There was this guy i liked and i went out with him, then he dumped me and told me he said yes because he didn't want to hurt my feelings, he used to be my good friend, now he won't talk to me, what should i do?
2006-12-07 12:27:15 · 20 answers · asked by Safidi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've tried to talk to him about it but he says only like two words. I can't get over him, i love him.
2006-12-07 12:32:33 · update #1
Yes, there could be something here; he might be just as confused as you. There is no other way to find out until and unless you guys start talking. If he comes all the way to your class to see you, you can at least get up and talk to him properly. Come on, help him out – you can’t expect him to do everything now can you. Talk to him and in the process, start exchanging email addresses and phone numbers, that way the two of you can talk to each other without other distractions. I’m sure the conversations online will help you two get things out in the open. Give it some time, soon enough you’ll establish a relationship where you can understand a lot of things without having to actually say it. Once you reach that phase, you’ll be comfortable enough to ask each other to confirm your feelings. Now put on a smile and get to work!
2006-12-07 12:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by uneasy_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him be like that for a while. I've had that exact thing happen before. Just don't push it. Be nice and considerate and everything, but let him figure things out. Tell him it obviously didn't affect the way he felt about you then, and he shouldn't change his feelings about you now. He'll make up his mind about whether or not he wants to be friends, and all you can do is try to be his friend. In the meantime, just have fun.
2006-12-07 20:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by JoJo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing he dumped you because he has issues with committing to someone, and he used the "hurt your feelings" line as an excuse. Forget this clown, you don't need wishy washy people like that in your life.
2006-12-07 20:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when does not talked to you, do you try to make conversation or ask what is going on? if so let him alone for a while and let him cool down for about 4 days, then stop him and try to talk to him alone, and tell him that I don't like not being friends cause you like him as a friend right? then ask him to just become your friend.
Good luck!
2006-12-07 20:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by I like cheese girl XP™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go,. Why would you want anything to do with a guy who would only go out with you to be nice. He's lame. But if you like him, talk to him in a few weeks and ask him what's up.
2006-12-07 20:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by LSD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he goes to your school then when you pass him in the hall say hi or how are you doin or something like that and if he talks back
then you should ask hI'm if you guys can forget about when you dated and just be friends. im a 14 yr old boy i know this kind of stuff.
if he doesn't talk to you then just forget about hI'm its not im portent.
2006-12-07 20:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by Spencer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not even worth being friends with if hes going to do that to do, your way better then him! Like that is a low thing to do to a good friend. Ouch!
2006-12-07 20:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it hes cant have really been a good friend from the start if he did this. if your still young there is heaps of friends out there and b/f too.
2006-12-07 20:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to waste your time with this guy, he dosent care bout feelings, find some new friends.
2006-12-07 20:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he didnt want to hurt your feelings then he shouldnt of broke up with you. just dont worry about it. you shouldnt care cause he dont care about you or your feelings! you dont need a guy like that! it'll be hard but just rember what he did to deserve it! good luck!
2006-12-07 20:33:06 · answer #10 · answered by sam! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋