I what to be a great girlfriend , I cook for him and wash his clothes and I'm always there for him and I'm faithful , but I want to do so much more. Any advice . thanks.
2006-11-01 16:45:49 · 10 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u can be a good girlfriend to ur boyfriend by knowing his problem and try to settle it and always make ur boyfriend happy with u..
2006-11-01 16:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by dilla 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well here is one great piece of advice. First of all let me tell you, I am deeply in love with my boyfriend of 15 months, so I know how you feel. I love doing things for him as well BUT, in my last relationship, it was made very very clear to me, to NEVER expect something from someone, and never let him EXPECT those things of you. You should do those things when you want to. Not because you think you should or because you always used to.... Don't do them all the time. Do them once in a while, so he will appreciate it the most and won't expect it of you all the time.
You're doing as much as you can now. Just spread it out...let it last over the years. You don't want to overload him with outter actions of your love, because sometimes that makes guys pull away a little. But take my first piece of advice....when someone expects something of you, they can become dependent, and there will be times when you can't do everything for him... Just do those things once in a while. Always be faithful, don't pressure him about anything. It sounds like you're being a good partner already
2006-11-02 00:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by CoCo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Shorty Baby, Do you realize how much you are doing for him already as it is! You ARE a great girlfriend already! So tell me, does he cook for you? Does he wash your clothes? Is he there for you and is faithful? Some questions to think about. Because real men, do all those things for their girlfriends too. Just something to think about.
2006-11-02 00:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well that's a good start. My girlfriend and I share laundry duties, share cooking duties, and the cleaning. What she really does for me that so rocks is go to watch football games with me at the bar (gets interested in something I am very interested in). She knows that I get crabby when I am hungry so she doesn't get mad at me if I am short with her right before dinner. It's little things, mostly. Instead of getting mad at me for something she doesn't find interesting or doesn't like, she tries to understand me. That's what makes her the best girlfriend ever.
2006-11-02 00:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by NightTrainWooWoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A imp. thing u must do is that dont be possesive to him.As it destorys the relationship very fast.Boys r not pron enough to take suggestion all the time.
and i want to remind u that,dont do all that u said .as u r her girlfriend and not her mother.u need extra bit of attention.
u r worth of it, as i suppose
2006-11-02 00:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by night_corn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all girlfriend come on why are you even washing his clothes, you are setting yourself to be used..the only way is to show him you care by listening to him when he is down, and make him laugh, nothing more...
2006-11-02 00:50:48 · answer #6 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be there for him.
Laugh at his jokes even if they aren't funny
Dont push his buttons
let him win a fight every once in a while...lol
Talk to him
love him'
make a date night...just the two of you...weather it be a movie or dinner, or just a walk with the two of you
hope that helps
2006-11-02 00:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by Newfie_Girl_13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is "Be yourselves"> that is the reason you are now b/f and g/f. If you make pretentions it will not last for ever.
2006-11-02 00:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by Rammohan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you're doing is enough...being faithful and caring shows how you love him...you don't have to do everything he tells you...like "Have *** wtih me." that doesn't show it...only sexual desire and not your true feelings...
2006-11-02 00:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every guy is different, so....
2006-11-02 00:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋