what to say to my girlfriend?

Question

i sms my girlfriend allot and it always gets to a point where she asks "so what do you want to speak about" and i never know wat to reply to it

Answer 1

Talk about dreams and what you see for your future. Talk about wht you would really like to be doing at that moment instead of what you are doing. Just use your imagination. TAlk about everything and anything. It's not really so much WHAT you are talking about but just that you are talking with her. Good luck!

Answer 2

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Here's the hard part: Pretend she never existed, like it was all a dream, don't call her, that will make you the smaller person, be the bigger person since you deserve better, what she did to you on Valentines Day was immature, especially after dating for four years. This person wasted allot of your time and through it out the window. Go out tonight, even it it is only yourself, don't drink and call or feel sorry for yourself, this will only cause you embarrassment! I know your hurting..This will eventually will go away in time. Today is not a good day for you and your emotions are spinning all over the place.

Please, whatever you do, don't answer her calls and don't call her. If she keeps calling, which she pro bally won't, don't return her call for 5 days. Make her sweat and DO Not get back together right away if you discuss this in 5 days. Tell her since she Broke up with you, you have done allot of thinking, and had the taste of "being single again" and you would like more time being "friends" for now, so you are sure you are making the right decision. Remember "She decided she didn't want to be with you" so the door is open for you to get out and see what you have been missing for four years. You honestly need to do this for yourself.

She doesn't know, but what she did was give you the best valentines day present you will ever get! A new start and a new beginning, use it to your advantage. You will look back on this and Thank God this happened now instead of 4 more wasted years of YOUR life. Today does suck, stay Strong and I promise you your life is going to be so much more exciting and you are going to be happy. If you continue to call and call her, she will think of you as needy and won't want you. She is going to rethink what she did to you today and will be hurt, if you act like you could care less. Girls always want the ones they can't have. That is who you are now to her. Let her suffer,realizing what a mistake she made. This will drive her crazy. Right now she is on cloud 9 thinking you will take her back, OH, is she stupid!

Your life isn't ruined, hers is..She lost someone special, and gave you a gift to let to live life and find someone you deserve. You are not getting back at her, your teaching her what an idiot she is and what she lost and what you gained without her. SO when You eventually talk to her, tell her thank you for what she did...
She will be hurt and you will be happy!

Answer 3

Why don't you talk to her on the phone rather than sms - surely having a 'proper' conversation would be easier? That way the conversation should flow more easily too as you'll remember things to say to each other while you are speaking.

Answer 4

It depends on what you text and her replies but ask her about her day,tell her about yours,funny stories about what we seen or done are always good but above all be yourself,relax and enjoy talking to her,it should be a pleasure not a chore.Tell her you want to talk about life,nature and the vastness of the universe ,then in 2000 years when you have covered that topic,maybe then you can think again of what to talk about !
Good luck !

Answer 5

You know what, maybe I am a chatterbox, but my boyf's and I have never ran out of things to say.

This might sound strange, but I ask my boyfriend "Tell me something I don't know" and he will tell me a fact that I didn't know about himself.
Its fun, coz he has to try and think of something really obscure, so he knows I would never know it. Such as his first bike was red, he hates the word "fixture". Yeah like I said, really random stuff, but its fun...and it usually leads onto a whole new conversation.
We have been together nearly 7 years and it is still great to learn a crazy little fact about him every now and again!

Answer 6

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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

Answer 7

How about backing off and giving her a little space? There's nothing more annoying and pathetic than a guy who has to be in constant "touch" with his girl. Sheesh! Grow a spine, dude. Trust me, she'll appreciate you more if you don't cling to her like a barnacle.

Answer 8

From her message, I can see she is getting bored with yr sms.

May be u should refrain from sending her too much unimportant sms, unless they r important or funny.

Try picture messaging with some funny pictures.

Good luck.

Answer 9

well to tell you the truth a healthy relationships should not often get to that question-u shuld neevr run out of thigns to talk about on a average day unless one of u is sick or somthing....personally though i think next time that happens jus say..."you-lets talk about you..." or "how was your day" or w/e.....this makes a girl feel so special and loved.
hope this helped
take care
~Ally

Answer 10

The best thing to do is just say something that comes to mind if she really likes you she wont care what you say just say something that comes to mind from your heart. Ad if you think u will say something dumb or silly. (i know its corny but...)try making a list of thing u would want too say to her before she or u call each other.