If a guy that rejected you in the past all of a sudden told you that he really loves you and wants to treat you right... would you let him? Because I rejected this girl before and I know I broke her heart (didnt mean to!) but i did and I have feelings for her now and want to treat her right. But she's not really letting me. any suggestions?
2006-12-16 08:31:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm . . . the odds are not good, but MAYBE you can. Just don't waste too much time on her. Good luck!
2006-12-16 08:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow, be there and treat her right.
She may let you back in or she may think about setting a trap for you.
She may even be thinking that you are out to hurt her again, a very real scenario no doubtedly being told to her by her friends.
You're going to have to take it real slow and real gentle. She will ask, in not so many words, why your change of heart.
Be prepared to answer her with the truth.
2006-12-16 16:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by Geo-Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've probably got your work cut out for you. She's probably lost the wind from her sails and you need to prove that she isn't making a mistake to start seeing you. Actions speak louder than words, SHOW her you really love her and want to treat her right. Good luck bro.
2006-12-16 16:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by BBaller25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First arm yourself with confidence, then go up to her and give her a kiss if she tries to leave dont let her and tell her your sorry for the past and tell her everything you feel for her now and be sure to make a lot of eye contact
2006-12-16 16:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by chivafan07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i liked u and u rejected me i really wouldnt like it i woukld do the same thing she did cause she proberly scared to get hut again
just keep waiting maybe shell realize that its safe now
2006-12-16 16:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by jessica m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably not digging you now and has probably thrown darts at your picture, she might though. Go for it, gradually, but there is a risk of darts being thrown at you. If I were you I'd take the risk.
2006-12-16 16:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by curry_lover4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! This one hits close to home for me. I would give him a chance. If he can prove to me that he is serious, then i would go for him. But I would have to still have feelings for him too.
2006-12-16 16:38:10 · answer #7 · answered by fired up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no wonder she's not letting u if u broke her heart... be on ur best behavior and prove that u love her. facts not words
2006-12-16 16:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keepi trying, ACTION SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS, just prove to her you have feeling and you are sorry about what had happen, trust me she'll for gave you
2006-12-16 16:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by faith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep at it. You have to prove it to her, and the only way to do that is to stick by her.
2006-12-16 16:34:03 · answer #10 · answered by wanderingphotographer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋