and concentrating on having your bbest sexual performance in bed.
You're fine, and take care of your son because if you have alot more kids, it's going to reduce hte amount of guys you get cus you'll be looked at as either: 1- a slut OR 2- having alot of *baggage* pls 3-it'll take time away from your time in BED!!
2006-12-21 02:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by thank you come again 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about what (or who) other people are doing. Take your time and set your own pace. If you go out and shag people just to get experience in, you'll regret it later. Besides, 2 or 20, how "good" you are has little to do with the experience and more to do with creativity and passion. Once you get the general mechanics down, you're golden. Whatever you do, just make sure you make decisions you'll be happy with.
2006-12-21 02:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by ms dont panic 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
hmmm-inexperienced? SIX guys in five years and you became a mother? (which meant you were preggers for almost a year?)Unless you are considereing employment as a hooker I can't imagine any guy serious about you would want you to have more experience-sex is not like doing a trick for show and tell-most of the time the longer you date someone and get to know them then A) the sex isn't the end of the relationship B) you get to know their body and yours and the sex always gets better...slow it down hot mama
2006-12-21 02:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by bikinibabewannabe 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
why compare yourself to other girls like that. They may have more encounters with a variety of men, but wouldn't your longer relationships with guys be of more quality than the 20 guys the younger girls have. Plus you have different experiences that they don't like having kids and motherhood. You're way ahead of them. Remember it's quality, not quantity.
2006-12-21 02:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by Carolyn R 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Damn-I've only been with zip-lol. Don't ever compare yourself to those damn sul t s-cuz that's what they are! You are obviously experienced if you've been with 6. A true gentlemen will appreciate you for who you are!!
2006-12-21 02:36:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real man wont consider your past an issue. In fact, a real man wouldn't even ask. You can learn all you need to know about sex with the man you intend to settle down with, and he will most likely appreciate it if he's the one who's teaching you.
2006-12-21 02:26:14 · answer #7 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm 20 and I've never... at all. You're a ho in my book, lol. Only fu*k if you got true love sister.
2006-12-21 02:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i am a virgin and i am 19 and i am a boy.
2006-12-21 02:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by queryboy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no. anymore and you would be a slut. you are not supposed to have sex with every guy you date. you only have sex with people you are serious with
2006-12-21 02:25:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋