can anyone tell me how can i get a girlfriend?

Question

i usually maybe get close but i dont know what to say help??????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

you need to be urself. Find someone who likes the same things as u and u like to be around. I found someone myself after not having someone for a while you just need to be ur self and show the girls that ur a nice guy to be with and that ur the right choice for them.
good luck

Answer 2

That's your #1 problem right there.

You want to know "how" to get a girlfriend. Why? Most guys that I come across with want a girlfriend they can never get. Why? Because they don't have any game, they don't have the right social skills, they don't know the difference between using a pickup line versus being a powerful, confident, yet genuine male who has positive INTENT when approaching a girl.

If "being yourself" really worked, more people would be dating, hooking up, etc. But being yourself, as most people advise, doesn't work. It's about being your "better" self. For example, when I was 18-19 years old I suffered from really bad shyness and anxiety / panic disorder. So not only was I shy around girls but I would get panic attacks when I tried!

It was a sheety deal.

I was also DESPERATE and NEEDY and guess what? Girls / women are NOT attracted to desperate / needy guys. You've got to have confidence and you have to believe to your very core that you are the BEST thing that a woman can ever have. After a couple years of hard work and massive amounts of approaching I finally conquered my social phobias.

I'm being blunt with you since sugar coating this is NOT going to help you. The fact is you are asking the wrong question. You don't want to learn how to get a girlfriend. That is WUSSY talk. You want to learn how to become a strong, dominant male, which means you have INNER strength and dominance and control over YOURSELF and the situation, NOT the female. Also known as a SDM.

SDMs are not jerks, they are not liers, and they don't play unethical games such as telling a girl they "love" her just to get into her pants. Guys who do that have NO game, so they have to lie to get what they want.

Start focusing on building your self-confidence and your social skills before you start asking how to get a girlfriend. I think you should go out on a few dates with different girls before you start thinking about having a g/f, especially if you're under 24-26 years of age. Get some life and social experience with the opposite sex first and you'll soon discover that getting a g/f will be almost effortless.

Answer 3

I must say that you seriously need some help. I mean your high temper has a great tendency to put your future on risk. To control your temper try to do some meditations or simply you can join the art of living classes. It will really help you. Regarding your girlfriend I am sure she is fully aware of your habits. As, she is been going around with you from the past five years. This time she might have been hurt badly but it’s you who can make her feel better. Tell her sorry and do the things which please her. Ask her for her help to control you temper, she will appreciate it. Don’t worry every thing will fine.

Answer 4

Man im giving you advice i should take. The whole thing is act like you dont care what they say if they turn you down or not dont me afraid goin in thinking "Show Me My Opponent" lil wayne

Answer 5

Talk to her face to face but DO NOT Send her a note or ask someone else to do it for you. It will usually do great

Answer 6

hm....smile at every girl u see or u like......it takes just a smile to start a conversation sometimes....chances r u'll smile at a girl askin "how can i get a boyfriend"...u grab

Answer 7

Look at her smile flirt, try flirting and then walk away girls will go crazy ! Than look at her from afar and smile. by that time she will approach you.

Answer 8

talk to her every day comfort her and she will come k ,luck.

Answer 9

juss be urself