I've been seeing this girl for awhile, we've gone on a few dates already, kissed a couple of times and spent a bit of time together. The other night she was around at my house having dinner. I decided to sit next to her when she said 'you make me so nervous'. She later slept in my bed but knocked back my advances which was cool but she kept staring at me while I was trying to sleep when i turned over she starts to write messages on my back. What's going on here?? Is she testing me?? Why is she still nervous?? Is this kind of behaviour weird for a girl??
2006-11-01 16:55:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shes probably just kind of flirting. She may want to show you, that yes she does like you and is trying to be more comfortable...but that she is a bit nervous now. Maybe you make her feel differently than anyone else she has dated in the past? Maybe she is afraid of getting hurt? The best thing you can do, is talk to her and TRY to understand her. Continue to take things nice and slow, I'm sure this will help her out of the jitters.
2006-11-01 16:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by CoCo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, to be honest this is kind of weird behavior for a girl. The staring at you while you were going to sleep is especially strange. But maybe she's just nervous that its getting too serious. I was in a relationship like that a while ago, I just didn't know how this guy made me feel, I couldn't decide if I really liked him or if he just wasn't for me. Anyways, it sounds like she's confused. You should ask her.
2006-11-01 16:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by charlottesamanthamirandacarrie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think it's normal for a girl to be nervous at the beginning of a relationship. I mean 3 months into my relationship i still got nervous sometimes. It just means she really likes you and wouldnt want to do something embarrassing or stupid in front of you. Now about the whole writing on ur back..i used to do that too sometimes, lol, it's just childish stuff girls like to do sometimes i guess. i dunno, my boyfriend didnt really mind, but then again it wasnt like i was quiet and communicated with him only through tracing stuff on his back. She needs to talk to you when ur in bed together cuz if she doesnt..then that's strange behavior, so u'd have to ask her what's up with that.
2006-11-01 16:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole thing sounds weird to me, especially the part about going on a few dates and then she's in bed with you. God help us!
2006-11-01 16:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would sound like she wants to take things slow... but sleeping in your bed, now that's a huge mixed signal. Definitely weird. Talk to her.
2006-11-01 16:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope Shes a girl. Its a mixed message thing.
2006-11-01 16:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs some time for physical relation, bcoz kissing its a oral thing, does nt matter, may b she had some past experience that make her scared.
try to spend more time wid her, by comforting her, she'll be fine soon.
2006-11-01 18:11:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be scared that you will just screw her then leave, or she could be a mental patient. In either case, you should take things slowly and take things one step at a time.
Good luck!
2006-11-01 16:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is nervous and confused. try to figure out what message she writes. i think she is a nice girl.
2006-11-01 17:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to sleep with you but also afraid that you wuold ditch her after that. Really, she wants to.
2006-11-01 17:07:39 · answer #10 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋