There is this guy who I have been talking to for about a month and a half now. How do I tell if he really likes me? It seems like he does but I know how men play mind games because we haven't had sex yet. How do you tell the real from the fake.
2006-11-17 02:30:25 · 14 answers · asked by askandilltell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a choice you'll both have to make, whether the feelings you sense are real. Sometimes it's just the idea of being in love, but eventually you'll have to get over the fear of "is it real?" to find the real thing. Just keep doing what you're doing and you'll discover what your feelings are.
2006-11-17 02:37:27 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell the real from the fake by. The real guy wont care if you have not had sex before and he would not make you have sex with him if he really likes you. The fake guy will probably leave as soon as you tell him that you have not had sex before. You also have a feeling if he is real or fake, you can tell be the way he acts.
2006-11-17 10:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by Hot Momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't think that your gonna have a guy put all his eggs
(feelings, emotions) into one basket without getting the whole
package. The thing is guys are more reseptable to visual, or
physical stimulation & girls are more mentally & emotionally
stimulated. And if you look at it everybody plays mind-games
in one way or another, but one of the big reasons guys tend to
start playing games is when they think your either not being
honest with him or he feels your not as into the situation, or
relationship as he is. Nobody likes to be taken advantage of but if
you take it one day at a time and not put any expectations on the
situation it makes it alot more fun & alot less stressful for you
and him. I hope this helps you in understanding guys a little
better ; )
2006-11-17 11:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by Purp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A month is not long at all. You don't say how old you are. But am guessing by your question you are under 19. trust me guy will make you believe you are the only one for them. Now some may mean what they say but you will not know for sure in till it is to late. gave it more time now I don't mean a couple a month's longer then that. even if they guy starts seeing some one else if he really does like an care for you he will come black to you.
2006-11-17 10:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very hard to tell, and the best answer that I can give u is that TIME will tell the story. Just take your time with this guy, and take your relationship one day at a time. If you put too much into it now, he'll think that you're easy and naive. Be strong and be patient...the more you get to know him, the more you'll be able to determine how he REALLY feels about u.
2006-11-17 10:38:23 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion if you have to ask yourself or any one else that question, the answer is no. If this man loved you for you, and didn't just enjoy the sex, YOU would feel it. When you are truly loved you will know. Even true love isn't perfect...but it is real, and you will not question it.
Good luck with him!!
or with me... jiji is a joke bye and kisses
2006-11-17 10:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by Leonardo Genteamable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men play mind games??? should i even start with the stuff the girls put guys through?
2006-11-17 10:36:18 · answer #7 · answered by Hockey IS Life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't tell but I guarantee that if he is playing with you, time will tell. There are "signs" you just have to pay close attention.
2006-11-17 10:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by inquisitor1125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know by the way he treats you and the nice things he tells you, and does for you.
2006-11-17 10:38:11 · answer #9 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't always easy to tell. sometimes you meet a guy who does truely care. these guys will do all they can to help you regardless of what it does to them.inthe end you have to decide for yourself.
2006-11-17 10:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by Gray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋