Singles & Dating - 7 December 2006

well i had a bf and i am 13. i know that is fairly young but it is not uncommon. if you are one of those people who answers something like 'you are way to young to be involved in this' then stop now. i would like to see advice only please. anyway so i had a bf and there was a school field trip to washington dc. i was really nervous because it was far away from home and we were going to have what was my first dance ever. you can probably understand that. anyway so he wanted me to grind with him and i didnt feel ready for that and i told him. he broke up with me and i know now he is a jerk and all that so you dont need to mention that either. i like someone else now, 3 weeks later, and he likes me. the first guy keeps doing things to make me upset like telling the other guy in the first place i liked him. i know this is probably because he's jealous, but he broke up with me in the first place. can someone please try to help me and explain if u can?

2006-12-07 12:18:01 · 10 answers · asked by all4chanel203 2

now i know there was nothing on my face or anything like that but this girl just keeps on stareing at me i smile and she keeps on stareing at me and she wont even smile its weird what dose that mean

should i just be like please stop stearing at me

she didint look away when i look at her and smiled she has done this more than once

2006-12-07 12:17:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

In continuation to the former question- this guy has been my friend for two years now, and we decided to take the plunge and go out. He was loving and caring throughout the relationship until one month hit, and he all of a sudden blew me off, not giving me a reason for a break up (or even a break up for that matter)- to this day I don't know why he broke things off. We work together in the same lab, and he doeasn't even say Hi to me, not even the most basic courtesy! His total disregard makes me feel angry and saddened. I know I did nothing wrong, and yet I suffer because of his attitude, and it affects my work. How can I get rid of those feelings and deal with this A hole?! How do I make him feel as bad as I do?

2006-12-07 12:16:42 · 1 answers · asked by LaLaLand 2

Here's my friends story.. she's been with her bf for 4 years, they live together. About a year ago her bf came clean with the fact that he had previously lied to her about how many people he had slept with (when they first met he told her he had 1 previous gf and had slept with a total of 3 people..when in fact he's never had a gf and he had only slept with 1 girl.. an older girl who he hardly knew but happened to be at the same party one night and were both drinking). He was 17 when it happened and states his lies were to cover up something he was deeply ashamed of. Its been quite a while now and my advice to my friend is to forget it but it seems as if it's too difficult for her to do so. My question is would you be able to trust someone who did this to you?

2006-12-07 12:16:22 · 14 answers · asked by hwlatmon 2

He had some slightly different views of life than you did?

2006-12-07 12:16:11 · 7 answers · asked by L♥G 5

there is a guy in my school and he is so hot! i don't know if i should ask him out even though my parents said i can't have a boyfried.

2006-12-07 12:15:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 3 months now and we have also been arguing with each other for the last 3 months constantly non stop for even the most trivial things. I broke up with him once already and we got back together. I really do love him. now he keeps bringing up the fact that he wants to take a break from this relationship but doesn't want to break with me. I just dont understand, i'm so confused. somebody please help me.

2006-12-07 12:13:32 · 15 answers · asked by lilprincess259 1

ok my boyfriend use to tell me how much he loves me and stuff, everything was so great and it was so easy for us to be happy, he used to be al i always wanted but then i started to be hella jealouse of his ex, and got worse ad worse, i talked about her more than i did about us, but it was also because he flirted with her and i know he's not over her,
now i told him i'm sorry for all that and i told him that's all over i'm done bugging him about her, he still says he loves me, and he's willing to cut contacts with her,
now i'm wondering have i made him to lobe me less? to beome more attracted to her?
and what can i do to repair the damage i've caused?

2006-12-07 12:13:25 · 10 answers · asked by L.K. 1

i love this guy soo much and we have been dating for 6 months. well we use to be able to see each other alot but he has sooo much church going on in his life and soo much school and soo much home life i have barley talked to him in 3 weeks. Im thinking of breaking up with him thing is i dont want to do it by txt, phone, cell, messanger, or email, but i dont see him during the day cuz he goes to a different school. o this may help u im only 14. help

2006-12-07 12:12:55 · 5 answers · asked by Mae-Day 3

I have big boobs, perfect legs, flat but rounded butt and I'm pretty.

You have different sized klits, small, medium, large, extra-large, and double XL. I would be a large or XL. It doesn't look deformed or anything, but it certainly is big. If you were a guy would you eat out my big klit?

2006-12-07 12:12:32 · 11 answers · asked by agnosticaatheistica 2

2006-12-07 12:12:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that 90% of the guys in the world are after sex? Yes. I know it isn't just guys, like 85% of girls want what them 90% have. But, I just can not find one guy that wants a relationship because they actually...i don't know....CARE for the girl. I mean most of the guys that I know that relationship=sex. I just want to know if there are some guys out there that want something more out of a future relationship or a current relationship, whatever...Just give me some feedback please

And please no crude or vulgar comments!

2006-12-07 12:11:56 · 6 answers · asked by krazie_beautiful_2006 1

A couple months ago my boyfriend of a year suddenly started calling his exwhen I wasn't around. I found out, got VERY upset and he said it was nothing and I didn't need to know. As a result, he called and texted her more and more causing many problems for us. Knowing that it was causing problems he kept turning to her when I got upset, even tho THAT is what was making me upset to begin with! It went on for a month until I almost left him, then he stopped.
Last week MY ex released a cd and included a song about me. He emailed me so I could listen to it and we've emailed a few times just talking about his cd. Today I talked to him on AIM for a long time, just about the past, and catching up.
Should I be upfront and tell my boyfriend this? He will never know if I don't tell him, but I feel like it's the same thing I got upset with him for hiding from me. There was nothing to it, just like he told me about HIS ex and I never believed him. We are very serious and live together.

2006-12-07 12:11:28 · 28 answers · asked by bellagirl1414 2

I am a woman who loves a woman i enjoy my time with her and it is not all about the sex we talk laugh share good times together and for the first time since we met we can actually smile so tell me why society condems this type of relationship. I am happy with her and i have achieved more in my life due to her love.

2006-12-07 12:10:33 · 11 answers · asked by eca1094 3

soo i cheated on her when i was drunk..not excusable but i really do love her..more than i ever have any other girl..we still talk and act like were going out but shes scared because it happened to her before..i need some help on how to get her trust back

2006-12-07 12:10:22 · 13 answers · asked by jwm6383 1

-i dont think im ready but i dont want to break his heart

2006-12-07 12:10:13 · 8 answers · asked by uphemie girl lovin it 1

you see i am now dating my best friend's ex and i luv him 2 death....but its a long distance relationship, we live in two different states and im visiting him on my vacation really soon. is this relationship gonna last? he says he loves me.....

2006-12-07 12:08:31 · 16 answers · asked by ailatan92 2

Ok, I like this guy at work. He talks and plays around with everyone at work but me. He looks up when i pass by his desk. He looks down when we pass in the hall. When he says good night he says my name twice and hoed his stare. When i try to talk to him he runs. I don't know if he likes or hate me.

2006-12-07 12:08:29 · 6 answers · asked by timeoutll 1

2006-12-07 12:08:12 · 26 answers · asked by Brittany M 1

The girl you like/am going out with comes up and puts her arms around you and tells you "you have gr8 abs"??

2006-12-07 12:07:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Contrary to what most people THINK they know, a woman can actually have different types of orgasms. There is the clitoral stimulation orgasm, which is usually influenced by foreplay or a thicker penis, and there are others. If you get your angle correct, you can give a women multiple uterine orgasms if you arent hitting her cervix DIRECTLY. These are the "ooooohhhhhhhhhhhhh my godddd" orgasms that are easier with a huge wang. A 8-10 inch will be easier to do this, and will also stretch the vagina as well, which is what almost every girl wants to feel. My question is to the experienced, and I believe it is possible to give a girl this type of orgasm with 6 and a half inches, as long as it is rock solid hard and pointed upwards when erect. If I get good foreplay before intercourse, its larger than 6 1/2. I know the younger chics arent intelligent enough to know how this works. SO if you know about this, let me know if I can hit this. My size is in the mid range, not BIG, but not small.

2006-12-07 12:07:08 · 21 answers · asked by thatoneguydude 1

He enjoys hunting and stuff like that but I want to find something more personal than just a gift certificate.

2006-12-07 12:06:45 · 9 answers · asked by kmthrone 1

This guy I like is flirtacious with alot of girls I know but when I'm around he stares in my direction and gets a little more serious.He always trying to show off the minute I walk by.help I'm sssoooo confused

2006-12-07 12:05:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you do, do you think your soulmate can be anyone in your life or just a partner

2006-12-07 12:04:35 · 24 answers · asked by rainbow 1

he NEVER acted this way befor NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-07 12:03:08 · 3 answers · asked by melissa c 1

A girl I just met? I met her at my new school, she's like really hot, blonde, and well her body is like perfect! Today was my third day there at that school, so I don't really know her, but ever since we met each other, we've been together, she's always hugging me, and she gets mad at her friend when she flirts w/ me, so I guess she likes me too, today she kept feeling my abs, lol, anyways, this girl really turns me on, would it be ok if I put the moves on her and bang her?

2006-12-07 12:02:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is so annoying he said that I am too quiet and follow people around (which is not completly true. they ask me to come with them and I just dont like talking to him so he asumes i dont talk.) He called this 2 girl black wannabes (but he used the n word) and he said mor but i am not going into thatTomorrow someone is probably gona bring it up to him. What should I say to make him shutup if he trys to talk to me?

2006-12-07 12:01:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the deal:
okay, my little sister wants to type and tell the story from ehre side so I'll let her these are her words:
YO! I'm in fifth grade and I'm not sure if I like this guy. Lot's of people have crushes on me, but they're not right for me. I also kinda of a tomboy and I try to make boys joke around saying they hate me. I feel more like friends that way. (don't ask me why) I TRY BUT SOMETIMES JUST DON"T SUCCEED! So I got a group of boys to do this for me. I also call them names like donkey and stuff. Whenever I'm around one of them(John) I feel really shy. I known them for 5 years and this ony started this year. I also feel like, I dunno, being a VERY little bit more than friends. I'm not sure, do I have a crush?

2006-12-07 12:00:27 · 10 answers · asked by Mila 2

heres the letter



Hey…I know I never really knew you, and you never really knew me, but for the past year, I’ve had feelings for you. Maybe it’s because we both like NIN and you seem like a cool person to chill with, but I’m honestly not sure. I’m sorry if it sounds creepy and all, but it’s been difficult lately, having to change schools and still feeling this way about you. So I was hoping that either way, whether you think you will ever want to hang out and be friends, or if you’re not even interested, that you could just tell me. Either way it would definitely help release the pain I am feeling, so that I could move on and just get over it. I know this sounds like a strange idea, but if you can, please just let me know... Thanks --Sara

2006-12-07 11:59:03 · 18 answers · asked by lizzyb 4

2006-12-07 11:58:48 · 21 answers · asked by bob 2