I am over the moon every time I see this guy. How do I keep calm and relax and just be myself around him? I have been trying my hardest to just be myself around him. I think I have been doing ok, but it is very hard. I get way too many butterflys. He knows that I like him but he doesn't think he's atractive. I think he's so adorable. I want to hug him and kiss him, but haven't yet. I wish I could run up to him, give him a kiss and a hug and run away like a bolt of lightnight. Haven't figured out how yet. We mostly just meet at church and he gives me a ride home. Sometimes he takes me food shopping because I don't drive. I've been to his house for dinner. (He can't cook though. We had frozen foods.) I thought about making dinner and inviting him or going to his house to make it. Not sure how to ask yet. ...Darn this crush.He also thinks he is too young for me. How do I convince his that he is not too young?
2006-12-16 08:21:39 · 5 answers · asked by teetalla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well what is your age difference, i mean how old is he and how old are you? besides that, just be yourself, if a girl is nervous guys most times think its cute anyway. if you want more tell him, or show him with a kiss if its appropriate, but hey dont run away afterwards ;)
2006-12-16 08:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just come right out and ask him out. If hes not but about 4 years younger then you that's not to young. I would invite him to my house and cook him dinner so that you know where every thing is at. When you get around him give him a hug and then when you think your ready give him a kiss. With out him excepting it.
2006-12-16 16:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by cuttie pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its hard to get over a physical attraction. sometimes they might just not go away,even when you think you are over it. you are going to be attracted to someone no matter what, it takes time. i have a friend whos been in love with a guy for like 7 years, and nomatter what shes going to be attracted. butterflies are one of the best feelings that you can ever have. and consider if you have to try to be youself around him too hard, maybe you arent that comfortable around him. he might not just be as comfortable around you with the age difference, but show him that you have a young side to you too, but by being yourself. ask him to give you a chance, it won't hurt. sometimes chances are the best you can take. good luck!
2006-12-16 16:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mikey P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew it happens to me all the time but if u really want to get over it just keep your mind clear or try and control your attitudes u'll find him less attractive hopefully, but do u really want to?
2006-12-16 16:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your not trying to stay away from him.
2006-12-16 16:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋