Singles & Dating - 16 December 2006

me and my ex [ derek ] broke up a month ago. he dumped me when i least expected it.
I thought everything was fine basically
anyways he got a new girlfriend named becca a week after our break up
that hurt me bad
he's been going back and and fourth about getting back with me and a few days ago he decided that he's going to stay with her
he keeps saying he will come back though
but he doesnt know when

should i move on? take revenge? both?
what can i do to make those two break up and get him to come back to me
or should i even try?
I love him so much and I know he does, but because becca doesnt like me or him to say it
he won't say I love you back anymore

what should i do?
im so confused and i have a million roads in front of me with no idea to go

also what are some good songs to listen to?

= ] thanks alot

2006-12-16 09:14:12 · 7 answers · asked by Micky 2

have you ever been in love but the person you love , likes someone else and you are too scared to tell them how you feel about them yet everytime you see them with the other person or they smile when they just se the other person you get so jealous you have to leave the room?

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2006-12-16 09:09:56 · 16 answers · asked by Miguel B 1

does this situation im about to explain mean you are questioning you relationship...ok here we go.....was dating a guy for a while we both were very physically attracted to one another and things broke up as i was upset about my job etc a little needy at the time...he always stares at me when we are out and the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met and that initially he was intimidated by my job ( i have quite a high powered job and earn good money) he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving and he kept on grabbing me and said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous and said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink as friends, i think he could of beena potential one

2006-12-16 09:08:55 · 9 answers · asked by racheal m 1

2006-12-16 09:08:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have started to go with my sister when she goes somewhere with her friend and i fell in love with her friend! my sister said that she liked me but she talked her out of it. My cousin also hangs out with us and i think he likes her too. It seems like there is a lot of flirting with her but whenever the subject is brought up she claims to not like either one of us. help me pleas!

2006-12-16 09:06:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-16 09:06:38 · 10 answers · asked by Brunette 2

have you ever been in love? Why? How did you know and when did you realize it?

2006-12-16 09:06:38 · 1 answers · asked by D'Whannah Lowe 2

He is a great guy but I am so nervous. I have no idea what to do. Single adult sex. I have always been married. I do not want him disappointed. Help!

2006-12-16 09:06:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

does this situation im about to explain mean you are questioning you relationship...ok here we go.....was dating a guy for a while we both were very physically attracted to one another and things broke up as i was upset about my job etc a little needy at the time...he always stares at me when we are out and the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met and that initially he was intimidated by my job ( i have quite a high powered job and earn good money) he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving and he kept on grabbing me and said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous and said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink as friends, i think he could of beena potential one

2006-12-16 09:06:06 · 3 answers · asked by racheal m 1

I have 24 years and till now i have 3 serrious relation,but every time i had bad luck.What can i do? Sometimes i think that love os not for me...

2006-12-16 09:04:25 · 12 answers · asked by nicoleta g 1

2006-12-16 09:02:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What type of guys do you like? What's more important, looks or personality? And how important is money - does he have to have a good job for you to want to be with him?

2006-12-16 09:01:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wanna now how the proper way, or the fun way, (you know what i mean) of grinding on girls at a high school dance. (we are allowed to do it. (i want both guys and girls opinions)

also a question for the girls, do you feel the guys penis when he grinds on you???

2006-12-16 09:00:14 · 10 answers · asked by German L 1

wst's the name of them pills u buy from astore that don't make *** fast, like the people who act in porn movies they use pills that make them act for like 30min without cumming, plzzz ppl help me, cuz everytime i try 2make out with my girlfriend and as soon i start touching her the sperm will come out fast, or i put my cock inside her for 1min the then i *** i can't help it.

2006-12-16 08:59:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am only 15 and have a budget of around £30 and weve only been datin around 4 weeks any ideas would be gratefully accepted

2006-12-16 08:56:22 · 12 answers · asked by simon phillips 1

my ex and i broke up a month ago due to some problems we couldnt deal with. anyways, we were in contact on and off. got into few small arguments here and there. then we stop talking and start talking again. a week ago, something happen.. i got my feelings hurt and i stopped talking to him for few days. and then i talk to him for one or two days but he didnt seem very talkactive. he doesnt IM me online too. i did few times. i dont know. i even ask if he wants to have lunch nxt weekend since its his bday soon. he said yeah that'll be cool. im glad that i'l get to see him again but i dont know he doesnt really talk to me now or that is the feeling i get so i dont try to talk to him too.......i really miss him n stuff...........should i not talk to him for a lil while and give him space n time and nxt week send him an email if he stil wants to have lunch or not?

im leaving to another country on christmas day... i think it'll b nice to see him again .

2006-12-16 08:54:36 · 7 answers · asked by julie 1

i have 3 kids and im under 25! i have no job, no babysitter to go find a job, no car, no diploma. ive made mistakes and i am so depressed. I want to improve my life but its hard i am thinkingabout suicide! I need help!

2006-12-16 08:54:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you ever wonder the reason the guy is shy because he has a small you know what

2006-12-16 08:52:51 · 12 answers · asked by mepullon 1

does this situation im about to explain mean you are questioning you relationship...ok here we go.....was dating a guy for a while we both were very physically attracted to one another and things broke up as i was upset about my job etc a little needy at the time...he always stares at me when we are out and the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met and that initially he was intimidated by my job ( i have quite a high powered job and earn good money) he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving and he kept on grabbing me and said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous and said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink as friends, i think he could of beena potential one

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Females keep on rejecting me, wether it's asking for a date or to hang out. No one wants to hang out with me. Why can't I just have a true friend. I've been living in Hawaii for about a year. I just turned 26, the end of the year is approaching fast, yet my year is already turning out horrible. It's been a year since I've had a friend to be with.

2006-12-16 08:47:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know a girl and her boyfriend recently got her best friend pregnant while they were still together. It hurt her badly because they had been best friends since childhood and did everything together, and it hurt that someone so close to her could do that to her. It also hurt because my friend had lost her virginity to this guy, and then he just has sex with her lifelong friend. She loves him and says she wants to kill herself because she can't believe the betrayal. After they apologised A LOT they even asked her if she will be its godmother!!! What can I/she do to get through this?

2006-12-16 08:47:15 · 3 answers · asked by thistles 1