i am great in bed, very nice, polite, honest, im smart and good looking with a great body, (yes i am a guy) with a great sence of humor. i am not stuck up or conseded. i am 21 and only had 3 girlfriends. girls dont ask me out and they dont stay with me eather. why can't i find somebody? and why can't i keep a loveing relationship? is that normal? is it also posible to be to good in bed?
2006-11-01 15:33:06 · 13 answers · asked by jesse g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing wrong with you. No you cannot be too good in bed. It could be that you are looking in the wong places. I would love a guy like that. Lots of females would. Maybe you should start approaching females instead of letting them approach you. Also, it could be that you are a really good man and none of the females are ready to settle down yet. Just some thoughts
2006-11-01 15:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all..Who told you that you were "great" in bed? The 3 whole girlfriends you've had? Because from the experience I've had, (Ok so I went throuh a slutty period), 21 year old guys aren't THAT experienced. I suppose it mattes when you've lost your virginity and how much experience you've had--But it sure sounds like you're tooting your own horn-And maybe that's why you can't keep a "loving" relationship. Back up the truck and try to focus on how the good qualities of others rather than your own. As far as being "good" in bed, it really depends on the other person and whether you're pleasing them or not. Focus on that instead of your own pleasure and then maybe you'll learn something.
2006-11-01 23:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by court 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get anyone b/c you said "i am great in bed, very nice, polite, honest, im smart and good looking with a great body, (yes i am a guy)with a great sence of humor. i am not stuck up or conseded." So get off yourself and maybe, just maybe someone will come and stick around for a second....
2006-11-01 23:37:57 · answer #3 · answered by denise 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh man join the club. I am 32 and have been going though the same thing my whole life. The only thing I have found is that most of the women I have met or have had a relationship with would like to be with a loser that has no job and is fat and bald. I don't think you or me or any other guy with this problem will ever find the answer as to why.
2006-11-01 23:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by wolann31 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as being too good in bed, maybe these girls have perfect reasons to not stay with you. Who knows maybe the right girl for you might be just around the corner =D Good Luck!!!
2006-11-01 23:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by flo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you just havent found the right person yet thats all. dont give up. i thought the same way you did. i still havent found the right person yet. for the bed part honestly yeah you could be really good but that is not my judge seems how i dont know you at all. lifes short live while you can. dont worry about the small things. enjoy it while you still can..
2006-11-01 23:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by Pam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you contact the 3 girlfriends you had and ask them to honestly tell you what it was about you that made them lose interest in you. Tell them all you want is honesty so you can do something to change what is putting these women off.
2006-11-01 23:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think that you are trying too hard. keep looking you will find the perfect girl. and keep your eyes open because you never know she could be right next to you.
2006-11-01 23:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by allie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're not as smart as you think, I don't know what "sence" or "conceded" mean in that usage. Are those new words?
2006-11-01 23:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by Jay H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be patient you have to find the right girl to have a good relationship
2006-11-01 23:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by Soccer Chik 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋