Singles & Dating - 23 October 2006

I've been going out with him for 2 years when we decided to break up. He said that his work, college stuff, family were taking a toll on him and he just wants to back off. I was also getting pissed because he was distant and not telling me what was wrong. So anyways, we both agreed to break up before our relationship gets too nasty. And we remained to be really good friends. But after 3 or 4 months, things started to go back to how we were. We would go out during weekends and just automatically hold hands. We would kiss when a moment comes. He would pay for my dinner and movies. We would have sex. He calls everynight before he goes to sleep to ask about my day and tells me about his. Both of us didn't date anyone else. We takes care of each other when one of us is sick...etc. All the stuff sounds like what a couple would do to me. But we never really said that we are back together again, and this has been bothering me because i don't know exactly what we are to each other.

2006-10-23 18:25:45 · 9 answers · asked by Deesa 2

2006-10-23 18:22:46 · 13 answers · asked by thrashthemic 1

I just broke up with my bf because he is extremely paranoid,abusive and we don't trust each other. I believe this relationship is not going anywhere if there is no trust.

I am afraid that when I am lonely I may very possibly call him and get back with him,but how do I control myself from making a mistake again?

2006-10-23 18:21:59 · 20 answers · asked by angela 2

How long does it take for an STD to show up in your body?
I know AIDS takes a while to show up in your system but how about others?

2006-10-23 18:21:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2 years with him.he left me we argue alot his things now out the house .he is younger and always said im only 22 i dont wanna fight n argue all my life im older woman,we loved eachother and i was use to him.i love him so so much its hard on me now.i am movin on.but iwonder how can he forget alli done for him.i took care of him 2 years with food,wshin his clothes,buying him things he needed and when he get sa job he breaks out he is greddy.he says he is seeing someone sexually i guess .he wa stype to always come back when we fight alli had ta do is call n say come home now he doesnt come home and is strong minded how this time is he stronger when he was syain he loved me a week when he didnt have a job,will he remember all thegood i did?will he ever think of me?will he ever try coming back?n no im not sitting home waiting or callin him im just curiousif anyone ever been thru this

2006-10-23 18:21:03 · 5 answers · asked by cbutterflyc 2

For ex., hair

2006-10-23 18:19:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just need to forget him forever

2006-10-23 18:17:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a homecoming date who is quiet, not shy, just quiet. we've been talkin but its not to the point where we can sustain a long conversation. any conversation tips? and what do u think my limitations of homecoming bonding would be okay? (i.e. holding hands, cuddling, ect) what do you think? and i should i ask about a corsage and bootineer(sp?) answer plz.. be specific and thx!!

note: hes never had a gf... not saying im his gf it just means he lacks in knowledge of girls/women

2006-10-23 18:16:52 · 1 answers · asked by KikkomanLady 2

I live in Las Vegas,
And I believe we just passed Alaska for the worst men to women ratio in the U.S.A.

It's like 10 guys for every girl,
And I'm sick of it.

Where can I move to get better odds?

2006-10-23 18:07:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm blonde, so this isn't bitterness, just curiousity. What's so great about blondes? My boyfriend has some sort of fetish or something, because everyone he's ever dated (besides this one girl, but she was kind of "loose"). I'm just wondering what's going on...

2006-10-23 18:06:24 · 30 answers · asked by yoyogirl526 1

i have a homecoming date who is quiet, not shy, just quiet. we've been talkin but its not to the point where we can sustain a long conversation. any conversation tips? and what do u think my limitations of homecoming bonding would be okay? (i.e. holding hands, cuddling, ect) what do you think? and i should i ask about a corsage and bootineer(sp?) answer plz.. be specific and thx!!

2006-10-23 18:05:09 · 4 answers · asked by KikkomanLady 2

ok so theres this guy who i really like (A)...and i know he likes me too. :) But his best friend (B)likes me to.. and B doesnt know that A likes me... I think A doesnt want to ask me out because he is afraid that B will pretty much hate him...What should i do?

2006-10-23 18:02:41 · 19 answers · asked by ☀☁❄☀❄rawr 4

wel this girl used to like me but then i screwed up big time at homecoming with her and then i wanted to know her better so i asked her if she wanted to escort each to next class and she just said we're just friends.. am i done here? shes a special girl and it might be hard if any to find another girl like her at my school. advice and comments are appreciated. we're both seniors at highschool

2006-10-23 18:02:35 · 15 answers · asked by joey 3

I always find myself meeting and dating the wrong girls. Either at clubs or bars. I know that's not a good, as I am looking for a long-term relationship. I want a girl that has the total package. My friend gave me advice and told me to go look for them at the grocery stores. LOL Anyother places I should be on the looking at?

2006-10-23 18:02:07 · 11 answers · asked by SD CHARGERS 2

I've had a crush on this girl for a while. Currently High School student. We went out to lunch 2 times (just me and her) and i made her laugh alot, even though i'm very nervious.

"Not sure about the homecomming dance, ill probably go at the last minute once i find somebody to go with. Last year homecomming wasnt as kicking. The game last year was cool. Oh just rememering the memories. I'd like to take you out to lunch again one of these day's what day is best for you?."

THe problem is i dont want to sound desprate, in the begining part, and also at the end it's like im forcing her to go. How can i reword this? Thank!

2006-10-23 18:01:55 · 8 answers · asked by Luis G 1

I have a guy who Im sleeping with from time to time, who says he doesn't really have the time for a relationship other than, "friends with benefits"...but the last time we slept together/he held me in bed. and we cuddled all night (after we had sex).....Do you think this means something? Like perhaps he might be developing feelings for me beyond just "casual sex"? Or am I reading too much into this? (Please- NO mean or rude comments)

2006-10-23 18:01:00 · 12 answers · asked by Angel G 1

Ok, my boyfriend is coming over to my college to stay with me during the weekend, but i can't come up with anything interesting that we can do. Any suggestions? By the way, we are both college students, so we don't have too much spare money.

2006-10-23 17:58:16 · 8 answers · asked by Deesa 2

Well I am misunderstood again, I did have sex twice, I regret it and I want to stop and wait for ms.right after marriage.
I am not a pervert either(just 2 times).Mainly guys, Ladies too with serious advice tell me how to control myself.
Don't just call me names, I wouldn't post it if I were able to do it. So serious answerers please let me know what you been through, incase in my situation....

2006-10-23 17:58:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-23 17:54:41 · 12 answers · asked by Iwonder 1

I have this friend, I will call her Josie, anyways, Josie is beautiful. Seriously. There are only 2 problems with Josie, she has a tiny little bit of a stomach, and she can be annoying. But you see all these skinny stupid annoying girls with boyfriends ALLL the time and Josie for some reason cannot get a boyfriend! I have no idea why! I just want people to tell me why they think she hasn't got a boyfriend, because she likes guys and she flirts with them and they flirt back..just never make a move. Please tell me, this has really been bothering me.

2006-10-23 17:53:54 · 16 answers · asked by Rose 1

but i told him that am scared and nervous cuz am still virgin and he said that he respect my feelings but he wants me to feel safe with him.i know he loves me but am scared he would do it with another gurl cuz he is so hottt and popular and alot of gurls wish to have him but he said that he will never cheat on me and he will wait untill am ready so how can i be ready and take this feelings away and do it and how should i tell him that am ready plzzzzzz

2006-10-23 17:53:00 · 21 answers · asked by aha i wanna know 2

Hey guys I'm new here but I'm in a long distance relationship via IM and cell phone. My girl is sweet and she will do anything to ba with me. What should I do to keep our love strong? She's gonna get to meet me what should we do? It will be our 1st date. She already said she was gonna make out with me but what should we do? Were both really shy and I wanna impress her.








LMK what to do.

2006-10-23 17:52:39 · 7 answers · asked by Pac Man 1

I had two sexual encounters that I regret. And now I am "seeing" this person just for sex. How can I avoid it? I do have feelings/urges , and at the same time I want to be "pure" and wait for the lady I will some day marry...Please any advice...

2006-10-23 17:50:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so i just had a break up and im telling myself i hate him but... then i cant stop thinking about him... what the deal!!

2006-10-23 17:48:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been obsessed about this girl for 5 months and I have had no contact or nothing at all.. N its all I can think about all day and when I wake up I sit in bed for hours thinking of things we could do together.. I am also 14 and now on anti-depressents.

2006-10-23 17:47:46 · 9 answers · asked by 14/m/cali 1

So I work with this man - we get along very well. We have a huge amount of respect for each other and many similar interests. We have both been with our employer for 15 + years and the last 2 we have worked very close together. Except, I approve his pay and am his supervisor. We have discussed the fact that we get along well but should not go even for a drink together due to the rumor mill and how it would appear.
He consumes my thoughts, I have had a few dates but I can't stop thinking I should be with him.

JUST re-enforce that I should NOT go there and maybe get a life!!

2006-10-23 17:47:21 · 11 answers · asked by Tell me 1

Ok, so here's the deal, I have been with this guy for about a month; I've known him for 3. He told me he did not smoke, and that he drank, but occasionally. Last week he told me he had lied, and that he loved getting wasted, and smoked occasionally. He knows I hate smoking, and that I can't tolerate lies. I am gratified he told me the truth, but angry because he thought he had to lie to me for me to like him. I mean, common, why would I drop him cuz he smokes if I already like him??? Anyways, I want to know if he is (1) Telling me the truth because he cares about me and really likes me, (2) Lying to get me to leave him (3) Trying to get me to trust him well enough that I have sex with him, (4) or I am just thinking too much about it, and he's just trying to make sure things work out between us. . .
Please help!!!

2006-10-23 17:45:38 · 12 answers · asked by Marisela S 1

I dated a guy for over 2 months and suddenly we just stopped talking... I had finally gotten him out of my mind and out of no where I can't stop thinking of him :( I don't know if I should contact him or just let it go...

One friend says NO cuz he says a friend of his saw him at a club with a girl and they looked more than friends so that it means he doesn't think of me... another friend says I should contact him cuz I could be letting something good go...

I don't know what to do. I'm TORN! I'm scared to get hurt because I don't think I can handle it....

2006-10-23 17:45:19 · 25 answers · asked by free_martha85 3

how long should i do a secret admirer

2006-10-23 17:42:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is getting annoying, I can't tell anyone about him, and he's really ticking me off right now. What should I do? (And don't worry, there's no pressure on you, I'll take whatever you say into consideration, I'm not asking you to make up my mind NO PRESSURE!!)

Pros:
-We really like(ed) each other
-We are really good friends
-We have a lot in common
-We never run out of things to talk about
-He knows like everything about me
-I know like everything about him
-He goes out of his way to do things for me
-He has baked me cookies twice
-He's okay looking (not that that really matters)
-He's funny/nice
-He does sweet little things for me

Cons:
-He is cocky
-A lot of other girls like him
-A lot of my friends like him
-He talks about his ex's a lot
-He complains about having no one to talk to
-He puts a lot of pressure on me to do the "physical part" of the relationship
-We haven't talked in three days
-We have not classes together
-He sorta likes anot

2006-10-23 17:41:14 · 7 answers · asked by yoyogirl526 1