So, there's this guy I met a few months ago and I'd like to get to know him better (but not in a dating way, yet). Does anyone have some ideas of things that we can do together but don't give him the idea that I want to date him?
2006-11-01 15:33:37 · 13 answers · asked by swimmer2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it is called communication. Just tell him, men do not usually understand hints. just be forward and tell him, he will probably be flattered you did. Good luck and God bless
2006-11-01 15:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a friend of his and explain your situation. I'll bet a buddy would set up a casual get together so you can learn more about this guy. If after getting to know him better you decide that you want to date him his buddy could help you learn more about him.
2006-11-01 23:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're doing anything with him, it's a date. that's the definition of date - a meeting of two or more people at a specific time. But if you're looking for an idea of what to do with him without him thinking you like him, maybe you could hook him up with one of your friends, then when you're ready to "date" him you guys can alll have a wild menage a trois. haha.
2006-11-01 23:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can start a conversation with him to know him better, trust me, it works all the time. And when both of you are comfy with each other
2006-11-01 23:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by flo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he likes to go hiking cause most people you know don't really like to go. Or roller blading. Or something that just makes it seem like you need a partner and other people are busy or don't like to do this "thing" or that. Or say you and some friends are getting together and invite his friend and him.
2006-11-01 23:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by lea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then what do you want to do with him? In order to get to know him your gonna have to go out on a date with him or otherwise its just saying hey in the hallway!!
2006-11-01 23:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to hang out in a group of people and he is there. That way you can talk to him and not worry about it, because you will be talking to everyone else too.
2006-11-01 23:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by Thumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, if you are into sports go to an event, or go to a public place. tell him that you do not want to date right now, just friends..See where it goes...
2006-11-01 23:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by redsox3770 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say something about your boyfriend being busy, but you were hoping you could do something since you were looking for more people to have in contact and such as you are looking for new friends......something along those lines.
2006-11-01 23:37:19 · answer #9 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have a conversation with him.
2006-11-01 23:37:07 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋