me and my ex [ derek ] broke up a month ago. he dumped me when i least expected it.
I thought everything was fine basically
anyways he got a new girlfriend named becca a week after our break up
that hurt me bad
he's been going back and and fourth about getting back with me and a few days ago he decided that he's going to stay with her
he keeps saying he will come back though
but he doesnt know when
should i move on? take revenge? both?
what can i do to make those two break up and get him to come back to me
or should i even try?
I love him so much and I know he does, but because becca doesnt like me or him to say it
he won't say I love you back anymore
what should i do?
im so confused and i have a million roads in front of me with no idea to go
also what are some good songs to listen to?
= ] thanks alot
2006-12-16 09:14:12 · 7 answers · asked by Micky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
MOVE ON! Find someone who wants to be with you now, or better yet use your time to have fun with your friends or by yourself. Get the book "He's just not that into you" By Greg Berhant. It's the bible.
2006-12-16 09:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on girl, he's just playing you. He can't be trusted anymore. Revenge is never a good thing, so don't go for it. Also, don't try to break them up. He's her problem now. Find you someone who will treat you like you deserve to be treated. The best way to get over him is to avoid him. Avoid everything about him, phone calls, emails, ect. He dumped you, so now he's lost you....hopefully forever. If he really cared for you, then he would have never dumped you. Go have fun with your friends, take your time and find another boyfriend, and don't give this loser another thought. I know this won't be easy, but you also won't be hurt anymore in the future. I wish you the best of luck, you seem too sweet to be hurt like this. You'll be ok in the long run.
2006-12-16 09:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, it doesn't sound like he's worth the effort. You deserve a guy that want to be with you now, and only you. If he truely loves you, he wouldn't even have to think twice about choosing. The next time you see him, you should say: " derek I love you too much to see you with someone else, if you really love me you'll choose me, so if you wanna be with me leave her right now, but you you can't then I'm through with waiting for you." Yeah! then leave the scene really dramaticlly, it'd be awsome!! hey who knows he might even pick you. So take a deep breathe and take a chance, becauise really, he isn't worth the wait.
2006-12-16 09:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by music_angel555 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This boy is a jerk, and you need to move on. If he really wanted to be with you, he would, he would not be with becca. And if he really cared about you, he would not leave you hanging like this. Think of all the things about him you don't like, and try to get over him. Then move on and date other guys. You really don't want to get involved with him again, he'll just do the same thing over.
2006-12-16 09:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't still be in love with you if he's with somebody else. Try to get over him and DON'T try to get revenge, it will only hurt your friendship.
Try Gun's N' Roses- November Rain
2006-12-16 09:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by marajader2d2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your self! i know you like the guy and all but he isn't worth it i think in this situation think with your brain and not with your heart you don't deserve to be treated that way. and on the revenge thing don't do it because he isn't worth the trouble or the effort.
2006-12-16 09:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl take this edvise its the best yourll get LEAVE him hes playing with you. he ovbiously is only useing you as a back up. Im sorry this is harsh but its the truth. if you need to talk to some one or hav any ? just email me ok.
2006-12-16 09:18:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋