Actually, it's not really a question, but a vent session. I dated my ex bf for 5 months. Not very long, but we said we loved each other and wanted to be together forever! Then his ex gf of 1 1/2 years, who had broke up with him last November, came to him and asked him to get back together. So, he left me Oct 5, and was with her Oct 6. Now, I just heard that they are getting married next month!!! And they are going to get pregnant as soon as they get married. Can you believe that. And..... he once told someone that he could marry her because it was comfortable, and "why not" but he didn't love her like he should...
2006-11-01 16:43:40 · 15 answers · asked by nursejuley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a grl, i see your view here...you think hes crazy for agreeing to get married and it was so fast it was just like a blur...are you his friend still ?...can you still talk to him?...whether you like it or not people are gonna do things that you wouldnt do...you cant stop him from marrying her if he feels like it...but i get the feeling like he totally brushed you aside for this grl thats why you are like wtf ...i know the feeling....if you do talk to him, let him know gently that he should think about this and you wouldnt want him to do something he might regret...whether he listens or not, its on him...dont dwell on this whirlwind love of his my dear ..just move on hes got his candy its time to get yours...dont get all bitter and resent him for it ...make the best of it will ya?....
2006-11-01 16:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 04:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are better off girl-Get the right man for you.
You should read the book "He's just not that into you" --It's not that you were not good enough for him at all. It was just that he wanted something maybe different and went all the way with her. So what? Move on now. So now go get a guy that will do the backflips for you that you deserve. because he's wants you all the way!!
2006-11-01 16:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by izzual 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instability,..Give that other girl a badge for courage. I personally could not marry a man that doesn't mean what he says. Not to answer a question with a question..but..Have you ever known a relationship to last that was built on mistrust?
2006-11-01 16:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you vented, now let it go! Would you rather find out now that he wants her & not you? Or would you prefer that he left you for her after you have a kid, lots of bills & no money??
Consider yourself lucky & find someone worthy of your love.
2006-11-01 16:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by grrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It;s time to move on. Lifes too short to worry about someone elses life. Dont worry, you will meet the right person someday. And trust me, you will know when you met the right one.
2006-11-01 16:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by really curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you feel better: they'll probably get a divorce. I guarantee, you just sit back, and he'll be looking to get you back......it's happened to me so many times.....guys always realize things slowly. They remember back at the good times they had and why did they do what they did ect....they're stupid!
2006-11-01 16:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by lea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go hun..he's a dog...u don''t need that man sorry boy anyway...just immature..u need to go out and get yourself a real man..let him go be with her..You are better then he is..FORGET HIM
2006-11-01 16:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there, you see? You dodged a bullet! Figure she AND he got what they deserve. And you deserve much better so onward and upward!
2006-11-01 16:45:53 · answer #9 · answered by WindWalker10 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety let it go....wish them well..move on and find someone that will want to marry you..
2006-11-01 16:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋