How do you reject a guy?

Question

I know that seems harsh but when a guy asks for your number how do you say no. I'm way too nice and I get a lot of really annoying guys that think they are all that asking me for my number. I know a lot of the answers are going to be like, "just say no," but I always end up seeing them again and it's so awkward. I usually say I have a boyfriend. I know it's wrong. lol

Answer 1

Your doing the right thing. Whenever I ask a woman out and she tells me she as a boyfriend, I take it as a nice way of saying "no". It really doesn't matter whether I know differently or not. If he doesn't take the hint after that, then you will have to tell him straight to his face that your not interested. If it hurts his feelings, remember that he brought on to himself by pressing the issue.

Answer 2

all the questions i anwser are in the family and relationship section so im an expert. well yea people are goin to tell u just say no but thats a stupid anwser.now if someone ask u who it is then ur sittin there lookin stupid.so just say ok ill give u my number but u have to buy me somethin first or tell them i cant hav a boyfriend until im 21.and if u do find the right guy and those people ask i thought u had to be 21 just look at them like thire stupid and deny ever syin it that makes them look terribly stupid and u a very smart person with a boyfriend.

Answer 3

Just tell the guy that you aren't interested in anyone or him right now. Let him know that he is asking at the wrong time or tell him what he is doing wrong when asking you. Help him to not be as annoying. When you see him again approach him before he approaches you and ask if he has gotten any better at it. You can also tell him that he is not your type

Answer 4

well, don't worry. If the guys who are asking you think they are "all that" as you say, then they probably have pretty good self-esteem and won't be TOO embarassed if you say no. And think of it this way....If they're asking for your number, they've asked for OTHER girls' numbers in the past and you won't be the FIRST gal to say no!

As for how to reject them, I'd say goofy/polite will do the case. Like, say something like, "Oh, we're already asking for my number are we?" and kind of be nice about it and then...don't give it to them. OR, you could simply say, "I'd rather not." Trust me, girl, THEY"VE HEARD IT BEFORE! You'll be doing them a favor rather than stringing them along. Hope i helped! good luck.

Answer 5

I prefer honesty. Just tell me nicely, but no long story, that you're not interested in dating me. Let's see, try this: "You know, I don't want to make you feel bad, but I'm not interested in you like that, so I don't want to give out my number. I'm sorry, but thanks for asking." Personally, I hate it when I'm lied to.

Although I've never been lied to; I've always gotten the girl! lol

Answer 6

Continue saying you have a boyfriend. That way the guy doesn't have to get crushed and you don't have to feel bad. That's definitely the best answer... or "I'm not gay, but I'll learn."

Answer 7

give him a nuber 2 nuber off from yours. that way he won't call you . If he says at school that it was some other person who didn't know u , say mabey you dialed wrong #stry again or pick a different answer

Answer 8

Just say like, Oh sorry im not interested or something. Or just use that boyfriends line haha

Answer 9

Say you already have a boyfriend.And if you don't lying,then just simply say,"no someone alreadyhas my number".

Answer 10

give him the power 96 # lmao jk ur right say no, or give them rejection hotline # lol