Singles & Dating - 1 November 2006

Don't you question why it is you are so repulsed by the opposite sex's organ? You almost seem to RELISH the opportunity to tell a guy how gross they look in speedos. I described myself as fit, etc...just so you'd know I wasn't fat and hairy. Why is that egotystical, to the one of you who said so? My God...99% of females wear revealing swimsuits to the beach, and 99% of those who do don't look good. You're such hippocrites. Please, I don't enjoy seeing your odd shaped breasts, cellulite, love handles, piercings, tattoos, crotch stubble...or outlines of anything down there. Utter hippocrites.

2006-11-01 17:04:51 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1

exam

2006-11-01 17:02:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

one of my friends has been hinting about asking me out for a few weeks + a few days ago he actually did ask me out. i was very flatered by it but the thing is, he's a lot shorter than me + it looks weird when we're together. i think he's really easy to talk to, but he's the shy type + it's really awkward when we're together now. he really likes me + he's been trying to do things to get me to like him more. the problem is that i've been single for 2 years + i'm sick of it + the other guy that i really want to go out with is going out with this other girl who used to be my friend but now shes a snob. + i've heard theyre gonna be together for a while. i like my friend as a friend and i dont want our friendship to be difficult b/c then i would be losing a good friend + we have a class together too. i'm sort of desperate and i like all the perks of having a bf, but i dont wanna go out with him just to say i have a bf. b/c then i would break up w/ him + hurt us both. plz help wat shud i do?

2006-11-01 17:01:21 · 10 answers · asked by ♥kisses_in_the_rain♥ 3

I need a sample size of at least 30 and as of right now I have 23 answers. However the more the merrier.

2006-11-01 17:00:42 · 16 answers · asked by Carrie.JesscaParker 1

I have no great reason to be in contact with her other than as causual friends. She shows no signs of wanting my boyfriend back, or wanting to get at me for dating him or anything. She contacted me because a friend of mine let her know my IM address. People keep telling me it's not healthy for my and my boyfriend's relationship to be in communication with his ex. Is this true? Should I stop the already minimal corrospondence?

2006-11-01 17:00:30 · 4 answers · asked by Jasmine 5

2006-11-01 16:59:02 · 17 answers · asked by Laffy_Taffygurl 1

Everytime my boyfriend and and I go out for dinner. He reachs for his wallet to pull out his credit card to pay for dinner. I really like him to pay for dinner. However,for the past two weekends I made the decision to pay for dinner, and he was OK with that. I really don't feel comfortable paying for dinner. He is a doctor and makes more money than I do. Last week we went to a restaurant, then we end up leaving because he thought the prices were too expensive. I felt very uncomfortable. Is he cheap? Should I continue sharing the bill when we go out for dinner? I come from a culture where men always pay for a lady. Maybe an Anglo see things differently. Please help me understand. I don't know what to do.

2006-11-01 16:58:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been seeing this girl for awhile, we've gone on a few dates already, kissed a couple of times and spent a bit of time together. The other night she was around at my house having dinner. I decided to sit next to her when she said 'you make me so nervous'. She later slept in my bed but knocked back my advances which was cool but she kept staring at me while I was trying to sleep when i turned over she starts to write messages on my back. What's going on here?? Is she testing me?? Why is she still nervous?? Is this kind of behaviour weird for a girl??

2006-11-01 16:55:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is 3 years younger than me , but I feel I'm interested in dating girls 15 years younger than me. What should I do?

2006-11-01 16:54:54 · 17 answers · asked by AJ 1

I have seen several personal ads where guys put down "looks or age not important". But is that even normal for a guy? Arnt' men biologically shallow? Any theories?

2006-11-01 16:53:36 · 12 answers · asked by meanpromqueen 2

an ex boyfriend with a new girlfriend actually.

2006-11-01 16:53:08 · 8 answers · asked by tee 1

I think I like this guy and I know he likes me, but I'm worried that because we're too similar we wont last. We talk to eachother on the phone or aim most nights and tease eachother a lot... but in a good way. My friends think I should go for it, but my last relationship made me swear to never date a younger guy again and this guy is a year younger. any comments?

2006-11-01 16:52:34 · 6 answers · asked by Jenn 1

2006-11-01 16:52:03 · 18 answers · asked by hernandeza03 2

I have alot of info and not much room so here it goes. A woman contacted me through an internet site about a year ago. We have talked on the phone every month since then. We have never met!! She lives about 60miles away. We talk about personal thngs all the time and even have phone sex. She has a respectable job and is not a scammer. The girl has a habit of not calling me back for weeks at a time. She says that she is very busy. She has also told me that she is not dating anyone. We have made plans to meet but then she will never call me back to confirm. I asked her point blank the other day if she wanted a relationship or just wanted to be "penpals". She told me that she would love to have a relationship but doesn't know if she can put enough time and energy into it because of the distance between us. She said that we need to talk about it and come up with a plan, so I haave called her for the last three days and she NEVER answers or calls me back. Is this worth pursuing??

2006-11-01 16:49:38 · 11 answers · asked by TREE 1

I'm 30, in great shape, not much body hair, tall, lean...and like to wear speedos to the beach. I never act like I'm full of myself or even approach women. Why is there this instant revulsion to the male body in something like speedos, according to so many polls? I'd like to see some posts from ANY women who like seeing guys in speedos, provided the guys are polite, on swim teams, in shape, NOT hairy, fat or full of themselves, etc...

2006-11-01 16:48:34 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1

This may not be your first kiss but a first kiss with someone new. I believe the guy should make the first move what you think, after that how long should it last? Should it be long enough for the other person to kiss back? I just looking for any thoughts or ideas about your first kiss.

2006-11-01 16:47:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I what to be a great girlfriend , I cook for him and wash his clothes and I'm always there for him and I'm faithful , but I want to do so much more. Any advice . thanks.

2006-11-01 16:45:49 · 10 answers · asked by kitty 6

what message does it send to a guy(you were his first,maybe only g/f,he's 22 now the girl 24) we were 2gether 9 months ago for a month on winter break. I was his first and maybe only g/f. He used 2 avoid me like making a U turn(after the break up) when he'd see me at my work,or would not look at me. Twice last week I've seen him and we've locked eyes but were 2 afraid 2 say anything. Should I tell him I want to forget about the past? I don't even want 2 know exactally why we stoped dating now. I just want to hang out and have fun. How do I phrase it in a light friendly way so he'll feel more at ease and less awkward to hang out again?

2006-11-01 16:45:05 · 6 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1

2006-11-01 16:44:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Actually, it's not really a question, but a vent session. I dated my ex bf for 5 months. Not very long, but we said we loved each other and wanted to be together forever! Then his ex gf of 1 1/2 years, who had broke up with him last November, came to him and asked him to get back together. So, he left me Oct 5, and was with her Oct 6. Now, I just heard that they are getting married next month!!! And they are going to get pregnant as soon as they get married. Can you believe that. And..... he once told someone that he could marry her because it was comfortable, and "why not" but he didn't love her like he should...

2006-11-01 16:43:40 · 15 answers · asked by nursejuley 1

I am in middle school and there is this girl I really like. How do I get here to notice me and like me back? I have never liked some one this much so please help. Thanks.

2006-11-01 16:37:59 · 13 answers · asked by 1Einstien 1

2006-11-01 16:37:51 · 12 answers · asked by edward b 3

2006-11-01 16:37:50 · 7 answers · asked by genieejj 3

I have been good friends with this guy for a long time now. We have a really great time together and he's so fun. Lately we've been hanging out more and tonight right before he left my house he kissed me (I didn't really see that coming). I think he's going to ask me out and I dont know what to say. He's a great friend but...I don't feel that he would make a great boyfriend. I feel bad and I dont want to hurt his feelings but I dont really feel any..."chemistry" between us. Does that make sense? I'm flattered that somebody likes me and I have been single for a very long time but...but I just don't know what to think or how to feel about this. Is this normal? Should I say yes and give him a chance anyways? Please help!

2006-11-01 16:37:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some info:
We talked sometimes when we sat nex to each other.
He doesnt talk much though.
I told him I liked the way he did his hair the other day.

But yea...I kinda wanted to know, is it any good to stare at him like every 4 minutes, tryin to get the eye contact thing goin on from across the room?

I really like this dude, dangit! Any suggestions, or advice?

2006-11-01 16:37:18 · 4 answers · asked by jaz 5

This guy that I really really like didnt built enough courage to talk to me when he came to my work(our client). Hes a shy type of person. I told someone to give him my number becuz I am unable to becuz there are too many objectives. Anyway Im not sure if he has my number or not becuz its been about 5 days and he hasnt called me yet assuming he has my number. Some things that I think he is interested in me are 1 everytime before he leaves he looks at me then leaves 2 when i talk to him he listens and laughs at what I say 3 he checked out my bosoms 4 I get really really nervous when he comes around..I never get nervous. I am extremely into him. So is it a good idea if I call him or should I call the person I told to give him my number and find out what happened. I dont wanna let him go by quite honestly but i already initiated that i like him and my number and stuff. So what would be some things that I could do to get the ball rolling? I am 22 btw and he is 25 or 26

2006-11-01 16:37:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

What got you through it?

2006-11-01 16:36:11 · 13 answers · asked by Lin_82 1

Ok let me put this question differently. I have found a FREE DATING site. It cost nothing to join nothing to contact people of interest. It is free. When you read about the site, as you join, the guy who built the site says he is the third biggest. Does anyone know the two bigger ones?
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2006-11-01 16:34:22 · 2 answers · asked by swami242 3

I wore it to a Halloween party on Saturday, and people really liked it. As you can see, the black top underneath kinda disappeared once I got to the party! HaHa! What do you think???


http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=76317190&imageID=1357617457


http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=76317190&imageID=1358423057&MyToken=faca319f-bff3-448e-afea-ad92de5b409a

2006-11-01 16:31:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

anything

2006-11-01 16:30:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous