i am in the final year of high school and there is a boy in my class, who looks at me always from September. But yestarday he did not come to the lesson and his friends told the hole class that he had a date and all the students, including me, we went to see the couple because we wanted to laugh and we saw them in a very private moment. I hate him, because when i saw that i was jealous and i keep wondering:why did he look at me all the time if he was with an other girl? Why did he try to talk to me? Nothing has happened between us because i was always avoid him, but i am very jealous and now i don't want to see him. When he comes to the class i avoid him more than ever because i feel hurt. Why does this happen to me, what is it? What can i do? I will never speak to him
2006-12-16 08:21:25 · 5 answers · asked by dreamer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be above all of this. Be friendly with him and move on with your life. Just because he always looked at you doesn't mean he owes you anything nor does it mean you should dislike him. A few years after I was out of high school, I met up with a guy who had done the same thing to me. I asked him about it and he said he had always wanted to ask me out but thought that I was too sophisticated for him and would have probably said no. I tell you this because you do not know what is going on in this guy's mind. BUT - He has moved on with his romantic life and so should you. But be a classy lady and be friendly when you see him. I would not disclose your feelings because he may brag to others about this and then you would have alot of school gossip to deal with.
2006-12-16 08:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by Orion777 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the bst policy. Maybe you should have told him of your interests when you felt this way for him and now that he has moved on you are beating yourself for not saying it sooner. It is perfectly understandabl that you are jealous because in some primitive way you feel like it should be you sharing the special moment. I too have waited too long to tell someone how I fet for him and one day I just sumed up the courage to do so and to my surprise he replied with the most amazing kiss I have ever had. All I'm saying is don't lave for tomorrow what you can do today, find a moment and tell him what is going on because eventually one day he will probably ask you why are you avoiding him and if you are not honest, now when there is still a chance and it is fresh, it all might become embarassing or uncomfortable to talk about. Give it a try, who knows you might be amazingly surprised the same way I was. Good Luck Hon.
2006-12-16 16:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by darlalee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is height of jealousy. It happens to everyone in these type of cases. Don't think you are the only one. Forget him if he doesn't like you. there may be 100s of guys who likes you. only the matter of fact is time. When the time comes, everything will work out better. Needn't worry. Just relax and wait for time.
2006-12-16 16:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by LemonPro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see someone doing that, maybe they are just TRYING to make you jelous. I know that it hurts, but time heals everything.
2006-12-16 16:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by Karebarefreak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel
2006-12-16 16:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by LOL!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋