It's been almost a year since my last involvement ...
I constantly ask myself "Why do I attract terrible men". It seems that its hopeless to even think that a man could be remotely serious about any commited relationship. For about a year, I have evaluated myself to see what is it about my personality that attract men who aren't stable.
The men I attract want:
Nearly all the perks of a boyfriend without any commitment ....
Honestly, I want a serious relastionship with a someone and it saddens me that I can't find a guy that wants anything serious. The thought of sex without a stable relationship or without feelings involved disturbs me so I would never get involved with someone who is into that sort of thing ... ugh!
What do I do .... How do I can decent guys to approach me? How do I build a serious relationship with a decent guy who wants to be with me?
2006-12-07 12:37:44 · 2 answers · asked by rosie768 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girlfriend, you are not alone in this. So what to do? I started reading lotsa self-help books on stuff like this, like how to make a man love you and why man love in love with bitches.
What you have to do is to live like you don't need a man. Then men will be intrigued by you and chase you. Also you can't put out that easily, make it at least 10 dates before having sex. Otherwise, even the good men will turn into jerks and i'm sure you don't want that, right?
2006-12-07 12:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you attract the wrong guys, or rather all women attract the wrong guys. Right guys are difficult to find. It takes patience and sometimes, a long time. You can increase your chances by staying single and kicking the wrong guys to the curb faster when you find out about their wrongness for you. Also, don't meet guys in bars or other unnatural settings. The guys who come along spontaneously when you're living your life are more likely to be good ones.
2006-12-07 12:44:00 · answer #2 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have a man seek a relationship it is crucial to show off your beauty. Guys love beautiful girls who are confident. Many males do not want to be around a female that complains and is unpleasant about everything, instead they love to be around someone which is laid back. Learn what his passions and interests are and be interested in them. Make sure to smile, laugh a bunch, and don't be scared to flirt.
2014-05-29 19:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋