Singles & Dating - 16 December 2006

ok.. he is a really really good friend of mine... for the last 5 years. he considers me as his confidant...he tells me everything..
i so really like him, and well i think i have fallen in love with him.
he said he considers me to be a friend and nothing more.... and he loves his gf alot...
but lately they ve been having problems... and so they are on a break...
he calls me up for every tiny problem of his.... and sometimes it hurts so much cuz i wud never have him.
so i tried forgetting about it all.... i mean i was there for him... but we didnt have the closeness we had earlier but it was working fine....
he called up 2 days back and we talked for like 4 hrs international call about his time there....and he had some probs... so as usual it was me trying to sort it out...
i love him, i cant forget this anymore..i cant live with it either..... either our friendship goes or either i get hurt repeatedly.why the hell are we so close, why cant i just leave him

2006-12-16 08:46:49 · 2 answers · asked by vegas l 1

Ok theres this girl that i got feelings for now. Last year i really messed up with her and stuff. Shes my best friend and all but recently i started to get feelings for her and stuff. I dont think she likes me though. I really want to make her feel good and stuff because she never had a good relationship with a boy before. I dont know if she likes me or not. People in my class are trying to hook us up together because me make a cute coouple and we're always together. My other friend told her to go out with me but she just smiled and said it didnt work out for us last year. Any ideas??

2006-12-16 08:44:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a friend whose a girl who calls me a dork al l the time and yet she never hesitates to let me know she likes me whats going on?

2006-12-16 08:43:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really like him but thre are some things that don't let me say yes like for exaple my parents well my mom lets me have a boyfriend but i don't know my dad i also think taht i have him for my classes and i'm embarres of sitting with him but i love him and i would like to go out with him what should i do??????

2006-12-16 08:43:18 · 8 answers · asked by Any 1

If two person go out and date each other never revealing their HIV status, is this wrong? They both are positive but don´t know that the other is positive. They both don´t know if they will be with each other, they practice safe sex, do they need to bring out their HIV status to the one they are being intimate with?

2006-12-16 08:42:55 · 10 answers · asked by lor3d 2

my girlfriend alway stells me that shes going to a kickback party in the last minute i dont know why shes doing that is she hidding something.

2006-12-16 08:41:37 · 8 answers · asked by joe 1 1

I am only talking of the situation where there are no children involved.

Should one dump their current spouse if they get jealous of their EX?

2006-12-16 08:40:11 · 10 answers · asked by Razor 5

My boyfriend and I have recently been fighting about the same issue. Our last fight was really bad and now he is asking for space to think and chill out. He said he will contact me when he is ready. Is this a bad sign?

2006-12-16 08:38:55 · 28 answers · asked by sweetsparkle 1

"I like you" or flirts with you?

2006-12-16 08:37:56 · 10 answers · asked by anonymous_xx 2

i was thinking today :
i am 22, have no life, no friends, no boyfriend, no one who can help me in life, no job, i just graduated from college....
and i see all my classmates so happy, all together drinking, and i am all alone.... maybe i was living wrong??
i know that i am shy, and very spiritual, and its hard for me to open up infront of ppl..............and now i met this very popular boy, who had lots of girlfriends before, and i feel like, what the hell does he want from me? sex is probably the answer. yeah, that all he wants
and nothing else, who am i fooling.........
i feel so left out and lonelly..........
i am scared, maybe i've been living wrong??

2006-12-16 08:37:07 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy at work has been flirting with me for 2 years. He flirts with other women, but says stuff to me that he doesn't say to them, compliments me, helps me with stuff & drops hints that he likes me. He claims to be single, but people have seen him with this other woman at work. According to some people, they're just friends. I started to fall for him a year ago. 2 months ago, my work mate told me she knew i liked him by the way i acted with him. I got paranoid & thought if she knew, so might he. I didn't want to cause trouble between him & his so called girlfriend, if she is his girlfriend, so i stopped flirting with him & i couldn't look at him when he came near. He hasn't flirted with me as much the past 2 months either, maybe cos of that. The last 2 years, he put 'love from' in my Christmas card, but this year he put 'from', although he put 'love from' in someone elses. But after he gave me it he still came over to talk & keeps staring over. Is he messing with my head?

2006-12-16 08:37:01 · 4 answers · asked by coz_6 1

I'm rich and free!;)

2006-12-16 08:35:26 · 8 answers · asked by ~Strawberry Delight~ 2

Is being very attractive or beautiful always an asset for a woman? Or do you think sometimes it just attracts jealousy and mistrust from other women and other problems?

2006-12-16 08:32:44 · 5 answers · asked by Very Nice Indeed! 1

If a guy that rejected you in the past all of a sudden told you that he really loves you and wants to treat you right... would you let him? Because I rejected this girl before and I know I broke her heart (didnt mean to!) but i did and I have feelings for her now and want to treat her right. But she's not really letting me. any suggestions?

2006-12-16 08:31:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, can someone please help me? I like this guy that I met on myspace and he says he likes me. We talk on the phone and on myspace, but have not been able to meet yet. We have been talking since late June, but every time we plan to meet, something comes up with his daughter or we're busy with schoolwork or something.
I haven't heard from him much lately, but then sometimes he'll just send me a text to say hi or to tell me good night and sweet dreams. He's a sweet guy and all, but I'm tired of waiting.
What should I do?

2006-12-16 08:29:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend that is a boy and my boyfriend dosn't want me to be friends with him and then i stoped being friends with him because i really love my boyfriend and he's friends with him now!

2006-12-16 08:29:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-16 08:27:47 · 10 answers · asked by Stace 1

Shes like 40 something, but shes freaking hot. But I dont know how to tell her Im into her cause Im afraid she could freak out.

2006-12-16 08:27:40 · 5 answers · asked by jrod 1

2006-12-16 08:26:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've known her almost 3 years. i really like her but my friends don't what should i do?

2006-12-16 08:26:00 · 3 answers · asked by curious 1

2006-12-16 08:25:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

make myself more noticed?

2006-12-16 08:25:45 · 4 answers · asked by ♥BrunetteSweetie♥ 3

There's this guy who says I'm really HOT and that he likes me a lot. I'm 13, blonde, thin, green-eyed, tall and pretty. I'm sweet, nice, popular, wild, smart, funny and highly attractive to guys. He looks at me in like a 'I like you" way. But, he never does anything to grab my attention. Although we did went on a date and we made out 3 times on the date. He said that he really enjoyed our date. Is it because we made out and he thinks I'm a good kisser? Or because he really likes me for who I am?

2006-12-16 08:25:32 · 5 answers · asked by Cristina 1

im 14 and i have an idea of ringing up this girl on christmas and wishing her a merry christams and play her a song. is this wise? any comments or advice???? i only think this girl is fit, i dont fancy her or anything.

2006-12-16 08:23:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, so there is this guy i met at a dance a while ago.
we have gone on dates and are in a relationship and i am pretty sure he is my bf but im not 100% sure... but anyway
WHAT DO I GET HIM 4 XMAS?????

2006-12-16 08:23:03 · 2 answers · asked by danafactor 2

im so upset ive had blisters down there for days and it hurts. can i put him in jail for giving it to me hes out spreading it around and its not fair!!

2006-12-16 08:21:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am over the moon every time I see this guy. How do I keep calm and relax and just be myself around him? I have been trying my hardest to just be myself around him. I think I have been doing ok, but it is very hard. I get way too many butterflys. He knows that I like him but he doesn't think he's atractive. I think he's so adorable. I want to hug him and kiss him, but haven't yet. I wish I could run up to him, give him a kiss and a hug and run away like a bolt of lightnight. Haven't figured out how yet. We mostly just meet at church and he gives me a ride home. Sometimes he takes me food shopping because I don't drive. I've been to his house for dinner. (He can't cook though. We had frozen foods.) I thought about making dinner and inviting him or going to his house to make it. Not sure how to ask yet. ...Darn this crush.He also thinks he is too young for me. How do I convince his that he is not too young?

2006-12-16 08:21:39 · 5 answers · asked by teetalla 1

i am in the final year of high school and there is a boy in my class, who looks at me always from September. But yestarday he did not come to the lesson and his friends told the hole class that he had a date and all the students, including me, we went to see the couple because we wanted to laugh and we saw them in a very private moment. I hate him, because when i saw that i was jealous and i keep wondering:why did he look at me all the time if he was with an other girl? Why did he try to talk to me? Nothing has happened between us because i was always avoid him, but i am very jealous and now i don't want to see him. When he comes to the class i avoid him more than ever because i feel hurt. Why does this happen to me, what is it? What can i do? I will never speak to him

2006-12-16 08:21:25 · 5 answers · asked by dreamer 1

you're totally anonymous on here....why not spill it!

2006-12-16 08:20:10 · 6 answers · asked by Starry Eyes 5

If a man basically uses you for physical gratification how bad does that make you feel (and I havent done this so dont get on me)...that meaning he enjoys the physical aspect of your relationship but does not see anything long term with you...Do you get enough out of the physical attention to not hurt you psychologically

2006-12-16 08:20:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous