its been like 2 1/2 mth's after i broke up with my girl,
( the reason was that she wanted to get more in church and i couldnt be there with her to support her,and we couldnt spend as much time together, cause she was always in church, so we both decided to brake-it off) but the thing is that i still have feeling for her but i havnt called her ever since the Break-up? should i call her to see how she's doin?
2006-12-20 18:36:23 · 3 answers · asked by Myke G.28 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nothing has changed about her going to church, so what have you changed to make you think this will work. There had better be something as the same thing will happen again
2006-12-20 18:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is great that you like to spend quality time with your girlfriend! If you're thinking about calling her in hopes of trying to convince her to come back to you, it's not a good idea. It's okay if you want to call her to see she is doing..(honestly, for that reason) i don't see why not. It shows that you care about her and that you still would like to be friends with her. However, i want you to know that if you're going to get involved with someone, you want to be with someone who can balance their life between you and her life outside of you. It's good that she is involved with church and everything, but it's another thing if she lets everything else in her life dominate her. The question here is whether you truly want to be with her still. If you're willing to give up something or her(in this case quality time together) just to be with her, it shows your dedication. Honestly, if you've gone this long without calling her, but you still have feelings, i say don't call her and just try to move on. It'll make it easier for you if you guys don't speak.
Whatever you do depends on your intent...consider what you'd rather have...
Good luck.
2006-12-21 02:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Alicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason why you broke up will still be there whether you call her or not. Calling her will reopen fresh wounds. If her change in lifestyle was that much of a problem, then you need to leave it alone. You need to let sleeping dogs lie and move on.
2006-12-21 02:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋