hey guys: people describe me as beautiful, smart and all those good things and i agree, but lately i've been feeling down. the truth is i have a fear of being alone. its like all my relationships have always ended without explanation and that has always left me wondering what i'm doing wrong? i'm looking for a long lasting relationship, but all i get is game playing and so forth. sometimes i feel so lonely, yet i have so many people around me constantly telling me how great i am.. i don;t know why i'm feeling this way! i also feel sometimes that life would be better without me! why am i feeling this way when my life is good?? ps: i feel guilty for feeling this way, but i do... so what should i do about it?
2006-12-16 07:34:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't get down on yourself. there is someone out there who will like you for who you are...
2006-12-16 07:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by dewnot_22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
See, loneliness is the worst feeling in the world. But I'm not sure whether you're lonely or just alone? If you're alone, its not grave, but if you feel lonely try to spend time with friends and cousins or whatever. Perhaps your turn has not yet arrived to get true love. Don't feel disheartened, life is long and you have so much to do. I'm sure you're very young, because mostly adolescents feel that way. Every one will find a long lasting love one day or the other. Just be patient and strong.Ok? Now smile...
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2006-12-16 15:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by fs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww.. it's normal to feel this way, trust me. i know so many beautiful and amazing girls who feel like that, and guys too! I think you should consider possibly seeing a counselor, or talk to a REALLY supportive and caring friend... Everything works out. Maybe just stop trying to find a guy, and just live life and have fun... then i'm telling you, he will come. The best things in life are unexpected...they come to you when you aren't looking for them. Good luck with everything.
2006-12-16 15:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by Roxbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are beautiful and smart and all those other things!!ur feeling down because you've been played with so many times that u feel like ur nothing speical anymore!!ur feeling alone because u've got dumped and people leaving you behind!!you're doing nothing wrong!life is liek this you just have to excpet it somtimes and move on.AND DONT YOU DARE SUICIDE!!DONT!!that wont solve the problem at all!!i've been through the same thing as you.so i know what ur going through,if u want u talk to me more heres my email: angelmkagome@yahoo.ca
2006-12-16 15:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by angel miaka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to work on yr confidence some more. smile abit more. being beautiful or smart isn't everything in life. personality is more effective in drawing nice ppl around you. cheerful and confident will gain the attraction of others. read tips on dating and much more on this site to help you better
2006-12-16 15:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Puddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is people that love you. When you think the darkness takes over they will be there for you. You shouldn't feel guilty, because everyone feels that way, we all want to be loved. It's our selfish instics. but be yourself and happy.
2006-12-16 15:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by angel_in_pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u i think that u are alone, when u have a thougth that u alone u will be alone ,but when u start thinking that u are with everyone u will be with everyone ,forget about every think ,start thinkiing postively ,Happy christmas
2006-12-16 15:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by Comeon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋