my ex boyfriend loves my best friend and she loves him but i still love him but how can i tell her that i don't want her dating him? i don't want to be a bad friend but i need to be true to myself. wat do i do????????
2006-11-01 15:43:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you let him go for whatever reason that may be or you all split up, therefoer you dont really have a right to have a say on who he dates but you can tell your best friend how you feel. Even so if they love each other there isnt much you can do. Just let them go, if it was meant to be between the two of you it may not work out between the best friend and him and then you can ask him back.You also should tell your ex how you feel about him still. But honestly you should move on because there will be many loves in your life. Dont get stuck on someone who doesnt share the same feelings for you as it can only lead to endless pain.
Sorry if that wasnt the answer you wanted but I honestly dont think theres anything else you could do without getting your heart broken or making one or both of them angry with you. Because if you try to split them up or sabatoge their relationship it will only cause them anger and resentment towards you.
2006-11-01 15:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by beautifullybroken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her, at least she could keep that part of her life private. But don't make it like you are jealous. Just say hey, I feel real uncomfortable with you being with my ex. Could you at least not talk about him around me or bring him around me. If she is your friend she should at least be able to do this for you. But I am one of those girls that don't want my friends talking to any of my old boyfriends, there is like a 5 year limit to that. After 5 years he is fair game. I know I'm a little jealous I guess :)
2006-11-01 15:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by mizzladyariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reality - if he likes her, honey, move on and find another boyfriend! That way you still get to keep your girlfriend (and maybe even stay friends with your old boyfriend)
2006-11-01 15:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:) tell him which you in basic terms wanna be acquaintances lower back. attempt being acquaintances and overlook approximately his gf and be respectful to the the two certainly one of them, tutor him and his gf which you arn't attempting to interrupt them up, in basic terms which you rather desire to b acquaintances. they'll the two settle for u and additionally you will bypass from there or they wont. if so, its a stable subject which you're aside. stable success! <3 do no longer lose wish sister
2016-10-03 04:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it. he's your ex for a reason. it's their relationship now, be happy for them. or you can have a wild menage a trois. that'd be pretty cool.
2006-11-01 15:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO MOVE ON, HE YOUR EX AND IF HE LOVE SOMEONE ELSE THEN THAT THE WAY IT IS. YOU NEED
TO MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE ELSE. DONT LOSE
YOUR FRIENDSHIP OVER SOMEONE THAT OUT OF
YOUR LIFE. HE MOVE ON. TIME FOR YOU TO DO THE
SAME. DONT YOU THINK.
2006-11-01 15:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there done it. if you and your BEST FRIEND really care for him BOTH OF YOU will forget him. <3 peace
2006-11-01 15:57:35 · answer #7 · answered by tessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's really difficult.
I can't think of anything to help you.
2006-11-01 15:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋