Singles & Dating - 17 November 2006

i have this friend and i really lke her.the thing is that i think i like her more than a friend. we really care bout eachotha and get on really well. but (this gets compicated now) i used to go out with her sister which was only for a week. im am so scared that my friend loved me but gave up on me because i went out with her sister. if she did love me and because of the actions i took doesnt anymore. i blame myself and cant deal with me feeling like this.i feel that if i had done things differently then maybe things would have been different. i cant help but think that i have ruined anychance of getting the girl that i truly love. i have always loved her but i just was too thick and stupid to admit it. my feelings will never change for her - i love her so much and alwatys will. do you guys think that she would still like me?eventhough i went out with her sister(we didnt do anything with eachother nothing) and is it my fault that if she did once love me and doesnt now - is it my fault?

2006-11-17 02:58:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

he says its cause hes tiered or stressed.and that he hasnt got much of a sex drive like he used too.and he says with him not been to the gym latley,that effects his sex drive.hes got nothing wrong with his bits,it just hes lacking interest,and im trying my best to solve things,what can i do.as im not sure how sex effects men in their 50's

2006-11-17 02:57:53 · 31 answers · asked by burns_kerry_05 1

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for around 3 and a half months. Everything is great except that I'm a little worried about our physical relationship. We used to have sex at least 5 times a week. Then he told me that he gets complacent about sex sometimes (especially since we're both law students and studying all the time). Then, last night, we were talking about our pasts, and he mentioned that he and his ex used to have sex everyday. In fact, they did some pretty crazy things (i.e. like in a sauna). However, he hasn't tried to do anything wild like that with me. It bothers me that he didn't seem to be complacent with her. I thought maybe he's just not attracted to me, but he keeps assuring me that I'm the most attractive girl he's ever dated (not to sound mean, but I've seen his ex, and I would have to agree with him). What does it mean that he's gotten so complacent around me? Should I be worried?

2006-11-17 02:56:34 · 5 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3

Ok, assume there is a guy (26 years old) that has shaved his head because he is balding. He is good looking, good personality etc. At what age does it not bother you? For example, would you not be attracted to him if you were 21, but you would be attracted to him if you were 28? In other words, do women become more attracted to bald guys the older the woman gets?

2006-11-17 02:56:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is it that guys like taking girls virginity but then they doint like th "clingy"ness?

2006-11-17 02:55:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

it hapenned when we first broke up.... the next day, he dated his crush. They watch movie back to back for three times and they kissed. He tole me everything about it... what should I do?

2006-11-17 02:53:43 · 14 answers · asked by ♥ fÄtimÄ ♥ 2

I like these three guys two of which are way to old for me especially since I am not 18 yet but will be, the other one I've known for 4 years and we get along so well but we still dont know about whether we should go out or not..Who should I pick?

2006-11-17 02:53:34 · 3 answers · asked by Cesars Girl 1

we have been going out for about 2 years now and he is my first boyfriend. I have absolutely no idea what to get a boy for christmas. Can somebody please help???

2006-11-17 02:52:48 · 9 answers · asked by Monkey*crazy 1

Okay time to fuss up you guys, what are your dating no-nos? Meaning, what turns you off FAST..?

I'll start, my no-no is when a guy orders food FOR me.

2006-11-17 02:51:46 · 23 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4

Yeah that's my question to all guys, gals welcome too. Do you think they are cheap? Would you think they are less 'valuable' than the girls that you ask out? If it's a girl that you've been eyeing for some while who asks you out, would you wanna go with her or would you think she's cheap and stop liking her?

I didn't really ask this guy out but I invited him for some party and he thinks that I'm asking him out! OMG! But the thing is I actually like him. I don't know what he will think. I'm from an Asian country and my mentality is girls should never ask guys out! It is just so cheap

2006-11-17 02:50:47 · 4 answers · asked by floridaisfreakinhot 1

Both myself and my boyfriend have been burned badly in past relationships, we were both engaged and he was used and i was cheated on. I've been with him only 5 months but i know that i love him, i love and trust him more than i thought possible after my ex. I want so badly to tell him that i love him but i'm honestly afraid that it will scare him or that he will back off, though i don't think that he will...
It never seems the right moment.

Any advice to get over my insecurity of telling him? Any clues i should look for that he may be waiting for me to say it first?

I feel like a teen again....

2006-11-17 02:50:15 · 3 answers · asked by attila 6

2006-11-17 02:50:05 · 9 answers · asked by so bored at work 1

Long story short...we split 2 months ago. She and I have NO sexual feelings for each other. We still live together until the lease ends in January. But, she has already begun to talk to her ex's again. I think its wrong because she does it right in my face. I dont know if I am being shallow, or what. It upsets me to sit here and see how fast she is moving forward now. 5+ years, and this is all I get in return. Continuous disrespect. Her best friend pretty much keeps on pounding the thought of leaving asap...which may be the best thing. But, her best friend also is nt a BEST FRIEND. My ex doesnt realize how much she is ruining her life for the "grass is greener" concept...but thats cool.I always treated her with respect...never cheated...I mean, I have treated her like my queen. serious answers only..PLEASE! Am I wrong for being jealous...angry..emotionally disrespected? What can I honestly say in response to..."It doesnt matter, we arent together anymore!" This sucks!

2006-11-17 02:49:35 · 17 answers · asked by searchingforlove 1

can you still get "it" up.. Wondering if you still can at that age

2006-11-17 02:49:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

And if you aren't, how do you handle knowing that you aren't the kind of girl he typically goes out with?

2006-11-17 02:46:04 · 5 answers · asked by lachicadecafe 4

Okay, us women are always talking about the cruel things that guys do...the mind games that they play and how "cautious" we have to be when it comes to dealing with them, but I want to know the guys point of view. I want to know WHY they put up such a front when it comes to dealing with women...and what exactly is it that us women put u men through???

2006-11-17 02:43:16 · 16 answers · asked by Nikki 4

I was mad at him because rumor was he went over his ex-girlfriend house but he sad his close friend was talking to her but now he mad at me because he heard i was talking to a boy talking as in bout to go out he havent called me in two days

2006-11-17 02:42:28 · 12 answers · asked by jesse 1

in a serious relationship?
what makes a guy want to settle down?

2006-11-17 02:42:21 · 5 answers · asked by Special Little Girl xxx 1

My boyfriend broke up with me last night. He said he did it so he wouldn't hurt me anymore, but breaking up with me last night hurt me more than he ever could.

I'd found out a few weeks ago that he'd had a relationship 4 years earlier. They slept together for months. She got married shortly after they broke up. It just hurt imagining him with someone else. I was coping with it in my own way. Time would have helped me, but he didn't give me that time. He promised to do things to make it up to me like to stop talking to her, to teach me how to drive his car (it has manual transmission). Those things never happened. In fact, she got in touch with him and invited him to play poker with all their friends (they shared friends). He said he didn't want to stop talking to her because he would lose his friends.

Last night, he told me that his friends were his family, and he didn't want to even hypothetically consider chosing someone over them. So he dumped me.

2006-11-17 02:40:22 · 27 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4

2006-11-17 02:36:55 · 16 answers · asked by Purp 1

This hasn't happened to me before, Ive never cheated but now Im tempted everywhere I turn for some reason I want to f*** almost anything I see (Im worse than a guy all the sudden. Have you ever been tempted and have you done it?

2006-11-17 02:36:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

must i gave back all the thing dat my ex gave me.... alot of thing he gave me....

2006-11-17 02:35:47 · 20 answers · asked by sue 1

There is this guy I like and he's confussing me, for a while he was chasing after me, but now i'm not sure how he feels. Some days, he doesn't say anything at all that could be interpreted as more, but today! he's like 'sometimes you say the cutest things' and 'I've already determined that your body is great, but you've got such a great smile too' and 'you can do anything to me, sign, date, address'. He phones me tons if i dont get in touch with him. Yet, if i say i'm interested he seems to cool off. If not he seems to hit on me, ask me out, say we should be together. What is going on?

2006-11-17 02:34:47 · 9 answers · asked by maria h 1

2006-11-17 02:31:15 · 1 answers · asked by tizzy 5

i sms my girlfriend allot and it always gets to a point where she asks "so what do you want to speak about" and i never know wat to reply to it

2006-11-17 02:30:39 · 18 answers · asked by wadup78 3

There is this guy who I have been talking to for about a month and a half now. How do I tell if he really likes me? It seems like he does but I know how men play mind games because we haven't had sex yet. How do you tell the real from the fake.

2006-11-17 02:30:25 · 14 answers · asked by askandilltell 2

just found out my boyfriend has some friends that I knew nothing even heard of them. These are not new friends, we have been together for a while nowabout that he hangs out with regularly. I have never met them or and this is so strange and sudden. He also hangs out at this methodist center and I never knew that he went there why would he not tell me, he is not even methodist?

I even asked him about who he was with today (he was with a male friend of his, which i am certain of) and he says that he was alone at his apartment and he was not with anyone.
What does this mean?
WHY DOES HE HAVE TO LIE ABOUT SOMETHING SO SIMPLE? He says that he wants me to trust him but how?????

He also said that I am delusional because I never saw him at the methodist center????

2006-11-17 02:28:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I are very much in love with eachother. I didn't want to admit I was in love at first, but now i have decided to accept it.
When we first began dating he and I were very close, then due to circumstances we grew apart (not our love, our distance) We talked on the phone more than once a day, and were able to see eachother about once a week.
Then circumstances changed even further and We haven't seen eachother except for once since Sept. 18th, and we hardly ever get to talk. This isn't really either of our faults or choices. But it is terrible for the both of us.
This christmas though, he will be moving in with my family and myself. At first I thought it would be fantastic, but now I'm wondering if I'm going to have a problem with the abrupt change in arrangement. Will i get annoyed by him? Will i feel overwhelmed?
If i'm so used to not having him around much, will it affect our relationship in a bad way if he is suddenly ALWAYS around?
Thanks for any input ans answers.

2006-11-17 02:27:12 · 7 answers · asked by Its Josie! 2

I am a Pakistani American; I have been raised and brought up in the states. I was never born in Pakistan. I am an only daughter w/two brothers. I have had 2 arranged marriages that ended up in a divorce. My first husband was a psychotic, possessive, abusive person. I was married roughly for about 31/2 years, the end result I have a daughter with him (which he has never seen once). He was deported back to Pakistan when I was expecting (I was 22 yrs old). I stayed single for about 3 years after my first marriage fell apart. My parents received another marriage proposal for me, this guy was completely single but needed a green card and manipulated my folks for my hand (so in short he took advantage of my situation), as soon as I figured him out (we totally slept in separate rooms). I cancelled his INS paperwork, shortly after he disappeared on me. Its not the case, that I cant get a guy on my own, I am not awful looking (I always get hits from guys) – it was just that I was a good daughter to my parents and felt obligated to fulfill their wishes. Now, I just turned 28 a couple weeks ago, and feel that I should have the remote control of my life from now on and forever. I am single and dating someone for the past 2 months, which who is Pakistani (born and raised here) he is divorced also w/3 children (he has joint custody). When we both met, we decided not to speak of our past at all (it was his choice to decide this, he wanted to get to know me for who I am, without making any judgments of the past). For the past couple of weeks, he has been opening up about his past marriage, on why it failed. He has been noticing that I have been really quiet for some weeks, he has sensed that something is really bothering me, that I am keeping from him. Just last night, I told him about my 2nd arrange marriage, explained to him that it was more of a contract marriage. He listened, and said that he was hurt, that I didn’t tell him sooner. Not, the fact that I had an 2nd marriage, but, didn’t open this up to him, coz we spoke about everything that has happened in our lives. He said that he loves me, and what am I gonna do – if I have a third marriage….I told him, it will be totally on my decision, no more arrange marriages….he was just hurt, that I kept this from him for this long……what do u think is goin thru his mind?? PLEASE HELP

2006-11-17 02:25:41 · 14 answers · asked by fairytale_chic 1

he's 3 years older than me.we see each other every day,and ive had a crush on him since he first came here.

2006-11-17 02:23:24 · 13 answers · asked by *~confused chik~* 1