he's 3 years older than me.we see each other every day,and ive had a crush on him since he first came here.
2006-11-17 02:23:24 · 13 answers · asked by *~confused chik~* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well does he like u...if he doesnt and u ask him out he will start to be all werid around u...second of all sit him down and tell him how u feel your friends he should be able to accept it
2006-11-17 02:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful if you dont want to ruin the friendship. Are there any signs that he is into you also? Maybe test him a little first, like talk about another guy being cute and see if he gets jealous or uncomfortable or not. Or ask him if there is anyone he likes.
When you do tell him that you like him, keep it simple and dont be overbearing.
2006-11-17 02:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just go for him. I have dated a lot of my friends and we are still friends. But you do have to be care full if you ever did go out and it did not work between you two than don't say anything that should ruin your friendship.
2006-11-17 02:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by Hot Momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask away. I personally hate when women pull out the "friendship" card. Guys want to be loved too. Just because he doesn't make the first move doens't mean he isn't interested. Maybe he is the shy type.....much like me. I personally would love it if a woman asked me out, but they don't.
2006-11-17 02:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by Stupid White Bastard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is chemistyry in the air i would go for it, he might even be thinking about it anyway, you could maybe say some thing casually like do u fancy going for a drink sometime?... and if he says he is busy be casual, if he agrees you know he is intrested there is no harm in trying. goodluck, and if you have a great friendship then you wont lose it whatever you do
2006-11-17 02:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by rachie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he shows any sign of interest in you then i would say go for it, but if he just wants to be friend with u and u ask him out u might ruin it. so think twice girlfriend.
2006-11-17 02:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know where your coming from, i didnt want to ruin my relationship with a guy i liked alot
but i kissed him and i ruined it all but i only ruined it becasue i didnt find out how HE felt!!
just find out how he feels about the whole idea of you guys being a couple!!
2006-11-17 02:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all right heres what you do ask him if he wouldnt mind going out with you and if it doesnt work out tell him that a relationship ust doesnt work being friends is a good thing
2006-11-17 02:30:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Christian and I always suggest resist being gay, but if you are concerned about ruining a friendship don't do it.
2006-11-17 02:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is happening to me right now. my best advice is first to give him hints you are fell'n him and if he gives you hints back holla @ that
2006-11-17 02:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by teeka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋