my ex and i broke up a month ago due to some problems we couldnt deal with. anyways, we were in contact on and off. got into few small arguments here and there. then we stop talking and start talking again. a week ago, something happen.. i got my feelings hurt and i stopped talking to him for few days. and then i talk to him for one or two days but he didnt seem very talkactive. he doesnt IM me online too. i did few times. i dont know. i even ask if he wants to have lunch nxt weekend since its his bday soon. he said yeah that'll be cool. im glad that i'l get to see him again but i dont know he doesnt really talk to me now or that is the feeling i get so i dont try to talk to him too.......i really miss him n stuff...........should i not talk to him for a lil while and give him space n time and nxt week send him an email if he stil wants to have lunch or not?
im leaving to another country on christmas day... i think it'll b nice to see him again .
2006-12-16 08:54:36 · 7 answers · asked by julie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we all want to stay friends with our ex partners, but you need to take a 4-6 month break from communication.
you can't have a normal friendship when the wounds of your break up are still fresh. there is a combo of anger, frustration, sadness, etc.. you gotta take a break and move on with your life.
once you're totally over him and have no emotional attachments, then you can try to be friends..
trust me, this is the only way it has ever worked for me..
i had to take a 8 month break from communicating with one of my ex girlfriends, but it worked. we got back in touch and she has been one of my best friends for the past 7 years! i love her as a friend and always will..
2006-12-16 08:59:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you give more than you get, it ends in bankruptcy. Take a break and bein to focus on you. Happiness gained from external soruces will not endure. You must first find contenment and happiness within yourself.
2006-12-16 09:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by shoes_717 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there, it sounds like you are more addicted to him than anything else. This will ease up and pass in time.
Start getting excited about your trip!
Who knows you may just meet the love of your life in another country.
2006-12-16 08:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Dave Yours Truly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an ex is an ex for a reason. you found evidence to constitute breaking up wit him so why should you and him still be friends
2006-12-16 08:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by D'Whannah Lowe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg talk to him if you keep getting mad at him hes going to be like ughhhhh not again trust me I have been through this and made mistakes ive him space and try not to get mad at him
2006-12-16 08:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by My Life is in Black and White 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE IS YOUR EX YOU SHOULD GET OVER HIM AND JUST BE FRIENDS...
2006-12-16 08:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get drunk and get laid
2006-12-16 08:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋