since i kicked him out for speaking to his ex behind my back, he came crawling back and cut all contact with her. since he ended their contact, he seems so much more into me, mentally, physically, gifts etc.... does this mean he now is truly here !00%?
2006-11-17 03:33:31 · 9 answers · asked by coco 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have patience.Time will tell.Follow ur instincts gal.And keep a watch on him,till ur satisfied.Watch in terms that is he really into U.
2006-11-17 03:37:57 · answer #1 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with talking to an ex. They could just still be on a friendly basis. Maybe they were friends before they started dating and when they broke up they promised to keep being friends. Do you really want to take that away from him? Then again there is the possibility that he still has feelings for her and even now when you're thinking he's cut all ties with her he might still be in contact. But I dont know. Good luck.
2006-11-17 11:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by AndrewL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first of all, buying you things doesn't necessarily mean he cares about you.
second, why was he speaking to his ex? how long were they together? how long ago did they break up? how long have you guys been together?
there are lots of variables in your situation.. it's hard to answer the question when we don't know all the facts.
Bottom line? If you have a feeling, it's probably right. There's something to be said for a woman's intuition. BUT, don't be the crazy jealous girl for no reason either. Look at the facts and try to be as objective as possible.
2006-11-17 11:39:16 · answer #3 · answered by anothermelody2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww that sounds so cute . He came running back to u girl cuz he LOVES u. he probaly didn't tell u he was speaking to her becuz he was trying to avoid well what u gave him (kicking him out) . If he did all dis he oviuosly loves u girly. Forgive him and give him a chance if it happens again thennnnn u know to forget him, but give him a chance. BEST OF LUCK!
2006-11-17 11:38:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he was confused and wasn't sure what he wanted. if he is showing 100% effort into being with you, you have to trust that he is sincere and accept it. if you don't trust him you need to tell him and talk it out.it takes time but if he loves you, he will prove it to you. i had a similar situation where i was dating someone who had just gotten out of a 2.5 year relationship. and about 2 months into our relationship he cut me off and i guess tried to figure out if he missed her as a person or as a girlfriend. he came back to me a week later, it took time but i forgave him and moved past it. he proves to me everyday how much he loves me and he's still friendly with her, she's best friends with his sis, so it's something you have to just accept and take for what it is. good luck!
2006-11-17 11:38:30 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to know exactly. What you have to decide is... are you willing to take another chance on him with the possibility of getting hurt.
2006-11-17 11:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by KellyBelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he started talikng to his ex once be careful he might try to do it again.
2006-11-17 11:37:05 · answer #7 · answered by Murders Princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like it, good for you!
2006-11-17 11:37:41 · answer #8 · answered by xx_lush_xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes maybe
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2006-11-17 11:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋