Hey if i start to have feelings for my own sex what do i do??? & how do i tell my friends & family??
2006-12-07 12:24:49 · 26 answers · asked by ~Baby Girl!!~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your family will understand. Everyone is different and we all respect that.
2006-12-07 12:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by lucinda_mackenzie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you should convince yourself if you do have feelings for someone who is the same sex as you, second, to make things a little more easier. Tell a close friends, tell anyone who will still accept you for who you are. Is your family very religious? If so, give it some time to know that you are prepared for their response if and when you are ready to tell them. It's not the end of the world. One of my best friends, came out to me this year about her girlfriend, and she just told her dad two months ago. He still loves her like I knew he would. Any true family will show they still love you no matter what. So, don't be ashamed or afraid!
Krazy Libra
2006-12-07 12:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only tell them if you feel this is something you want them to know. Who you are attracted to is a personal subject and no ones business but your own. Keep in mind that attraction changes over time as you grow so don't assume that people you're attracted to now is going to be the same years from now. My advice, keep yourself safe and do what makes you happy.
2006-12-07 12:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by Meridianhawk42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with finding out who you really are. Your friends should understand if they are real friends. Sometimes family is hard to deal with. Everyone in my family pretty much knows. I haven't told like my grandma and older people. No need for them to know,they from back in the day and would not understand. It hasn't made my life any harder. It's easier now that I can be my self and everyones ok with it.
2006-12-07 12:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by sexygal8321 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people r going to start tellin u that just tell ur family that they will understand but thats a lie. your parents are prob goin to freak out and say that u need to go to church and figure this thing out .but ur probaly not pay attention and not listen to any of these anwsers , bottle up ur emotions ' and tell ur friends. well u think u can trust ur friends but u never can.i no ur sayin yes u can if there really ur friend.no thats a lie.well then its goin to get to ur parents then ull get mad enough at them and tell them that u r gay. well they cant change it so then it would be all over. or u can tell them now and get yelled at fellin like bein gay is bad.because its its not .so wich one u pick is your choice.option 1 or 2.hmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....
2006-12-07 12:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by MacDaddy U Likey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them and get it over with. you probably know how they feel about gays, but you might not realise how easy it could be. some people already know you're gay. some won't really care when you tell them, and some might throw a fit, that they will probably get over.
if you're a chicken, call em on the phone.
go out with whoever you want. you may or maynot really want to have a same sex relationship, but you can't find out if you don't experiment a little.
2006-12-07 12:27:33 · answer #6 · answered by -- 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be relaxed about whatever feelings you are having. If you can not go to your friends about them, perhaps you should look outside of your circle to experience these new feelings. Don't tell anyone until you are sure of how you feel and are not just going thru a stage
2006-12-07 12:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by BRIAN G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u step siblings? if so as that is comprehensible yet nevertheless a tender problem which may want to be stated which include your mom and father. if u men are blood suitable siblings....uhm, the you both want counseling quick! this isn't well-known and love does are available in extraordinary places yet no longer if you're from a similar woman and a similar womb.
2016-10-16 12:17:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You chose what you want to be but if you are not sure, talk with your family but remember in the end you have to make your own choice.
2006-12-07 12:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by Kansas Jedi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just let them know that you are having these feelings and if they truly love you and respect you, they will try and support you and not place judgement on you. Don't be upset if at first they are put off by it, give them time to let it sink in. They'll come around!
Follow your heart! Good luck!
2006-12-07 12:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T UNTIL SURE THAT YOU DO!!!! Then slowly bring up the subject tell your family first and friends last.
2006-12-07 12:26:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋