Singles & Dating - 1 November 2006

Hey, I am an Asian dude who came to America 4 years ago as a high school 9th grader. For four years of high school life, I met numerous American girls with exotic beauty that I cannot find from my native girls. I was attracted, but I failed to get them due to my horrible attitude.

Am I just an extremely unattractive one?? I want to doubt that since there were about 13 girls who were interested in me, and three of them asked me to go to prom and stuff.

But due to this horrible attitude, girls who were interested in me, I ignored them all, and I said "No" to those who asked me to go to prom. I know that I acted like a real bastard, but I didn't mean to. They still hate me to death. God they are scary. So glad that I am in out of state college.

Several college girls are showing interests on me and I still dunno how to approach to them. Particularly, What should I do when they smile at me extremely long to show their interest?
What kind of talk do they want to have???

2006-11-01 15:59:58 · 12 answers · asked by James 1

icant answer questions anymore , when is it the next day on this site , i live in south sfrica and it is seven in the morning now i am about to leave for work

2006-11-01 15:58:33 · 26 answers · asked by ? 2

ok i dated mi best girl friend and she dumped me but i still want to be friends but she doesnt whant to what should i do!?!?!?!

2006-11-01 15:56:32 · 17 answers · asked by beach bum 2

after 6 years of dating eachother.his kids are grown with kids .but he don't want to get married.he's been divorce for 8 years and said he would never do it again...he offers to help me out all the time with different things....what's up with all that?

2006-11-01 15:55:50 · 16 answers · asked by hl 2

So, I took some very good advice and told my bf I'm a sadist (someone who gets turned on by iflicting pain onto others) but I told him that I don't want to ever hurt him or any other man, and that it's just a fantasy, he seemed okay with it, but now everytime I touch him he jumps a little, and when we kiss, his lips are all tight and his eyes are scrunched, he has the expression of a person waiting to get punched in the face. Just last night we where making out and my hand ran through his hair (I didn't pull it or anything like that) and he yelped and nearly fell off the couch, what do I do now? I keep reasuring him, but I don't think he believes me.

2006-11-01 15:53:25 · 13 answers · asked by StarGirl 2

I'm looking for some fun conversation starting questions to talk about. Questions like, 'What's your perfect day?' 'If snowlfakes could be a flavor, what would you choose?' stuff like that :)

2006-11-01 15:53:16 · 3 answers · asked by JitterBug589 3

I work for a publishing company with mainly girls, many cute ones to, know im a bit younger then most gals there, im 21. There is this one nice girl at work who works in a different dept. and different building. I do computer/IT work so im not at here building often, I talked to this girl a bit and got to know her name. But how do I tell her that I want to get to know here better. Also I have to work with here from time to time and dont want mess up anything she does seem very nice and dont want to ruin anything with her especially in a work environment, also I belive she is a bit older as well.

2006-11-01 15:51:59 · 5 answers · asked by question 2

I was best friends with a guy for about 2 years, we never left each other's side. Eventually we began actually dating but broke up after 3 months. We've been broken up for about a year now and are still friends, but have not hung out since the break up. What do you think? Is it dumb to date your best friend?

2006-11-01 15:51:25 · 11 answers · asked by patience032651 1

is it okay for someone you met a week before to hug you. for example, theres an attractive male who frequently buys something at my job, i converse with him all the time and one day he gave me hug. i saw nothing wrong with it, but, one of my co-workers thought it was weird. give your opnions.

2006-11-01 15:50:56 · 10 answers · asked by youngj042004 5

Anything at all?

I bet there's something. . .

2006-11-01 15:50:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok.. I met this guy on Lava in July '05, we never actually met in person till Mar '06. Everything was great at 1st, but I always felt like I was doing the 'work'. He would NEVER call when he promised, he'd avoid my calls during Hockey! So he dumped me a month later. I though it was all my fault, but i knew he wasnt being honest. Time passed, I got over him, now..5 mo later, he msn's me telling me he wants to see me again. How he still likes me. Then confesses he was seeing his someone else. But they were on a break. So I've forgiven him after hearing his side, and decided to start back slowly. But he's all weird. He willingly gives me his cell, AND work #, says to call anytime. We reminisce about good times and how fun it could be again..and yet we have yet to even meet up!! He still hasnt picked up the phone!GUYS.pls give me your 'male intuition' about why hes being this way. Why come back after all this time and express what he has only to make no effort to make it happen?

2006-11-01 15:49:14 · 10 answers · asked by Cappagirl 2

She was annoying and complained about my drinking and other girlfriends all the time. I slapped her around to straighten her out and she got this social worker betch involved who I'd like to crack one as well.

Most of the loans were in cash for my apartment rent and bike payment.

I have night vision shots of her giving me B.J.'s because I had the camera in my room. Instead of a check, I'm gonna send her boyfriend and elderly grandmother undated pictures of the BJ scenes 2 days before the wedding.

Should I put it on the internet too or will it ruin the surprise?

2006-11-01 15:48:04 · 20 answers · asked by Irv S 1

Saying things to you like "your breathing is "too loud"!!!!!??

2006-11-01 15:47:22 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this sophomore in my spanish class and i always make her laugh and i think she might have a thing for her shuld i ask her out after i get closer with her

2006-11-01 15:46:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 19, considered to be too nice. Is that really that annoying? I dont drink, smoke...is that what drives you away? why do people shun me because im polite and clean?

2006-11-01 15:44:08 · 12 answers · asked by Hayakain 2

my ex boyfriend loves my best friend and she loves him but i still love him but how can i tell her that i don't want her dating him? i don't want to be a bad friend but i need to be true to myself. wat do i do????????

2006-11-01 15:43:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

About people, For some reason I cannot bring myself to reveal my true feelings about ANYONE, family, friends, or otherwise. It seems to cause problems, wheather it's good or bad. I would rather bulls**t, confuse, or flat out lie. before doing this.

2006-11-01 15:42:38 · 5 answers · asked by Sentinel 3

Well i'm 17 and me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 years and are very serious about each other...she wants to finally do it, her and mine both first time....shes all for it and so am i, i just dont want to ruin anything or do something ill regret....what should i do

p.s. hopefully this doesnt sound too cheesy, im usually the tough guy at school but im stumped on this one...thanks in advance

2006-11-01 15:41:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well 2 years ago i had my first girlfriend, (we will call her girlfriend A). We went through a lot of times together, good and bad. I pretty much felt like i fell in love with her when i met her. As time went on, she broke my heart. I then moved on with my life and had a new girlfriend (girlfriend B). time went on and girlfriend A wanted to get back together so i broke up with girlfriend B. Not even a few months back together she broke my heart again and that relationship was over. Girlfriend B wanted another chance and we have been happier than ever.

Here is my question... with girlfriend A we used to talk on the phone 5-10 times a day and see each other like every single day. Now with girlfriend B she is the nicest caring loving girl in the world and couldnt ask for anything more. The only thing is we only talk like once a day on the phone and see each other one or two times during the week.

Is there something wrong with that? Any help to fix that would be greatly appreciated.

2006-11-01 15:39:38 · 11 answers · asked by pele3844 1

Do you wear headphones so you wont be bothered? What are the top 3 things a guy can start a conversation with that will turn you off...top 3 things that will make you interested? If you insist on paying your half of the bill does that mean you are not interested in anything more? State you age with your answer.

2006-11-01 15:37:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so we had a dance last week. Some people told me that this guy was looking for me. So I went along looking for him! I eventually found him! And he stuttered and ask me if I had done a project...even though I always do my work! I think he likes me or something! What do you think? If he likes me, should I go confront him? Or should I wait for him to come and ask me?! But first....does he even like me?

2006-11-01 15:35:49 · 6 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2

Today a girl that I have been seeing for a while told me that she never had romantic feelings for me. She said that she still wanted to be friends and that she felt really bad for leading me on. Well, anyways, I had a suspicion that she isn't over her ex that she dated two years ago and she probably wants him, or somebody exactly like him. From other people that knew them at the time, I happened to know that he was just rebounding with her, but I am pretty sure that she had no idea. Since I was angry, I let this out and I think it hurt her pretty bad. I have no interest in getting back with her after what she had said to me, and know that if I had any chances, at all, I probably blew them. But I would want her friendship back. Do you think this is possible? I feel really, really aweful about what I said. How bad is it that I told her this?

2006-11-01 15:35:35 · 14 answers · asked by beagun0 1

i want o make a pretty girlfriend to make here happy ,...!
so please help me with some tips

2006-11-01 15:34:27 · 2 answers · asked by sanjeev 9811325009 1

So, there's this guy I met a few months ago and I'd like to get to know him better (but not in a dating way, yet). Does anyone have some ideas of things that we can do together but don't give him the idea that I want to date him?

2006-11-01 15:33:37 · 13 answers · asked by swimmer2 2

i am great in bed, very nice, polite, honest, im smart and good looking with a great body, (yes i am a guy) with a great sence of humor. i am not stuck up or conseded. i am 21 and only had 3 girlfriends. girls dont ask me out and they dont stay with me eather. why can't i find somebody? and why can't i keep a loveing relationship? is that normal? is it also posible to be to good in bed?

2006-11-01 15:33:06 · 13 answers · asked by jesse g 1

Well, this is strange because he's my calculus professor, though not much older than me - hence that I'm 21 and he's 27. Anyway, he has been telling me that I'm his favorite student, or sometimes we'd chat a little when we bump into each other in the hallways, and lately I've been seeing him a lot at the bus stop, then we ended up catching the bus together, and chatted a little on our way home. He's been noticing slight changes of me, such as my hair color, then he'd goes, "oh so you dyed your hair? it looks gorgeous on you"...and lastly, when we met on the bus again this monday, he was telling me that he won't be teaching in my university after this semester and is wondering if we will keep in touch after this semester. Honestly, I think he's really attractive and fun to be around with, yet it gives me an icky feeling because he's my professor. So what is up with this guy? Is he just being nice to me because I'm his "favorite student" as he stated or is it something more? Thanks

2006-11-01 15:32:42 · 5 answers · asked by BeBe 1

2006-11-01 15:31:40 · 9 answers · asked by malou 1

2006-11-01 15:31:39 · 4 answers · asked by me 1

2006-11-01 15:30:09 · 17 answers · asked by kamikazlee 1

Ladies...the man that you love...does it matters if he has a small..dick??

2006-11-01 15:28:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous