I know a girl and her boyfriend recently got her best friend pregnant while they were still together. It hurt her badly because they had been best friends since childhood and did everything together, and it hurt that someone so close to her could do that to her. It also hurt because my friend had lost her virginity to this guy, and then he just has sex with her lifelong friend. She loves him and says she wants to kill herself because she can't believe the betrayal. After they apologised A LOT they even asked her if she will be its godmother!!! What can I/she do to get through this?
2006-12-16 08:47:15 · 3 answers · asked by thistles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a very sad situation because there's a innocent child involved but although their asking you to be the godmother i don't think that you should be around that right now because you're obviously not ready to deal with that. The best thing you can do is to hang out with friends and try to take your mind off of it because nine times out of ten he's gonna turn around and do the same thing to her and when that happens to her and she's expecting a baby now she may need the very person she was dishonest to from the start to be there for her. Good Luck!
2006-12-16 08:54:32 · answer #1 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiving is the best thing you do !! Don't jump into relationships !!
I am sure you have the nerve to stay single !! and Just Move on !!
It is not all about sex !! it is about living and living nicely !!
I know it takes time to forgive a person whom you cared about but the quicker you do the better it is, I guess !! your inner spirit will be relieved and try to do things wisely and don't jump to conclusions !
That¨s all i guess
2006-12-16 08:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by gokusanone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo thats not good u should proply just try to think about all the good thngs to get through it.
2006-12-16 08:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by Wacking_Jerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋