Singles & Dating - 16 December 2006

well, im kinda dating a guy who has come to work in my country for 6months and then going back, its not always that he is treating me well, he doesnt give me the attentiona n affection that i want, he is jealous and possesive. now i met someone new and this other guy gives me all the attention n affection that i wanted but im not inlove with the other guy, im in love with my "boyfriend", but since my "bf" wont be here for long, he said that he cant comit to me but he still wants to run my life!! he is so very handsome unlike the other guy that i had recently met. what do i do, im stuck between two worlds, please advice and help me out. i love my "bf', but im not sure he likes me the way i do him. i try to forget my "bf', but its impossible, i know i'll end up being hurt, but i on the other hand im happy when im with the other guy, but i feel hurt cause i wished that it was my "bf" giving me those affection and attention. HELP

2006-12-16 07:42:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

like why wouldn't you want your man to hang out with a girl or girls?


my reason: because i'm 26 i know personally how dumb girls are and scandalis and how they love to ruin a beautiful relationship because they cant have one of their own.. you just cant' really trust girls, well i don't!

p.s and if your gonna be rude, please go to a different question..

2006-12-16 07:42:33 · 11 answers · asked by ~broken~ 3

how many children should I have when I grow up
and WHY
give reasons one way or the other

how many do you want and why

2006-12-16 07:40:03 · 12 answers · asked by david s 2

2006-12-16 07:40:03 · 7 answers · asked by 92693me 1

Im embrassed by my own race!! Blacks and mexicans have unique looks and us whites are plain and average looking. I mean dont get me wrong we get by on almost anything but i just think our race is racist and embrassing. Thats why other races dont like us. Dont you agree??

2006-12-16 07:38:31 · 17 answers · asked by PASSIONS 2

When a guy that you stopped seeing because he was acting strange tells you that he's sorry, that he needs time to figure some things out about himself, that he is "messed up", uhhhh... wtf does that mean?

2006-12-16 07:35:51 · 8 answers · asked by Princesa Morenita 3

could help me not be so bored!!!! ;)

2006-12-16 07:35:21 · 5 answers · asked by Finally FREE!! 1

hey guys: people describe me as beautiful, smart and all those good things and i agree, but lately i've been feeling down. the truth is i have a fear of being alone. its like all my relationships have always ended without explanation and that has always left me wondering what i'm doing wrong? i'm looking for a long lasting relationship, but all i get is game playing and so forth. sometimes i feel so lonely, yet i have so many people around me constantly telling me how great i am.. i don;t know why i'm feeling this way! i also feel sometimes that life would be better without me! why am i feeling this way when my life is good?? ps: i feel guilty for feeling this way, but i do... so what should i do about it?

2006-12-16 07:34:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this new guy and i got his number from my friend...should i call him...if so what should i say?? P.S i like him and i dont noe if he likses me?

2006-12-16 07:34:07 · 1 answers · asked by he is all i want...♥ 2

I'm a 6figure successful single woman in business and owns multiple properties. I either meet needy men, or I scare them off with my success. I met a really nice guy that I'm head over heels about, but he's intimidated by my success - I feel lately he's been trying to blow me off. He introduced me to his parents and have told many friends and his mother (she told me one day) that he feels I'm the one, but is intimidated by my success. How do I find a nice guy that's not one or the other extreme?

2006-12-16 07:33:25 · 4 answers · asked by eleven 3

2006-12-16 07:33:12 · 17 answers · asked by Catherine 14 2

i stopped hanging out with anybody but him,i don't have many friends and don't know how to meet someone,i'm scared of online dating.any ideas? or any single guys out there?

2006-12-16 07:31:19 · 3 answers · asked by gift 1

I don't know why, but me and my friend both started liking this girl, because we felt sorry for her.....Basically she tells you all of her problems, and when she ask you if you like her, you have to say yes.She was supposed to go out with my homeboy, but she claims to have found someone better. It's weird case i only like her when i feel sorry for her, and i feel sorry for her now case she's about to used by someone she really likes..........I need tips on how not to feel sorry for her any more.
NOTE: She's a cutter, were all juniors in High School, and she does this giging thing in front of any guy she likes......And it leads to she getting dissed alot, every body makes fun of her. And i know she's going to call me over vacation saying how sorry she is for playing me and my homeboy , and how the other guy dumped her. But i think i might give her the cold sholder next time

2006-12-16 07:30:33 · 4 answers · asked by keithr2003 3

So..
I've known this guy for like over a year now and he's really great, he's like one of my best friends. He's always stuck by me, even if I was really horrible to him and we've always been great friends.
Until recently...
Well these days, he's began flirting (he's not the type of guy that flirts AT ALL) and he's begun listening to me more intentively (like he'll always look at me directly in the eyes). I dunno what's happening, I feel really awkward around him now, but I dunno if that's because I like him too. :/
Any help?

2006-12-16 07:29:11 · 6 answers · asked by Hitomi 2

he is a sweet and shy guy, but how do i know if he will reject my offer to hang out? i dont really want to date him yet but what if he says no to just being friends? what are the chances?

2006-12-16 07:28:36 · 8 answers · asked by kat 3

i think thats what God tells us to do!

2006-12-16 07:27:03 · 6 answers · asked by swimlikebrownies 1

Feel free to give details.!

2006-12-16 07:22:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-16 07:21:26 · 15 answers · asked by MS. SEXY!!!!!!!!!! 3

Would you assume that if you were looking in your son's room and he was sleeping with his g/f in his arms, that they had sex?? Would you trust them to be alone together??
Would you assume that if they were ok with this than they already had sex??
I know they are close b/c they have been together for 3 years.
If I ask will he actually tell me the truth?? I was just walking and saw them, not like I invaded his privacy.
They weren't exactly wearing the most clothes ever, but at least some. Should I be ok with this??
Should I tell him what I think or wait for him to come to me??
They are both 16. He's almost 17.
She's on the pill but only b/c her gymnastics coach makes the whole team do it so they can train w/o them pmsing

2006-12-16 07:20:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

im finding it rle hard to control my feelings for him, i dont want to break him and his gf up....any tips on how i can try and get him out my head?

2006-12-16 07:17:01 · 29 answers · asked by jenny p 1

2006-12-16 07:16:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do I know if he's flirtting with me ? Also how to talk to him and how to let him know Ilike him to ?

2006-12-16 07:16:24 · 4 answers · asked by Kay 1

what are good conversation starters when u r talking to a guy. like, wut maskes them keep on talking?? and please dont comment if ur gunna say "how was ur day" or "wut r u doing on the weekend.." thanks!!

2006-12-16 07:15:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-16 07:14:30 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5

i like this girl but i dint know if she likes me what do i do

2006-12-16 07:14:24 · 7 answers · asked by blueboy 1

What should I do anY Tips? I really want him to like me for me and Like me enough to ask me out? How do I do that..I ce skating together ?? What do I do? Be serious=]

2006-12-16 07:12:42 · 12 answers · asked by Gracie_$ 2

hey well im not a big person who likes to ask boys out but if thats the only why not but i dont like doing that cause boys thinks its annoying and they should ask out the girl the point is i cant get a boyfriend and i think i am very pretty and i was dating this boy named matt but wel broke up 4 no tellin what reason and i like this other boy named brian and we were talking but all of a sudden he told me awe just need to be friends cause he likes my best friends shana but she dont like him what should i do to get him to like me and 4 us to start talkin again cause i really like him...

2006-12-16 07:12:30 · 9 answers · asked by lem. 2

i am so sick and tired of dating!!! i really wanna find someone just right for me...but i always find flaws, big flaws...where is he?
i sound little desperate, right? well no...i am just bored of dating

2006-12-16 07:09:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-16 07:09:08 · 6 answers · asked by Sara R 2

the thing is that I just love it when a man is successful and knows what he wants and likes sports. So all the football players or figure skaters or basketball players...are just AAAARRRGGHHH to die for for me (of course not all of them) but do you get my drift? And so I want to be with them!! Because they represent all my dreams combined in one. And it's not like I'm some looser, I am a very good sportswoman (lol, funny expression) and I could be "on their level", I just don't know WHERE and WHEN and HOW to approach them, I am a super cool person to be with but my look is average and we all know these guys usually end up daiting models or miss XXX...so I am automatically out of the "daiting" material, at least I think so. Why is the world so unfair?
And yeah, maybe I'm being judgemental because I don't look at all the other "normal guys" but I don't want them! Honestly, I am to good for them. This may sound egocentric but it's just the way it is.
Anyone, help me out here please?

2006-12-16 07:07:11 · 2 answers · asked by Mariella Williams 2