my girlfriend alway stells me that shes going to a kickback party in the last minute i dont know why shes doing that is she hidding something.
2006-12-16 08:41:37 · 8 answers · asked by joe 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just the fact that she told you, she isn't hiding anything. Actually, I would say that she is being very open. Last minute pop ups means she doesn't want to discuss it much before she goes...or argue about it. Or maybe she wants to argue????
Did you ever think about going with her? Are you invited to go? If not, maybe you need to take a hint? Or ask some questions? Does she party a lot??
If she is kicking back with the girls, I do understand. But the girls kick back just like the boys do. She needs a little down time if the two of you are together ALL THE TIME. Think about what you want to say and talk to her about it. But remember this...once the words go out, you can't take them back.
Make sure that the argument is really worth it. If you want to cut ties, then don't even have the argument, just do it. Break on good terms.
Good luck with this one...Women just like men like a little freedom to let their hair down from time to time.
2006-12-16 09:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by Kokomira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm picked very last no longer because i'm fats, slow, or lazy yet because i'm shy and afraid as an example my skills at kick ball. I propose you enable your spouse kick another balls for prepare. guess you supply her some sturdy suggestion then!
2016-11-26 23:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offer to go with her or ask where it's at, if she refuses to tell or it seems like she is still hiding something-- break it off, if she's not and it really is a party where she's doing nothing, she'll come back. if not-- you're better off.
2006-12-16 08:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by curry_lover4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her and look at her eyes.
If theres a hint of anything fake and she seems 'overly defensive'
cut her off completely, erase ph# and lose her address.
Go find someone else.
2006-12-16 08:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by Its me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shine a bright light in her eyes and act like Humphrey Bogart.
And if she still doesn't tell you what's she up to, get rid.
2006-12-16 08:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by Panama Jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask if you can go with her?
If she does not want you there, then YES she is hiding something from you!
2006-12-16 08:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by Dave Yours Truly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, she's cheating on you. Wild, party, rebel girls do that always. You should be with a better girl.
2006-12-16 08:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by Cristina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes probably hooking up with some black dude
2006-12-16 08:44:40 · answer #8 · answered by gary d 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋