ok about 2 months ago i start talking to a gurl in my science class she knew that i was bisexual and she told me that she wasn't i was ok with it but just about 5 days ago she told me she likes me as more than a friend so i dicide to tel her that i like her to so we start writing to each other more than just about one day ago her mom found the letters and read some of them and told her that we going to hell for that she is scare about that so she dicide to just forget about liking gurls i really like her and i want to be with her but with her being scare i don't think she can be with me
2006-11-17 03:37:00 · 10 answers · asked by Crazy Gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't push it. The fact that she said she did not like girls at first means that she is not sure. She could just be curious and wanting to experiment. But if she has religious convictions that are making her have second thoughts or even if she is just afraid of upsetting her mother, you should let it go and let her make her own decisions. If you try to convince her to go against what she believes, it will only confuse her more and she will probably pull away from you. If she is actually interested in more than a friendly relationship with you, it will happen. But you will have to let it happen naturally. Don't try to force it.
2006-11-17 03:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by justcurious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well some believe this is ok, while others dont accept it...I on the other hand, would have a problem knowing that my daughter liked girls, but until I cross that bridge who knows what I will do.....If she is not scared, then proceed with your relationship...If she is scared, then you need to forget the feelings you have toward her and move on...Tough as it may seem, you cannot make someone like you...Good luck...
2006-11-17 11:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by ~babes~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to go and do some research on gays and homosexuality.She dont just need to stop wanting to be with you just b/c of what her mom said,she needs to get her own point of view of the proble then make her own descion.I'm bi and when i told my mom she told me i couldnt be with the girl that i love and that i was gonna go to hell,well i did research on the whole thing and then i decided by myself and by what i knew, that i was gonna be with my g/f. That was a year and a half ago and me and my girl are still happily together and my mom has learned to deal!
2006-11-17 11:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel Hillhouse`s Girl! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, the fact that her Mom will probably now more than ever keep an "eye" on her girl doesn't look good for you. I'd forget about this girl. There are plenty of other fish in the sea!
2006-11-17 11:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing is u still young. y don't u wait to see what's out there before u engage yourself in a relationship like that. although u have the right to like anybody u want to but just think about it. good luck
2006-11-17 11:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what her parents think or what anyone else thinks for that matter, they're not the ones going through it . . . you are! Be honest and true to yourself and be completely honest with her . . . don't force anything, don't try to make anything happen . . . if anything is going to happen it will, on it's own time . . . if you allow yourself to relax and let nature takes it course everything that was meant to be . . will be.
2006-11-17 11:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by RFM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be more confused then scared at this point just talk to her and give her time to think the situation if she really likes you she will come back to you
2006-11-17 11:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her mom won't allow her to be with you. If you/she are under the age of 18 there's nothing you can do. Forget it.
2006-11-17 11:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the next you two are at a party, get her really wasted and do all those naughty little things you fantasize about - Keep us updated!!
2006-11-17 11:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with what your heart tells you.
2006-11-17 11:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋