how many children should I have when I grow up
and WHY
give reasons one way or the other
how many do you want and why
2006-12-16 07:40:03 · 12 answers · asked by david s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
man you will have monkeys
2006-12-16 07:42:09 · update #1
i have one so far:) and would like at least one more:)
have as many as you want! its not your @ss that's gunna get fat from it! lol just kidding:)
2006-12-16 11:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always dreamed of having 4...then I had 1 and decided that 1 was enough.
The reality is that children are a huge responsibility and you need to be able to support the child to the best of your ability. There are too many people popping out kids that they can't take care of.
2006-12-16 15:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard question to answer, some people will say none because we're overcrowded, some will say as many as you can make. Really this is something that you will have to search within your heart for. This will be something to discuss with your partner. Have only as many children as you can love. Truly love, and spend time with and watch grow up. If you have too many and all you do it work to support them, you'll miss out on their life and it's such a beautiful thing to watch your children grow up.
I have one child, I want 1 more. I would love to be able to give my son someone to grow up with, someone to bond with, someone to share with... someone to lean on and count on when I'm no longer around for him. I would mostly just love someone else to love. I have so much to give.
2006-12-16 15:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by flutterbys82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have one if you want a soiled brat and two if you want the joy of seeing them do loving things for each other. Just remember if you have three there will be terrible sibling rivalries and never a moments silence. I have three, wish I had four to even them out but can't. Looking to adopt. Good luck!
2006-12-16 15:44:46 · answer #4 · answered by Claire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2. if u have to many, u wont have alot of time for each. u also may not have the financial means of supporting them well. if u have 2, u cant buy them better clothes, send them to a better school, be able to pursue they're interests (ballet, dance, sports, piano) all of which cost money to take. if u have one, ur child may be lonely, having at least one sibling would be good for the child.
2006-12-16 15:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people "pop" up more kids than they could afford. Only have what you can feed. This world is too over populated, AND with terrible under age parents.
I only want two.
2006-12-16 15:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u want people to tell u have many kids to have? that should be ur choice no one elses. i want to have 2 a boy and a girl because i dont want to have to go through the pain of having them alot and that way i would have my little girl and my little boy but then again i will have whatever god wants me to have and what ever sex he wants me to have to it isnt our desision its all up to the man upstairs
2006-12-16 15:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by Brooklyn Mae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have as many as you like its a free country i only have 2
2006-12-16 15:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2
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2006-12-16 15:44:19 · answer #9 · answered by mr johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 its lucky
2006-12-16 15:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by parky_gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋