There is this guy i have liked since 6th grade (now 8th) and i thought he was really sweet person. he was in almost all of my classes in 6th -none in 7th. (we are both 13)
so i thought i knew him so well
But i recently found out that over the summer he made out with a girl that is 16. I am disappointed and i just dont think i like him much anymore. i dont really know why. i knew he has had lots of girlfriends (hes really hot) but yeah i am not sure. Some of my friends say its not a big deal, but it feels like it is to me. What do u think? Should i give him a chance? he doesnt know that i like him(at least i dont think he does)
2006-12-07 12:35:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that i feel sad because i wanted to be his first. i havent had a first kiss yet, or a boyfriend.
2006-12-07 12:39:56 · update #1
i ment first kiss not first yeah...
2006-12-07 12:40:18 · update #2
he's the most polite boy in school. maybe he is just wild outside of school? i am so not sure lol
2006-12-07 12:41:22 · update #3
my source is this girl he liked in 6th grade. he asked her out but she dumped him. they are pretty close friends (she doesnt like him) but she is still nice to him because she doesnt want to hurt his feelings
2006-12-07 12:43:01 · update #4
I can understand why you wouldn't be quite as interested after finding out he made out with someone 3 years older than him. But, maybe he really liked her. Who knows.
Do what feels right. If he still seems sweet to you, talk to him a little, get to know a little more about him and see if you still like what you see.
2006-12-07 12:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by ☆Tąrą☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how do u know he made out with a girl this summer? Is your source reliable? If he did make out with a 16 year old girl, he could be a player. No offense but he might not lik you. If 1 of his friends told you, maybe he does like you and were trying to make you jealous. You never know with guys. Theyre cluless LOL:)
2006-12-07 20:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by ☺♪♥ĦįŚ ŜũŃšΉЇNË♥♪☺ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're right, it is a big deal. He did (and probably has been doing) something that he can never give to a girl that is worth his time. I don't think that he's worth your time or energy. Find someone that won't cheat and be with a million other girls. You seem pretty smart, find someone with that same quality. :)
2006-12-07 20:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a changes or found other boy because you sound like a good girl.
2006-12-07 20:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by Kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU LIKE HIM THE WAY U THIK U LIKE HIM THEN GO FOR IT BUT IF U'R SOO TURNED OFF BY THE DUDE THEN LET IT GO BECAUSE IT WAS NEVER MENT TO BE
I TELL U ONE THING IVE LIKED MY (NOW BOYFRIEND) FOR ALMOST A YEAR BUT WE JUST GOT TOGETHER 2 DAYS AGO YEA HE WENT OUT WITH OTHER PEOPLE BUT NOW HE'S MINE SO IF U FEEL IN U'R GUT THAT HE IS THE ONE DONT LET ANYTHING KEEP U BACK
2006-12-07 20:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by Muslim by choice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u shouldnt be sad
because he didnt say i love u or promise u for love
u should tell him about ur feeling and the truth about that u love him
then he will give u the answer u waited for all the time
2006-12-07 20:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give him a chance 'cause why bother. if he has had a lot of girlfriends, he is probably going to end up dumping u, not that its not possible u'll stay with him, it's just that u should be careful. looks aren't everything.
2006-12-07 20:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by LadyLuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you really like him and it kills you to see him with another girl but there is nothing wrong with that.
Give him a chance
2006-12-07 20:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, he sounds like a man W_H_O_R_E forget him and move along
2006-12-07 20:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by Mandy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just give him a shot.
2006-12-07 20:37:02 · answer #10 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋