just found out my boyfriend has some friends that I knew nothing even heard of them. These are not new friends, we have been together for a while nowabout that he hangs out with regularly. I have never met them or and this is so strange and sudden. He also hangs out at this methodist center and I never knew that he went there why would he not tell me, he is not even methodist?
I even asked him about who he was with today (he was with a male friend of his, which i am certain of) and he says that he was alone at his apartment and he was not with anyone.
What does this mean?
WHY DOES HE HAVE TO LIE ABOUT SOMETHING SO SIMPLE? He says that he wants me to trust him but how?????
He also said that I am delusional because I never saw him at the methodist center????
2006-11-17 02:28:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, then set up to meet all of them. a dinner outing maybe. it will keep your mind @ ease. and it's a chance to get to know them. sure, you're concern about the whole relationship. so, make plan and insist on this dinner.
2006-11-17 02:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him now. the project right this is there is not any distinction between a 'fib' and a lie. 34&40 six? in line with threat 17&26? See the adaptation? you're the two mature adults. i'm sixty six and that i've got been out with and are nevertheless friends with women people who're 9 to 10 years youthful than I. in case you seem 34 then you definately are probably in very stable wellbeing and if so are energetic and not a 'settee potato'. success Bruce P.
2016-10-04 01:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, maybe one of two things is happening...One, he could be telling you the truth and it was not him at the Methodist center, just someone you thought was him. Why not walk up to him next time you see him with these friends and ask him to introduce you to his friends if that is the case? Two, perhaps he has started going to church or found something at church that he is afraid that you will not like or he is not real comfortable sharing with you right now. I would find that kind of strange, but that may be the case as well.
2006-11-17 02:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People lie for a host of reasons, but this is more about not letting things out. He may not have thought it was important and now that you seem to be fussing about it(no offence, you have every right) he may have gotten the wrong idea and was in his mind compelled to lie.
Let him have all the trust you can afford to give, if things don't change have a final talk and decide, mutually, where you want your relationship to go.
Hope everything works out and it is infact something trivial...
2006-11-17 02:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by yasiru89 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say he don’t want his friends know about your relationship with him. For some reason many boys do this I guess he isn’t sure about continuing with you Once he decide it then he will introduce you to all his friends and tell you all the truth. Take this in your mind and take care when you provide SEX to him
2006-11-17 02:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by smartcamal1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got delusional of this story too. If he is really your bf you should know everything or most of the habits, other else you are a bag on the side.
2006-11-17 09:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Twin brother?
Just kidding. It's your choice to trust him or not. If you're sure he's lying about something simple like this, there's bigger issues ahead. But I suppose you already know this.
2006-11-17 02:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you talk to him the same way you type your questions then he probally never has a clue of what the hell your saying and thinks everthing is cool
2006-11-17 02:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by superbad91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a man but i had a friend who did this.. he did it because he wanted to keep his girlfriend, or girl he was dating distanced from him. Usually his other friends had no clue he was dating someone
2006-11-17 02:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he guy or what???
2006-11-17 02:51:57 · answer #10 · answered by Loka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋