2006-11-01 16:59:02 · 17 answers · asked by Laffy_Taffygurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to take a stand against him, or else he'll keep bossing you around. then and only then will he back off. If he doesn't then dump him.
2006-11-01 17:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When being with your boyfriend...its suppose to be fun and adventurous...not like "oh great here he goes again"....tell him your honest feelings about him being so controling..tell him how you want respect and love and showing kindness instead of demands all the time.....I hope you were more detailed about the part when he pressures you alot...but Im worried.. do what you think is right for you...not even your "love" one should make that desicion for you...make a wise choice..good luck
2006-11-01 17:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by Mololina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. First of all, he's only the boyfriend, not your father.
Second, start pressuring and demanding things from him and see how he likes it. You should never have to deal with someone who humiliates you. If he doing this now then it might get worse down the road. Good luck!!!
2006-11-01 17:05:51 · answer #3 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that this is a relationship where you should either talk to your bf and tell him how you feel or you should dump him. I know that may sound harsh, but this guy is not good enough for you. If he really loved you, he might care a little more about how you feel and wouldn't pressure you so much to do what he wants to do. But I think before you go to solve this problem, you should definatly go talk to him. DON'T JUST IGNORE HIM.
2006-11-01 17:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by Pretending2beSANE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u should not just deal with. how can u be happy in a relationship if his being like that all the time. is he understanding? Wat does he pressure u about? u should really speak to him. and if he denies his actions u have to make him understand. that can be hard but if he doesn't understand then where does that leave. i don't noe how long u guys have been going out for but u should really talk to him about it. if he makes u uncomfortable in anyway there is a bit of an issue there. TALK TO HIM OK!
sweety don't let him push u around. don't let him walk all over u. ur better than that. u most certainly deserve more than wat ur getting now. u want to be happy in a relationship.
2006-11-01 17:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by pOppY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow me to answer that by quoting something:
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
A person who really loves you will not demand their own way nor pressure you into something. They will care about your wants and desires and will not foist their own upon you.
Find someone who is not so self-centered and who will really love you as you are and not try to make you into his own image.
2006-11-01 17:11:18 · answer #6 · answered by calledkevinalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REPEAT: I am not a door mat. I will not let anyone step on me and like it....baby grl tell him how you feel...speak up for yourself...show him he can not push you around...dont agree with him if you dont want to...thats unhealthy...you got opinions you got your own mind...and he needs to respect that...if you do deal with it, then you will eventually feel bitter and angry and you will create more stress...tell him how you feel and if he dont like it you need your self respect rather than to be his guinea pig...and if he pressures you he might turn ugly and start hitting you. you give an inch hes expecting a mile...nip it in the butt or suffer in silence...i would nip it in the butt....
2006-11-01 17:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 04:53:36 · answer #8 · answered by sashi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him and do it strongly! If you let this start in the beginning of your relationship (assuming here) It will only get worse.
2006-11-01 17:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by FIRE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is demanding now, if you dont get him to lighten up, imagine if your married him., he would be running your life and telling you what to do , when to do... stand up to him now, tell him you care about him, and you are your own person, and stop the macho crap.....
2006-11-01 17:13:17 · answer #10 · answered by churchonthewayseniors 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋