after 6 years of dating eachother.his kids are grown with kids .but he don't want to get married.he's been divorce for 8 years and said he would never do it again...he offers to help me out all the time with different things....what's up with all that?
2006-11-01 15:55:50 · 16 answers · asked by hl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He must love you alot and wants you to meet the rest of his heart bearers. It's a sign of true respect, he respects you enough to introduce you to his flesh and blood; you have been together long enough to be techniqually married. Take it as a sign of true respect!
I know lots of people who stay together and never offically get married....... some just choose not to, it kind of keeps things real.
2006-11-01 15:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by JustCurous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's been lying to his self. He probably was so miserable in his marriage and going through the ugly divorce that it drained him and he has sworn to never get into that kind of mess again but the truth is, God put man and women on earth together for a reason. He can not live happily without a women in his life. That is why he is dating you instead of becoming Gay. lol
He wants you to meet his kids because he really likes you and has become comfortable in your relationship. If the kids really like you then he may be considering the next step.
2006-11-01 16:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by Shawnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just does not want to. My father in law is a widow now and he says the same thing. He says he has been married for 20 something years. He just does not want to be tied down anymore he likes just dating now. He does not mind if it was with the same women for a long period of time he just does not want to be married he said he has done it for so long he just wants to be kinda free now. Maybe your bf his going through the same thing and since he has be divorced for so long im sure his kids will accept you so no worries there.
GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-01 16:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're saying you don't love toddlers and do not want to fulfill his. Forgive me for being so blunt, yet why the hell are you seeing this guy? Do your self and him a want. tell him the way you certainly experience, and go your separate techniques. in case you pursue a relationship with him, then down the line, there is going to be problem, and it really is going to be over his toddlers. self-discipline. His want to be their father, and performance time with them, apart from you. If their mom remains contained in the photo, you'll maximum in all chance meet her, and there is a sturdy chance that you 2 is in basic terms not contributors of a mutual-admiration society. i'm particular you're an outstanding, sensible woman, with diverse large characteristics. it really is what attracted him to you. there's no want to exhibit regret for or be embarrassed about not liking or desiring toddlers. in spite of the indisputable fact that evidently to me that his toddlers will continually be a sore spot, in case you pursue this relationship.
2016-12-05 11:05:13 · answer #4 · answered by geiser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 6 years he's finally going to introduce you to his kids? I find that hard to believe it would take so long. Seems to me he lives by that saying "Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free?"
2006-11-01 16:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by windandwater 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just what the man says, Read his lips. He is not ready for Marriage yet. Accept it and make your choice to stay with him or move on down the road.
2006-11-01 16:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm amazed that so many people understood what you were asking well enough to answer you. You seem to have a unique take on the English language.
2006-11-01 16:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes the relationship just the way it is. But he still wants you to know that you are important to him.
2006-11-01 15:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is ready to accept you as a permanent part of his life, just without the marriage paper.
2006-11-01 16:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE HE MAY FEEL THAT SINCE YOU AND HE HAVE
BEEN SEEING EACH OTHER FOR SUCH ALONG TIME,
MAYHE WANT HIS KIDS TO FINALLY MEET YOU, MAYHE
HAS CHANGE HIS MIND ABOUT EVERYTHING, MEET THEM
AND HAVE A GOOD TIME.
2006-11-01 16:01:33 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋