Singles & Dating - 7 December 2006

It's been almost a year since my last involvement ...

I constantly ask myself "Why do I attract terrible men". It seems that its hopeless to even think that a man could be remotely serious about any commited relationship. For about a year, I have evaluated myself to see what is it about my personality that attract men who aren't stable.

The men I attract want:

Nearly all the perks of a boyfriend without any commitment ....

Honestly, I want a serious relastionship with a someone and it saddens me that I can't find a guy that wants anything serious. The thought of sex without a stable relationship or without feelings involved disturbs me so I would never get involved with someone who is into that sort of thing ... ugh!

What do I do .... How do I can decent guys to approach me? How do I build a serious relationship with a decent guy who wants to be with me?

2006-12-07 12:37:44 · 2 answers · asked by rosie768 3

She knows I like her, and I think she likes me. She said she isn't looking for a relationship right now, but definitely wants to get to know me better. How do I interpret this?

2006-12-07 12:37:41 · 5 answers · asked by Ed L 1

This guy was so hot and nice and smart. Imet him from swim team. He lives in a different town and hes in a group home. I cant stop thinking about him. Help!!!!!!!!!!!!1

2006-12-07 12:36:49 · 1 answers · asked by ☺♪♥ĦįŚ ŜũŃšΉЇNË♥♪☺ 2

I know that seems harsh but when a guy asks for your number how do you say no. I'm way too nice and I get a lot of really annoying guys that think they are all that asking me for my number. I know a lot of the answers are going to be like, "just say no," but I always end up seeing them again and it's so awkward. I usually say I have a boyfriend. I know it's wrong. lol

2006-12-07 12:36:44 · 14 answers · asked by basmusiq 5

There is this guy i have liked since 6th grade (now 8th) and i thought he was really sweet person. he was in almost all of my classes in 6th -none in 7th. (we are both 13)
so i thought i knew him so well

But i recently found out that over the summer he made out with a girl that is 16. I am disappointed and i just dont think i like him much anymore. i dont really know why. i knew he has had lots of girlfriends (hes really hot) but yeah i am not sure. Some of my friends say its not a big deal, but it feels like it is to me. What do u think? Should i give him a chance? he doesnt know that i like him(at least i dont think he does)

2006-12-07 12:35:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend of 15 years has had this crush on this girl for about 3 now that she is single he wants to go out with her but the catch is that she is already going out with me. Yesterday while we were making out he called to ask her out and she act as if her phone died. who should i chose

2006-12-07 12:35:32 · 6 answers · asked by burger792 2

i usually maybe get close but i dont know what to say help??????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-07 12:34:56 · 9 answers · asked by Mr. Anthony 2

im in middle school and i need tips on how to earn my respect so the people respect me but also have the girls want me but i dont know how to acheive the goal

2006-12-07 12:34:33 · 7 answers · asked by VANS 1

I'm in love with my teacher. She's awesome, I had her for two years and I still talk to her everyday. I always used to stay after with her and hang out, and we talk all the time in school. She's 10 years older than me, (Im a senior). I know she likes me, Idk if she likes me just as a student that shes friendly with our she really likes me. I believe she does have a bf but idk if i should pursue it (idk waht to say) or if im just playing with fire and am going to get burnt.

2006-12-07 12:34:24 · 14 answers · asked by Mike89 2

2006-12-07 12:32:51 · 22 answers · asked by Princess 1

Last night a very good documentry was on about an older black gentleman that was blind all of his life and played the blues, he was showing the reporter the field he and his family used to pick cotton in, my sister said how could he do that without cutting his fingers, since he is blind?
I said I think it's like anything else that you learn from a young age if you were born blind...any thoughts????

2006-12-07 12:32:23 · 6 answers · asked by tamilynn 3

I have a ex gf that i dated for 3 years. I lived with her for 2 and half. Our relationship started when were 17 we acted like we were married and had kids. We both had jealousy problems badly. I know that i did even though she has never givin me the reason to be. Its been 2 and half months now and she still contacts me i think she still loves me but she cant handle the jealousy and arguiing. Is it ok for her to go out to bars and hang out with friends guys/girls. I love her alot and want her to give me another chance she says to show her i changed. what you think the chances are she is serious?

2006-12-07 12:30:39 · 9 answers · asked by Confused 1

so far i'm getting him a t-shirt and like 4 cds....but i told him i was getting him the shirt and he asked for the cd....he's managed to basically keep my present a secret....i'd like to get him somthing that will be a big surprise....that he doesn't even think i'd get him even in 1000 years......any suggestions



he plays drums and is a punk at heart....don't suggest clothes cuz i either give him a shirt or cds every year...


what are some unique gifts you have gotten your bfs in the past...



oh ps i don't have a ton of money...

2006-12-07 12:29:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is 25 years old and as sweet as can be, I got him a Tee-Shirt from Florida but I want to get him something special any suggestions? Thanx

~Sengentaro~

2006-12-07 12:28:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

-like making out is what i mean

2006-12-07 12:28:12 · 20 answers · asked by uphemie girl lovin it 1

There was this guy i liked and i went out with him, then he dumped me and told me he said yes because he didn't want to hurt my feelings, he used to be my good friend, now he won't talk to me, what should i do?

2006-12-07 12:27:15 · 20 answers · asked by Safidi 2

my bf and i have been going out for about 2 months. we r still n school. he is in the school band. he asked me if i "wanted to go to his band concert". (like brass instuments band)
i dunno if he means that he is taking me or i am supposed to go just by myself. well, the only way i can go is if his parents take me, due to my moms scheduel.
how can i ask what he meant w/o assuming anything?

2006-12-07 12:26:50 · 21 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3

2006-12-07 12:25:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anne 2

I've got a brazillian so he'll get whats left of my strip..its a way of saying well done for being nominated....

2006-12-07 12:25:53 · 40 answers · asked by Kitty 2

I would love a perfectly honest answer, no matter how harsh. If physical appearence does overcome personality, then what specifically makes a girl's appearence "attractive"? And if personality overcomes appearence, what aspects in a girl's personality make her "attractive" then?

2006-12-07 12:25:31 · 8 answers · asked by kylie! 2

Hey if i start to have feelings for my own sex what do i do??? & how do i tell my friends & family??

2006-12-07 12:24:49 · 26 answers · asked by ~Baby Girl!!~ 1

Me and my girlfriend are going on a date this weekend, thing is, I don't really know what to do! She usually wants me to decide what we do, and we have gone on a ton of movie dates, I am trying to think of something to do aside from that.... The weather here is really cold, almost snowing cold, and rainy... And please dont suggest dinner at one of our houses...

2006-12-07 12:24:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a boyfriend that goes to another school. We rarely see each other. We haven't called each other in a while, so I called him yesterday. I saw him yesterday at the High Skool concert, but I couldn't get to him where we were. I called him when I was there 2. Every 1 went straight to voicemail. I've given him a day to call me back, but he hasn't. Is his phone off or is he just not talking to me. Either way, I think I'll break up with him, but should I give him a chance or break up. A lot of nice guys would ask me out at my school, and I would see them everyday and talk a lot more. What should I do? HELP

2006-12-07 12:23:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I watched the movie tonight for the 6th time, i never stop asking myself this question: Is there someone can forgive that much, it's a high treason, also she lied to him, he found it out by himself? Can this really happen or not?

2006-12-07 12:22:38 · 6 answers · asked by Deebs 2

I am 25 years old and have a good career. i have a great personality and fun to hang out with. I have been told many times that I am pretty and I know i am. So why is it that I am still single?

2006-12-07 12:22:38 · 13 answers · asked by love_misery321 1

2006-12-07 12:20:45 · 10 answers · asked by kristi j 1

some girls who r not engaged or married or even in any relationship put on a ring on the marriage finger...y is this so and wat does it mean?...r they just puttin it on so guyz dont talk to them or wat...

2006-12-07 12:20:45 · 11 answers · asked by Funk-Ski Biznez Man 4

Okay, this guy and i have been hanging out for about 8 months. About six months into it, we started talking about a relationship and it got physical (not all the way though). The problem is, we are in this "relationship" but neither of us have said "yes, we are going out." We hold hands, he stays over, etc. etc. plus I really like him a lot...it is a fairly serious relationship for not being officially a "relationship" Should I buy him a Christmas present or not. If I don't, what if he buys me something? I really want to but what if I show up with one and he doesn't...I just don't want an awkward situation to occur because everything is perfect right now.

2006-12-07 12:19:48 · 12 answers · asked by A.I.Disguise 2

Okay, here we go. i like this guy. i'm 14(soon to be 15) and hes 17. he says that he really likes me alot, but hes not sure if we should get together, cuz of the whole "age" thing. I don't ask guys out, cuz lets face it..its a guys job, but i do belive that since i dont ask guys out, i tell them when i like them, so i told him. then he tells me that he likes me back. good right? well that was like...5 months ago? yeah, 5 months. and we've talked between then and now, and he still "claims" to like me..a girlfriend like..so we talk&& email. on tuesday, he called me and i had to go, i told him i'd call him back..only its thrusday, and i still haven't..i dont know what to do..!! i dont want my heart broke, im after the real thing, he says he is to..so like, what should i do?? Please help!

2006-12-07 12:19:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

please share ;-)

2006-12-07 12:19:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous