Ok.. I met this guy on Lava in July '05, we never actually met in person till Mar '06. Everything was great at 1st, but I always felt like I was doing the 'work'. He would NEVER call when he promised, he'd avoid my calls during Hockey! So he dumped me a month later. I though it was all my fault, but i knew he wasnt being honest. Time passed, I got over him, now..5 mo later, he msn's me telling me he wants to see me again. How he still likes me. Then confesses he was seeing his someone else. But they were on a break. So I've forgiven him after hearing his side, and decided to start back slowly. But he's all weird. He willingly gives me his cell, AND work #, says to call anytime. We reminisce about good times and how fun it could be again..and yet we have yet to even meet up!! He still hasnt picked up the phone!GUYS.pls give me your 'male intuition' about why hes being this way. Why come back after all this time and express what he has only to make no effort to make it happen?
2006-11-01 15:49:14 · 10 answers · asked by Cappagirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot to mention that he even told me he has a better connection with me than with the other girl he was with. He just couldnt end it with her b/c they were together off and on for over 2 yrs. I dunno what to think. This guys is 34 yrs old!! Thats whats crazy! I totally believe things happen for a reason..so whats the reason hes come back to me after all this time? What sucks is that during all the reminiscing, i started to get feelings for him again. When we were together 5 months ago, I saw him as a future husband if he would just get his head out of his A55!! Sooo confused here!
2006-11-01 16:04:40 · update #1
I am a guy and as 1 i am telling u don't answer anything from him he has u wrapped around your finger like a rubber band i had a friend that did that and a year later they divorced because he would be gone for months he is using u because he failed with the gf he left u for DUMP HIM
2006-11-01 16:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously likes to play games, let him go. If he couldnt be honest and be a straight-shooter from the beginning, he never will be, that's just it. Continue doing all the work, keep it movin away from his direction.
avoid your calls during hockey? yeah, his significant other. who he's still involved with, did he every mention that he might be married? Usally guys arent like that unless they are MARRIED. (Been burned myself)
2006-11-01 15:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by fan_wan :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously using you be it rebound or sex or just companionship on this so called "break." If he can't even commit to pick up his phone he obviously can't commit to a relationship. I've ran into friends who are like this. Usually they're irresponsible (or stupid) but even so, he's not worth your time. You've already given him a year, get out before you waste more time.
2006-11-01 15:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by alleyboy_24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright, he dumped you for the other girl. now you are contemplating getting back with him? why? just move on. he's a chump and should have chose you over her the first time. tell him to kiss your a55 and move on. that's my advice. you can give me a shot. haha.
2006-11-01 15:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
of path he likes you!!!! i understand he likes cuz inspect each thing u reported!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! with the aid of fact he's not asking u out u ask him out he's probaly shy the only reason he does not communicate 2 u 4 an hour is cuz he's catching up in homework i think of in basic terms ask him out stable success
2016-10-03 04:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say don't give him the time of day. You said you were past him. Keep him that way.
2006-11-01 15:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by air_of_truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE PLAYING GAMES WITH YOU, AND YOU NEED TO LEAVE
HIM ALONG, NEXT TIME HE CALL OR WHAT EVER LET
HIM KNOW THAT YOU THROUGH WITH THE NONSENSENSE
AND LEAVE AT THAT. AS ALONG AS YOU CONTINUE TO PLAY
THE GAME HE WILL CONTINUE TO DO THIS.
2006-11-01 15:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste anymore of your time on this dingdong.
2006-11-01 15:52:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just someone to keep him company while he's single.
he's willing to try you if you do all the work.
2006-11-01 15:52:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're his backup girl... "he's just not that into you" sorry
2006-11-01 15:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by zmj 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋