Singles & Dating - 17 November 2006

I just read a Q, and it really got me pi$$ed. What makes it ok for a girl to say any of the following (assuming they truly mean it, and I am sure there are guys who say this crap, too):

This can't work out, or I don't deserve you, or Why would you even want to be with me???

etc, etc, etc

Why can't we let our bf/gfs make their own decisions about how they feel about us? My gf told me this a couple of times and, while flattering in a macabre way, I thought it was selfish to be honest, that she doesn't want to let me make up my own mind about her.

2006-11-17 04:04:38 · 10 answers · asked by randyken 6

I was chilling at this outdoor cafe when I saw a Babe walking, she had a stick with her and I realized she was blind. So I stood up and followed her admiring her assets and looking down at my mirror shoes when near her.

2006-11-17 04:03:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-17 04:00:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girlfrien of 11 1/2 months moved from chicago to dubuque iowa. which is not that far. and she is hanging out with this 15 y/o ,and she is 18. but she just says she is just friends with him. but he is really the only friend that she has. he gives her rides home from school and he is over her house alot. she even tells me that he thinks its disrespectful for her to talk to me in his presence. so if i call and he's around she wont answer. or if i call her house and i ask if she's busy she will say yeah. and i would call her back and she will tell me that he was over. i always thought that if someone loved you, it wouldnt matter who is around when you say it. shouldn't my phone call matter more than what this little kid thinks, especially if they are just friends and have no relationship like me and her do ? just yesterday, i called her and she said she was gettting ready to leave and i said i love you like 4 times, and she wouldnt say it back. help!

2006-11-17 03:59:06 · 11 answers · asked by lance g 1

as much as women do? ive had a few guys that have said they dont like kissing....

2006-11-17 03:58:17 · 56 answers · asked by Nessa<3 1

My ex and I split up for about two months but we stay in touch. Everytime we talk he questions me about having a new BF and accuses me of sleeping around, he says he is joking but lately he has been saying it alot. What really bothers me is he cheated on me twice and left me for someone else and gets an attitude with me if he thinks im with someone else. I am trying to be a friend to him but is it worth it?

2006-11-17 03:58:05 · 13 answers · asked by mrclas 1

From your expirences is it normal to over think things when you are attracted to a girl. That you have only just met.

If so how did you stop over thinking things and start talking to the girl.

I know this is really a guy question but girls you can say if it is the same for you when you are attracted to a guy and how you over come it.

2006-11-17 03:57:23 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1

im away from him in another state and im only able to spend time with him on the weekends. when i finally do get to see him his sexual appetite isnt up to part as it should be.

2006-11-17 03:56:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

he told me i have a rare condition called "camel toe rot" it is eating me alive.....i will not make it....he gave me a few days....so enjoy me while u can cause i will be gone soon....
oh and what do u think ma daddy should do when im gone? should he stuff me and use me as a lawn ornament? or just cook me and have a BIG thanksgiving feast with the rest of the family?????...im leaning more towards the lawn ornament...cause i dont EVEN want to see Aunt Bertha's insides....id rather not know where that awful gas coes from....ick!

2006-11-17 03:54:51 · 18 answers · asked by Trailer Trash Barbie 1

what are guys attracted to...... i need a email friend!
MPike@msad43.org

2006-11-17 03:54:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really like one guy. He likes me too. But I think we are really too different. He has to study a lot now. he is preparing fot the university. I am a very busy person too. I study and work. I think I should stay away from him. Because he needs to study, not spending time with me. Same is about me. Plus he is 3 years younger.

2006-11-17 03:54:10 · 6 answers · asked by ALONE_GIRL 2

wear tight cloths and don't realize they are grossing everyone out? I am no prize and I cover my fat belly up. Are they blind, stupid, all of the above?

2006-11-17 03:53:19 · 17 answers · asked by Jon O 4

WEN EVA I LYK A BOI IT NEVA GOES RYT, SUMTHIN ALWAYZ GETS IN DA WAY AND STOPS US FROM BEING TOGETHER :( SHUD I JUS GIVE UP ON BOIS COZ IM TIRED OF GETTIN HURT OVA AND OVA AGAIN

2006-11-17 03:51:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know everyone is different, but how long did it last for you?

2006-11-17 03:51:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering in a general sense. What do you do to show him you love him? What sorts of things does he do to reassure you he accepts your love?

2006-11-17 03:48:23 · 20 answers · asked by randyken 6

my friend is sleeping with my boyfriend and im sleeping with her brother. What should I do? But I also have feelings for my boyfriends best friend who is dating my sister.
HELP!

2006-11-17 03:47:36 · 19 answers · asked by Hydie 1

Would a MAN even attempt to call or message you back if he did not want any part of you??? Simple as that?!

2006-11-17 03:47:00 · 14 answers · asked by softball13sgirl 1

2006-11-17 03:45:21 · 19 answers · asked by Thebronx 5

Juz 1 2 find bk dat romantic datings of those yester-years!

2006-11-17 03:44:33 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2

oops...i forgot...i dont have any tuna...thats just my plastic cooch....damn that smell makes me hungy.....what r we having for lunch peeps??? who is gonna come over and cook for me????

2006-11-17 03:42:00 · 15 answers · asked by Trailer Trash Barbie 1

While talking to my bf last night he admited he slept with another women as I felt my heart fall out of my ***, I didnt know what to do any other day I would have gave him the finger and walked away but due to the fact that I am pregnant I really dont want to leave but I am so upset I am not sure how to get past this, I want my baby to have it's daddy there everyday and every night it isnt the babies falt that daddy is a jackass. He said he was sorry and that he knows he screwed up he seemed to be serious but how do I know I have always told friends if he did it once he will do it agagin I am lost and dont know what to do......Help please!!!!!

2006-11-17 03:40:20 · 9 answers · asked by chrissylynn 1

Ok... so I have been talking to this guy for about 2 weeks....I really like him and I am pretty sure he is into me too... so we were kissing the other night and it started to get hot but then stopped him and told him I am not ready to get into anything yet...b/c I have just met you.. I mean I really wanted to though, but I want him to have respect for me and I dont want to just be left high and dry after!!! I know it really just matters how I feel and what I want, but what I want to know is how long is a good time to make a guy wait for him to respect you and is it ok to do all that other fun stuff without having sex for the first month or 2. Or is that just being a tease or childish? Thanks a lot for your help!!!

2006-11-17 03:39:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I comment on their butts who is hanging out from their skirts or how their puntang is winking at me.

2006-11-17 03:39:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

that has no picture, no real information on the person other than what is required to get the profile posted? Do you think that someone who posts a profile like this is really serious about finding a relationship? Why do you think men do this??????

2006-11-17 03:38:42 · 9 answers · asked by boo h 1

How would they know? I'm big, but not sporting an erection all of the time.
Would a girl actually dump a guy if he didn't measure up?

2006-11-17 03:37:50 · 18 answers · asked by Cameron L 4

I am 15 and a swimmer weigh 130 lbs i had 2 girfriend but each time i get older it gets harder and it's making me mad

2006-11-17 03:37:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok about 2 months ago i start talking to a gurl in my science class she knew that i was bisexual and she told me that she wasn't i was ok with it but just about 5 days ago she told me she likes me as more than a friend so i dicide to tel her that i like her to so we start writing to each other more than just about one day ago her mom found the letters and read some of them and told her that we going to hell for that she is scare about that so she dicide to just forget about liking gurls i really like her and i want to be with her but with her being scare i don't think she can be with me

2006-11-17 03:37:00 · 10 answers · asked by Crazy Gurl 2

What are some ways to turn you man on????

2006-11-17 03:36:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friends and I once and awhile meet up with fat chicks when we got nothing going down. But I find it is hard to put it on a girl that is way fat when I am sober. My sober limit is about 150 for a 5'7" girl. Say a girl is 5'6" 185lbs. How many beers per 5 pounds over will it usually take for them to be doable? For ugly I find 9 beers fixes all but fat girls are different..

2006-11-17 03:36:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

since i kicked him out for speaking to his ex behind my back, he came crawling back and cut all contact with her. since he ended their contact, he seems so much more into me, mentally, physically, gifts etc.... does this mean he now is truly here !00%?

2006-11-17 03:33:31 · 9 answers · asked by coco 2